Sunday, May 5, 2019

We Just Know What We Are Wanting.

Everybody in life has a different story to tell. Everyone has their own path,their own desires, their own wants, and their own needs.Sometimes, it takes time to discover want one desires to do with their life. However, once you find that desire or you find that path you want to ride along, don't give it up for anything or anyone. This is your life and your journey and you belong on it.
So many people have their own opinions on what your life should look like; and something I've learned is to live how I want to, when I want to, and where I want to. I live in Atlanta and have learned everything in Atlanta. I work in a safe,amazing, and thrilling environment: I am an Atlanta female stripper- and I couldn't love it more. I am a prime example of someone who is in the sex work industry and who genuinely adores her job. I have gotten all the backlash, snarky comments, and angry glares. But I wouldn't think of changing my occupation for a minute. Nobody pressured me into it, nobody is making me do it- I chose this for myself.
There is so much negativity around sex work. Some people assume the worst about us, judge us, or put a story to us that couldn't be further from the truth. Well, I 'm writing this article to set the record straight. I am a normal, joyful, and positive woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. Strip clubs in Atlanta have become my happy place and where I find pleasure and joy. I love what I do, and I say that honestly. I only wish and hope people could open their eyes and see the positive parts of sex work. If the word "sex" had more knowledge and understanding behind it, maybe we would be at the point of acceptance around it. Sex is the most natural and normal action a human being can take part in. Pleasure is something (I feel) that everyone wants. We want to be happy, we want to do things that make us feel good- and if you can't admit that one of the things that makes you feel the best isn't sex, you need to be more honest with yourself. There is absolutely nothing bad, or gross, or dirty about desiring sex. That's the best thing about me being a stripper is that I know I bring pleasure and happiness with what I do. I enjoy making people happy and making them smile. I love helping people fulfill their desires; whether that means making them their favorite meal, or helping them achieve a hard goal, or shaking my ass in their face because they love my naked body! I am not ashamed to say that I get naked in front of a bunch of people and feel my sexiest because I have dozens of people drooling over me. Not too many people can say that.
The sex work industry puts a bad taste in people's mouths because of what they "know" about it. But truly, people know nothing about it.They hear something online or watch it in a movie and believe that that is real life. Unless you talk to a stripper or learn the facts about it, you have no idea what goes on behind the scenes. I work in Atlanta strip clubs and with Atlanta stripper agencies because I want to. Atlanta male strippers and Atlanta female strippers make a lot of money and have a great time doing it. I am speaking about Atlanta because this is where I get my experience. Strip clubs in Atlanta are exciting and all I see from the customers is smiles, laughs, googly eyes, drooling,and a genuine look of pure entertainment. Whether it's a male strip club in Atlanta, a Gentlemen's club in Atlanta, an Atlanta adult entertainment experience, a female strip club in Atlanta, everyone there is having an amazing time. The work is exhilarating and exciting. Every time I perform I get an instant rush of adrenaline and can't help but smile. I have never had a bad or uncomfortable experience stripping. I have never felt pressured to perform or intimidated by a boss. I choose this work, just like all of my co-workers. The flexible hours, the insane money, the adrenaline- all of it factors into why I (and so many others) couldn't be more happy and thrilled to be in this line of work. If we didn't want to do it anymore- we wouldn't.
The sex work industry is full of honest and genuine people who know what they are wanting and who they want to be. They push away negativity and judgement and live their life the way they want to and are supposed to. I have never in my life as a stripper felt dirty or gross about myself. And I have never ever felt ashamed of what I do. I proudly tell people what I do for work and whether they want to agree with it or not, I keep a smile on my face. I try to educate people everywhere to know that this isn't dirty work- we just are more open-minded about life and we understand that people want sex. Have you ever really thought about that? Yes! People want sex. People even need sex! If you're willing and wanting to pay for it and someone agrees to fulfill that need- more power to you! There is nothing wrong with escorting, there is nothing wrong with shaking your titties for money, there is nothing wrong with doing exactly what YOU want. Live how you want to and do what you want to. We are not dirty or slimy people. We are just like you. You wouldn't be able to spot us out of a crowd unless we tell you about ourselves and choose to inform whoever we are talking to about our occupation. I can't say this enough: we are just like you. We have a job, we make money, we do what we need to to get by in the world. I just think we have way more fun doing it.


Again, I love my job. I love being a stripper. I love making money and having a hell of a good time doing it. I love meeting other sex workers and talking about how awesome it is to be so comfortable with ourselves and our sexuality that we have the courage to be exactly who we want to be. I have never felt more confident in my life then when I started stripping. I am here to tell everyone out there that has judgement or negativity about the sex industry that the majority of us are in love with our lives and wouldn't want to change a damn thing- so we will continue to shake our asses for anyone who wants to see it.

-Lola, one of the many Atlanta strippers for hire. 

Saturday, April 6, 2019

"How do people who are in an open relationship deal with jealousy?"

The same way people learn to deal with contrast with being afraid for their first day in school, to drive a vehicle (at the very beginning), to speak with people (they find extremely sexy), to go on a very first date, losing your virginity, to cook a meal (they've never cooked before), tend to their garden (better every year that passes), firing a gun (for the first time ever), first time going to a strip club , traveling or moving to a foreign country, so on & so forth. 

Cartoon meme drawing of guy uneffectively using a public bathroom and hold himself by two bathroom walls to keep himself from touching anything but pissing and pooping all over the bathroom in the process.
How to NOT deal with contrast! 😳

We did not come into this world with an exact prescription nor wanting an exact script, diet plan, style of dress attire, particular genre of music to like, kind of company to keep around, one single planned skilled trade to make a living from or way to learn things as we grow up. Everything in life has the contrast of being wanted and the contrast or absence of something unwanted in each and every individual’s life.

Cartoon picture meme of William Shakespeare saying the commonly known phrase,
To be or not be?

 Life has all sorts of variations of subtle, average or extreme moments of contrast that causes soft or strong feelings of uncomfortability, emotional turmoil and fear until this variation is completely avoided, put into a different perspective or the vibration is practiced enough to where it no longer causes discomfort from within which in turn is supposed to be an inner guidance system that simply allows one to sift and sort to find clarity, awareness of one's self and even at times a spiritual awakening of a collective consciousness and the energies and vibrations that are in play in our every being and in every cell in our entire perfect body that supports this consciousness we look out from upon. The human body, the mind & spirit is at its maximum output when people are knowing what they are wanting/not wanting, knowing what they prefer/don't prefer and knowing when their inner voice says let's learn how to do this particular thing better by practicing a repetitive vibration until it becomes easy going, more natural, a lot more familiar or no longer foreign at all anymore. 

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William Shakespeare

This is ultimately what I personally believe life is all about… collecting data. A lot of people ignore the data their gut tells them most of the time are extremely co-dependent or are possibly not open minded to other kinds of views, beliefs or perspectives. Ultimately it boils down to a person just not really knowing what they want, do not know how to stand up for what they are wanting and/or are in total & complete fear of what others might think if they actually stood up for themselves and said, "I LIKE THIS & I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS." This sometimes can be hard for someone who has practiced this vibration for most of their life. Most likely such suffering slows the growth of the higher consciousness down and disconnects them from their true alignment within themself. To find out more about these teachings go here to some of these audio clip links on YouTube:

👉 Abraham Hicks - click link

👉 Ester Hicks - click link

“ THE LAW OF ATTRACTION “

~ A personal request ~

If this attracts you, changes your vibration and your life is no longer the same please drop me a line and tell us your personal story and how you are on a whole new wave length and channeled vibration. That is if you do not mind. We absolutely ❤️ what this has done in our lives, the lives of those closest to us and fully appreciate witnessing the unfolding of a life full of fun, happiness and collective consciousness!

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Master Manifestor

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry 


My name is Cherry, I am an 18 year old exotic dancer for a private company based in Atlanta, Georgia. I started dancing soon after my birthday and haven't stopped since! These are some bullet points of topics and real life situations I couldn't seem to find and thus I wish to enlighten for you and any beginners out there reading this adult blog looking for resources and or simply a platform to relate on.



Trial and Error 

To remember that any aspects and challenges we will inevitably face in life is a learning experience. Give yourself some slack! At the end of the day it's all about understanding the obstacle you are encountering with an open mind and acknowledging your position attached to this setback. There is no need to rush yourself to become something overnight because we are all a continual creation of our aspirations.

I found myself trying to become something I wasn't (Which I plan to touch over in "Private Parties / Club Life" and "Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal",) and it took a lot of trial and error within myself alongside my career to focus in on working towards my personal priorities with being careful to my craft. I believe in individualism to be a beautiful representation of what you can bring to the table with your work and what you bring home.

Accepting each 'failure', for lack of a better term, as an opportunity to learn what to do in the future.
I have definitely bought the wrong dance wear and had to push through those occasional mistakes but make the best of it. Next time, I won't pick an easy route but invest for the long run. My first night dancing was an 8 hour shift at a club in brand new heels, without socks or wrapping a toe or two. Although, I prefer to wear thigh high to comfort my feet a bit...I did go home that night with blisters on my ankles and toes.

Don't overthink those mistakes because there will be a solution to most learning curves. I found wrapping my toes and wearing thick socks did the job.





Expectations And Reality 

A sufficient amount of controversy connected to the exotic entertainment industry, in my opinion coming from the perspective of the dancer, has to do with a lot of expectations versus the reality. There is more to it. More to the entertainer as an individual , whether it be a male stripper or a female stripper for instistance. We still put our pants on the same way you do. There is a nice medium of appreciation for that concept.

I was taken aback of how many humanitarians I came across during the beginning stages of my exotic work.
Anxious to the idea of being 'alone in it' or that maybe I'd become numb for some mysterious reason, I initially thought but quickly understood I simply had to take a step back from the self-sabotage mentality. There is nothing wrong with staying within your own path and loving that security. Although, I found myself disappointed with my own path that it was never enough to the standard I thought to be the expectation. I was focused too much on where I wanted to be and forgot how much I am still learning and how far I've come. Which is the humbling reality of almost every experience I have encountered in my daily life. Especially dancing, I have broken habitual self-sabotaging patterns and worries I take with me to this day. Being grateful for challenges to improve your craft and confidence is empowering.





Drugs


No matter where we go, as we grow and observe throughout this journey we take in your personal lifes and in the work we practice there will be exposure to all lifestyles and barriers we may sincerely relate to or are simply unfamiliar with. I myself, year and almost two months clean now, would like to capitalize on inner conflict. All those feelings and questions you carry are valid and normal.

Each day is taking everything at your own pace, and creating your boundaries attached to those confrontations but visualising your progress following you within the days that will rain and will shine is a comforting balance between yourself and your work. You are not alone in establishing qualities of indapancy from your struggle(s) and still make a living, happy and healthy. Take your pride in the commitment of  this balance, because you made it this far and only you can subject yourself to the unwanted. You set your goals and boundaries. I am very happy and healthy working for a company promoting and lovingly encouraging sobriety,





Private Parties /  Club Life 


Coming from a club to a private company. I want to share my own feelings on positions of self-drive and benefits of indapant work. It is rather rewarding to be in a circumstance of flexible and manageable hours and reaching goals up to your own limitations. Working for myself, I found to be very freeing to say the least. Club life was very intriguing on a physical aspect to staying accountable on working out and gaining my upper body strength doing pole work was always an aspiration of mine I've had for a long time. I obtained communicational skills that I did not know I had the ability to learn and as well bring into my personal life! I am confident with my verbal representation now.

Although, I don't know if I'd ever have interest in going back to any specific establishment. Without any negative connotation. But I definitely enjoy the freedom of traveling and  the exposure to new private parties with having a clientele that is energetically there for me is inevitably a beneficial experience for an active mind. Organization of priorities can be as fun as you make it. Just as I bring up "Trial and Error", it is all about finding your outlet that works best to coincide with your flow!



Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal


  To conclude, for my last subject I am going to touch on is all about goals. Goals! What is the goal for you? What do you want and what you are putting in will be the true turnover. Giving yourself a set reminder of short term and long goals. This is a positive attribute to you spiritually for peace of mind and your end goal. I found writing out all my goals, to a daily regimen or the next 5 years kept me in a clear mind. Staying proactive towards your future. Dancing has been the best self discipline towards almost all of my generalized goals, it forced a side of my mind to think outside of the box and pushed me to want more out of my goals with comfortability and ease. I can't take back any of the experiencing and lessons I've endured, all for the best!


Thanks for reading! If you ever want to book me or learn more about me go my dancer profile page.

Look forward to seeing you!

- Cherry


P.S. - Check me out getting spanked on live stream here. 💗




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Monday, October 29, 2018

Sex Work Myths & Facts Revealed

What exactly is Sex Work?

Sex work is any type of labor or activity where the main goal is to create a sexual or erotic response in someone. Sex work includes prostitution, but it isn't just limited to that. Forms of sex work includes (but is not limited to) a bunch of other things such as stripping, erotic dancing, pro-dom/pro-sub work, webcam modeling, sensual massage, nuru massage, adult film work, pornographic art, fetish modeling, phone sex operating,  being a sugar baby and so much more.


 What Are The Top Myths on Prostitution & Sex Work In The Media?

Most media coverage on the sex trade focuses on street prostitution, youth prostitution, and trafficking of minors. It is very unfortunate but a substantial portion of the facts and figures referenced online and in the media in the world are completely misconstrued or based on studies of particularly vulnerable and small populations of sex workers on a global scale. Below we have listed just a few small examples:
Myth: 300,000 children are trafficked in the U.S. each year.
Fact: This statistic, collected by the Center for Missing and Exploited Children in 2001, is the high-estimate of all male and female children not living at home, who are viewed as vulnerable to exploitation of any kind.
Myth: The average adolescent or adult prostitute or adult industry professional is a male or female who is virtually a slave to a pimp, a prostitution ring or even an organised crime family.
Fact: According to a study of New York adolescents in the sex trade, about half of adolescents are male or transgender. Only 8% were coerced and influenced into entering the sex industry in some form or fashion.
Myth: Approximately 68 percent of sex workers report post-traumatic stress disorder on the same level as those who served in military combat.
Fact: This statistic refers to individuals in nine countries who were contacted via social service organizations, and the methodology behind this study has never been released to the public. The psychological affects of prostitution are remarkably variable depending on the sector, country, upbringing, race, religion, beliefs and most importantly the individual worker and the total sum of their life experiences.
Myth: The average age of entry in the sex trade or adult entertainment is 13 or 14 years old.
Fact: This figure references informal knowledge of social workers working with adolescents and ‘survivor’ organizations whose sole focus is on rescuing people from bad situations. Indoor sex workers, who comprise over 80% of the industry, are significantly less likely to enter as adolescents.
MythThe sex trade is inherently harmful and very dangerous.
FactViolence, mental, physical health risks, and marginalization are not inherent to the sex trade, any more than they are inherent to sexual identity or orientation. Stigma and criminalization are the root causes of harms directly related to sex work. These harms are compounded by intersecting oppression for large numbers of sex workers.
Myth: Prostitution is violence against women, men & the LGBT community (or gang rape, or slavery).

Fact: Although violence, particularly against street workers, is common, most violence is perpetrated by non-clients, individuals who pose as clients, law enforcement officials, and a very small proportion of clients. The same goes for clients of indoor workers.  While news reports frequently vilify clients of sex workers, even abolitionist organizations recognize diversity in what motivates clients to solicit prostitutes.

Outcome Of These Harmful & Hateful Discriminations:
In other words, the overwhelming majority of sex worker clients do not perpetrate violence against sex workers. And the central cause of violence is institutional alienation of sex workers from law enforcement protection and a justice system that leads most sex workers to distrust and fear law enforcement officials. Violent individuals do not fear repercussions and prey on sex workers in particular. Most interactions between sex workers and law enforcement involve arrest, and law enforcement and judicial system officials frequently ignore or doubt reports by sex workers. So sex workers either do not report sexual and physical assault to law enforcement or law enforcement officials do not sufficiently respond to complaints, and individuals remain free and continue to perpetrate crimes against sex workers or even members of society not involved in the sex trade or sex industry.


Canonicle Tag: http://www.new.swopusa.org/learn-about-sex-work


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Monday, October 15, 2018

What are the best strip clubs to visit in Atlanta?

We have a large list of clubs, reviews and information on Gentlemen’s Clubs & such adult establishments. Atlanta is one of the strip club capitals of the world. These girls get fully nude
MC Entertainment & Services

If you are looking for a good reliable list of Atlanta Strip Clubs or Gentlemen’s Clubs in Atlanta this link is where to you might want to go to find some of the best clubs. A list this large I see why the city of Atlanta is growing so fast & thriving so well. It seems as though everyone & their mother are trying to relocate out to here for one reason or another. With the rapidly growing economy this is becoming one of the top 100 trending cities to live in the United States of America in 2018. As many gay bars, gay clubs, night clubs, dive bars, strip clubs, drag shows, full nude bars, swingers clubs, fetish venues, lifestyle parties, video booths, passion parties, sex toy stores, Hollywood film industry, male revues, adult clubs & various other fun adult entertainment venues (not just gentlemen’s clubs) in this city and all the things to do in Atlanta it is no question about whether or not Atlanta most definitely lives up to its name in the U.S. as Hotlanta! 


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Alright, let me give you the run down on the different Atlanta strip clubs and their various virtues (or lack there of): 

**Cheetah** - As many have mentioned, this is the classiest gentlemen’s establishment in Atlanta. Beautiful ladies but it's very cold and stand off-ish. I might go there if I wanted to take a client somewhere but classy generally isn't what I'm looking for in a strip club. Also, the Alluvia (their restaurant) is pretty not bad.
**Pink Pony** - Good looking girls but not as beautiful as the Cheetah girls. They also generally have some pretty stringent no touching rules. That being said, one of my funniest strip club experiences was there. I was with a friend who was drunk out of his mind. He was standing at the stage and quietly taking the ones when the dancer wasn't looking which was lulz enough but what really took the cake was when he got caught he just sheepishly handed her the dollars like he was picking them up for her. The second time he got caught we got ejected which was still pretty funny.
**The Oasis: Good Time Emporium** - You can't really beat a name like that. This is a favorite of mine because you can generally find some pretty hot girls there but not in a scary way. It's a good mix because if you're looking for some... good customer service, from what I understand you can find that there (I don't know from personal experience but one of my female friends was dating one of the dancers there for a while and we had talks about that). Additionally, my all time favorite strip club moment was there when one of the girls was drunk on her 21st birthday and fell off the stage and landed on a customer's table.
**Follies** - While somewhat intimidating, it is known to be excellent in it's own way. Follies is best known for being able to make things happen if you've gone ahead and parted with that particular bit of your soul. I've only been once but there were offers for more and a girl on stage spread herself so wide open I think I could see her ovaries.
**MC Entertainment & Services** - This guys are always a solid "go to" adult entertainment source when it just gets too late now to even go out anymore OR nobody can make up their damn minds of which Atlanta strip club to go to. Even better yet... saves half of you and your friend's asses from going to Atlanta jail or possibly even worse! You know those who have no business going out anywhere because some people can't hold their liquor as well as others in the group. Or even maybe everyone pre-gamed a bit too hard and nobody wants to go through the haste of even going out. All these have been reasons I've called and used this local company's entertainment services. They are the real deal Atlanta stripper delivery service! It almost seems as if you can order literally anything online these days... 
Thank God! 🙏
**Clermont Lounge** - A staple of Atlanta culture, the Lounge is situated in the basement of a motor court. It has been featured on Insomniac with Dave Attel. Last time I was there, their only beer was PBR in a can. It is affectionately known as "Where strippers go to die" because the average stripper age seems to be 65 there. It is a great place to ninja on your unsuspecting friends and you will never look at your grandmother the same.

**Swinging Richards** - I've never been but gay people and girls out for a night seem to love it. Don't get tricked into going. Ever.

That covers most of the major ones. There are ones that feature more African Americans more than others (Onyx, Magic City, etc.) but that's not really my cup of tea so I can't comment.

Sunday, October 7, 2018

A Few Tips For Loving a Stripper

  Hi there! My name is Roxy and I am an Atlanta stripper working with MC Entertainment & Services. I have been stripping off and on for about 7 years. Within that time frame I have fallen in and out of love a few times and, each experience has been different when it came to my job. First off, let me just say that dating a stripper is not for everyone; It requires you to be very secure in both your relationship and self esteem. The hours are late and unpredictable, the work is obviously very sexual, and your partner is generally going to be hella hot. If your feeling a bit like T-Pain, here are some tips that can help you to make a relationship with a dancer happy and healthy.
                                                                             Youtube

-Jealousy is a totally normal emotion in every relationship, how you express and deal with it is the important part. I myself am in a polyamorous relationship with my current partner so we have quite a bit of practice in dealing with the green eyed monster, and even that hasn't made him immune to the feelings that can affect people that date dancers. Honesty and communication are the key to any healthy relationship and that need just multiplies when you add other people into the equation, whether it be for fun or funds. Talking about your feelings with your partner can help you get to the root of the issue; for many it is insecurity, for others it may be the ingrained stigma associated with sex work in our society. Remember that your feelings are valid but your reason behind them isn't always. 
                                                                      Relationshipremedy.com

-Have realistic expectations of your partner. Stripping is not a full time, 9-5 job. The hours are a little more predictable when working a club but are still going to keep your partner out late. Working on call parties, there have been a few times that I have had to cancel or leave dates early to go work. My partner understands that this is a possibility and, while not stoked about it, is totally accommodating.

-Be respectful. We deal with unfortunate attitudes about our jobs from enough people, your partner needs for you to be accepting and supportive of what they do. 

-Enjoy it! Come on friend, look at who you are with! People literally pay to just look at what you get to rub up on for free! Stripping keeps me in great shape, which is helpful in the bedroom (Im looking at you woman on top positions) and I've learned some really sexy tricks to seduce my partner with. For me personally, I get really turned on when I'm dancing and that bodes well for him when I crawl into bed upon getting home from a party.

All in all, dating a stripper is what you make it. As with most of life, I say enjoy the ride (and the rides that come with it).
                                                                           Trithe.com

Is a Strip-O-Gram a bit too much?

How do I know or how can I tell if a Strip-O-Gram is or isn't too much for a party or to get for a loved one?

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There really isn't any way to tell if your lover, friend, family member or co-worker will get mad at you if you order them a stripper for their special day or not...

Not sure if your lover, your friend, a close family member or co-worker is going to love you or hate you forever after ordering them adult entertainment? You are definitely not the first one to be in this situation or predicament. More than 50% of bookings for male and female exotic dancers and strippers are primarily last minute. Most hold back and refrain from their first intuition when they acquired the genius and perfect gift idea out of fear. The seed is planted. Most likely a combination of the guest of honor's feelings provokes the idea to materialize as the night goes on. The more alcohol is consumed at the party or event people tend to become less reserved until Boom! The moment has come. Everyone is drunk, good music playing in the air and the party needs a second charge and spark to set it off just as you invisioned in the first place. The only problem is literally almost every dancer in the entire city is booked up and agencies are scambling to try to find you someone, really anyone, to come perform for your party last minute. This sometimes can take hours to try to line up on a busy weekend. Many have experienced excitement, eagerness and joy at the actual thought, "Yes, let's do this"! An hour or two into it you start to rethink it all. What if they never show up? Or what if the guest of honor passes out or everyone is gone by the time he/she arrives? All are possible scenarios for sure! This my friend is the perfect opportunity and occasion to take full advantage of a Strip-O-Gram! Why this versus just ordering a regular stripper? I recommend this because if you are still worried if something will turn out okay or go over smooth with everyone present at the party (guest, guest of honor, home owner, family present, children present or public setting), this is something that can be customized and tailored to your liking. A Strip-O-Gram is where you surprise whoever with a stripper in full costume (ie; police, military, fireman, dress attire, casual, pool boy, server, hotel manager, handyman, cowboy, chef, leather, latex, 50 shades of grey, bunny costume, school girl, super hero, mascot, etc.) and role play their character costume for a few minutes. Then they start their strip show performance on the guest of honor. I recommend these because they are quick, easy, cheaper, user friendly and can be totally customized to your liking. Say for instance it wasn't perhaps the most ideal or appropriate environment. These entertainers doing the Strip-O-Grams know these are more for the "SURPRISE" and "WOW'' factor of it all. These entertainers can get full nude, half nude, just top less or keep it classy and leave their tops and bottoms on. The male dancers can be given special instructions such as, "Just go shirtless with light touching and dancing", because there are family, kids and children present. It can even be, "Hey, let's play it by ear and see how it goes". It can be, "Go all out and embarrass the shit out of them", or, "Hey, lets keep it to a thong, booty shorts and nothing too over the top, vulgar or genitals close to face". These stripper, exotic dancer and adult entertainers know these Strip-O-Grams can literally be anywhere between 5 mins all the way up to a couple or few hours depending on your guest. A Strip-O-Gram is probably the safest, best and most efficient way to test the waters when it comes to ordering a stripper online for someone you do or don't know what their response(s) will be like. If the party or crowd is totally into your party stripper then most likely they will get involved, encourage the performer, tip them and play a few of the entertainer's party games (if it's a female stripper). If tips are flowing steadily enough, then entertainers are likely to stay until the tips stop. A lot of people in the U.S.A. book these strippers on actual Strip-O-Grams for office parties, corporate events, birthday parties, bachelorette parties, sorority parties, family parties, public parties, restaurants, hair salons, nail salons, a country club, venue spaces, bars, night clubs, retirement parties and retirement homes. Most adult performers, entertainers and models have a slew of costumes to choose from if they have been in the business a few years. Now of course if your heart is set on Princess Leia, Darth Vader, a Super Hero or a Disney costume of some sort to actually be stripped out of, I believe at least half of the costume has to be recompensated to the entertainer.  These so called ' Strip - O - Grams ' are most useful and quite beneficial for the "less" comfortable and more socially awkward occasions where the taboo surprise will actually be in front of other close loves ones or associates. This could be for example members of a family, a co-worker(s), somewhere out in public, for a mom, for a dad, for a son, for a daughter, for a brother, for a sister, for a grandfather, for a grandmother, for a grand daughter, for a grand son, for an aunt, for an uncle, for a neice, for a nephew, for a cousin, for a step mom, for a step dad, for a loving girlfriend, for a loving boyfriend, for a close personal friend, for a best friend, for a close roommate, for a classmate, for a boss, for an employee, for a business partner, for a teacher, for a neighbor, for a wife, for a husband or for a husband AND wife! If not any of those one could just simply do this as a prank to someone you absolutely can't stand, want to humiliate, want to embarrass, you do not like or do not care about whatsoever. Mainly just because you know they will hate it and then they will hate you even more than ever! Mwahahaha! Mmmm... sweet sweet revenge. Lol. Just kidding... Or am I??? Let's not forget that Strip-O-Grams have been around for nearly 50 years. These have always been and can be good for nice big birthday celebrations such as a sweet sixteen birthday party (no touching & no nudity), a good eighteenth birthday party idea celebration (welcome to adulthood), a turning 21 year old birthday party surprise (first time can drink with live strippers ...at the same time) or a big 30th birthday party (coming into manhood, adulting & planning or practicing parenthood). Also these strippergrams are ideal and great fo a 40th birthday party (established in life, career & a clear sense & taste in relationships), a big 50th birthday party surprise (celebrating over the hill), a 60th birthday party gift idea (because they can't simply remember the rest of their years so why not) or even a big 70th or 80th birthday party surprise gift and present (because you just raised the life insurance policy & need money). Anybody older than that should probably consult a doctor or physician to make sure their heart is healthy enough for sex or at least to undergo such a wild and exciting party or event they won't know what to do with! If you can't figure out a party "reason or excuse" then you can always just order one for yourself for a private one on one show performance before ordering one online for a larger party or better yet before dragging everyone out to a strip club. Especially when you already know more than half of your group will veto the strip club or gentlemens club idea, either just vote against it or you know they would never be caught dead or alive near expecially inside an adult establishment such as a male revue, a male strip club or even a female strip club in the first place. You know how many of your friends just absolutely loved and adored the adult cinema, "Magic Mike or Chocolate City," whether they have ever even been to a strip club before or not. Everyone loves to entertain the idea but nobody will pull the freakin' trigger! So stop being THAT guy or girl who is the one always trying to drag or talk their friends into going out and having some adult fun. You can have the party entertainment literally delivered to your door like Uber Eats or any other kind of modern mobile delivery program or platform out there this day and age. This can be done reglardless of whether you are in Atlanta, Nashville, Phoenix, Las Vegas, New York City, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Seattle, Chicago, Denver, Dallas, Houston, Austin, New Orleans, Panama City Beach, Orlando, Miami, Jacksonville, Savannah, Charlotte, Jersey Shore, Baltimore, Washington, Philadelphia or even outside of the country! These mobile strip clubs and stripper agencies are all over the entire United States and for the most part all over the world. Just always do your research on the company or independent contractor before booking them. Check their reviews anywhere you can check them online, make sure they don't practice bait & switch tactics and always make sure that there is a live customer service rep answering your call just in case you need to get a hold of them for whatever reason. Any corner of the market online thorough research must be done because we all work entirely too much and too hard to just be swindled and bamboozled out of our hard earned income and money! Do not get ripped off ordering strippers online. So I truly hope my blog on Strip-O-Grams helped you out some and cleared the air some as far as what you might end up doing for your friend or loved one's birthday, bachelor, bachelorette, divorce, college, hotel, house, party bus party, mansion party, office party, corporate party, anniversary party, going away party, welcome home party, graduation party, retirement party, military party, summer party, lake party, boat party, beach party, pool party, tupperware party, tea party, poker party, sports party, football party, soccer party, holiday party, dragon con party, hooter girl party, lifestyle party, coming out party, swinger party, adult party, botox party, LGBT party, sex toy party, lingerie party, newly single party, pajama party, sleep over party, teen party, surprise party, celebrity party, man cave party, sports party, frat party, sorority party, house warming party, welcome the new neighbors party, hen's night party, game night party, costume party, Halloween party, Easter party, Christmas party, New Years Eve Party, toga party, wine tasting party, dance party, dinner party, pizza party, BBQ party, cocktail party, murder mystery party, Christmas in July party, karaoke party, pirate party, back to school party, Avon party, decades party, game day party, luau party, 4th of July party, Australian Day party, Mardi Gras party, flapper party, gangster party, casino party, when I grow up party, ABC party, Valentines Day party, black hearts party, Thanksgiving Day party, Melbourne Cup party, Disney party, super heroes party, Rubiks Cube party, beauty & the geek party, red cup party, anything but clothes party, silly hat party, Hollywood party, 90's Party, round the world party, masquerade ball party, zombie party, ugly sweater party, Harry Potter party, vampire party, fairy party, princess party, make out party, themed party, bingo party, 

Sunday, September 30, 2018

Alora Jaymes the Fetish Model, Cosplay Model & Stripper

Hey everyone!

     My name is Alora Jaymes. I have been modeling since 2008 and in the adult industry since 2012.
But I have been a Nerd my whole life! One thing I have learned is that Nerds are everywhere and a lot are very perverted! I have recently started getting involved with cosplay and I love it! One thing that MC Entertainment & Services with their Atlanta strippers not in a strip club offers is you get to choose what cosplay costume you would like to see me wear. There are so many characters to choose from that have sexy outfits! I have determined if 'The Force Was Strong' with a bachelor at a party I went to where his friends told me their friend really liked Star Wars! I have also seduced as Elektra but unfortunately that guy didn't dare to tip near enough for us to stay too long lol  
This year I became a part of MyGeekGoddess which is a cosplay website where the girls strip out of their costumes in sexy photo sets and we do burlesque at the conventions we attend!
I now have a Lady Spock act, a Daphne from Scooby Doo, a Vampirella, a Roxanne from A Goofy Movie, and I'm also a part of one of their first group acts which is a Hogwarts act and I'm the Gryffindor!

I'm really looking forward to collecting more cosplay costumes to get Naughty and Nerdy in many ways!


If you want to check out any of my cosplay then go follow me on Instagram and also check out MyGeekGoddess for more Naughty Nerdy girls!

@AloraJaymes 

@MyGeekGoddess


Sunday, September 23, 2018

How to get a Stripper Booty 101

Top 5 Exercises for a Stripper Booty


How do strippers get a perfectly juicy booty? Here are the absolute best five exercises that will have you looking like an Atlanta stripper, plus a full booty workout. Your new booty will make people stop, stare, and say OMG, Becky look at her butt!

1.  Squats

Squats are a girls best friend! This compound, full body movement is guaranteed to increase the strength and size of your legs and booty. Squat movements also stabilize your core, and who doesn't love a sexy six pack? Body weight squats can be done anywhere, at home, during your lunch break, or at the gym. Adding weight and using a sumo stance will make your booty pop!
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2. Deadlifts

Perky booty alert! Deadlifts are key in building lifted buns since they work your whole backside, including glutes and hamstrings. This compound movement will also help you create a tight core and a strong back. Try starting with light dumbbells until you master the movement, then try a barbell when you are ready for more weight.
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3. Lunges

Boost and build you booty muscles by adding lunges to your routine. Step with a long stride to target your glutes, or tone your inner thighs and add curve to your hips with a curtsy lunge. Try body weight lunges at home or add weight to  increase muscle volume. 
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                            Reverse Lunge                                                          Curtsy Lunge

4. Cable Kickbacks

Standing Cable Kickbacks, yes please! Kickbacks are one of the best exercise for shaping and strengthening your booty. Cable kickbacks isolate the gluteus muscles so that you can focus on building that booty. You will feel the burn and it will feel incredible knowing that your booty is impeccable! 
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5.  Glute Thrusts

You are well on your way to your stripper booty! Glute thrusts will give you a higher, rounder, firmer booty. You might feel awkward trying glute thrusts for the first time, but they are truly worth it. Try setting up a bench in a corner of the gym or in the group exercise room for some privacy. You can add  weight with a barbell or pre-loaded barbell. 
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Stripper Booty Workout

Let's get to building that stripper booty with workout that combines 5 exercises. You got this girl!

Sumo Squat: 3 sets of 8-12 reps
Basic stiff-leg dead lift with dumbbells: 4 sets of 8 reps
Reverse lunge x Curtsy Lunge: 3 sets of  10 reps (total lunges each leg)
Standing Cable Kickbacks: 3 sets of 8 reps (each leg)
Glute Thrusts: 4 sets of 10 reps - 3 second hold at top of  thrust
20 minutes on the stair climber machine

Tuesday, September 18, 2018

2018 Strippers and Strip Clubs LIFE HACK Tricks - A Must See!

Here Are Some Tips For Getting The Most From A Stripper 💋
This section includes some tips (from bachelorpartytips.com) on how to get the most from a male or female stripper. The guide is color coded:

Blue is primary for the boys
Pink is primarily for the ladies
Green is a go for both
Red is not really recommended.

Plan Ahead - As with anything, you've got to remember the 6-P principle: Proper Planning Prevents Piss-Poor Performance. Things to plan include:
Will the stripper come to you or will you go to them?

Do you have an adequate location?

Do you have adequate transportation?

What exactly do you want to see? Please don't let the law cloud your judgement here. Breaking the law at a bachelor/bachelorette party is par for the course.

Shop And Ask Around -There is always someone who knows more than they should about strippers. Find out which of your friends has spent too many singles lately and find out what they know. Be warned, strip clubs change personnel rapidly. A club that had the best strippers last year could be struggling now. The same is true for home stripper services.

Be Demanding On The Phone - The time to negotiate is on the phone. When the stripper has arrived and forty of your drunk friends are inside you won't be in a position to negotiate. The time to negotiate is when you are speaking on the phone and trying to arrange for a stripper. At this stage if they don't agree to your proposal you can always call another place. Be tough on the phone.

See Pictures - It isn't a bad idea to look at what you are ordering. It might require a visit to the stripper's agency, but it might be worth it. After all who doesn't want to spend five minutes looking at hot bods in bathing suits.

Get Something In Writing - An agreement is writing is all you will have if the stripper doesn't arrive, is four hours late, doesn't perform, etc. Remember, you are dealing with questionable folks here. If they were reliable, responsible folks they would have a real job.

Possible Disappointments -

The stripper is late: HOw punctual can a person that does THIS for a living be? Any more than an hour late is a buzz kill. (it might be a good idea to schedule the stripper to be done in time to hit the strip joints afterward).

Bad seats at the strip bar: Call ahead to get better seats and a break on admission. The time to negotiate is not standing at the door. What are you going to do, leave?

Ugly stripper. Some of them are really ugly. The more remote your location the uglier they will probably be. Not everyone is willing to take off their clothes for money.

Boring show. Make sure something funny is going to happen. Most strippers have a "hook". It could be the pizza guy thing or the part where the groom drinks tequilla from her navel. Make sure it is something good. I saw a show once where the stripper (really kind of a dominatrix) handcuffed the groom and dressed him up with her lipstick. "Isn't he pretty" she screamed. It was hilarious.

Bride or Groom is not the center of attention. Make sure the stripper knows who the guest of honor is.

The law doesn't allow anything fun: This is a problem. It is not unsolvable however, you just have to do some more work. Find someone that knows someone that can get the real thing. Find out which strip clubs are breaking the law these days. I'm sure one of them is.

No Sober Form Of Transportation: This can be a common occurance. The D.D. has a few too many. Ouch. Pick your D.D. carefully.

You bought stripper drinks all night, paid for ten lap dances and the stripper does not go home with you: You are an idiot. Give up now.

Licking Lesbians Might Not Cut It - I have a friend that judges a bachelor party by how kinky things get. Actually, every guy I know judges a bachelor party this way. If you want kink, you've got to agree to it up front. Make sure the stripper(s) will bring their own equipment and try to get an agreement that they will use it. Otherwise you might pay for Lesbians and get two girls hugging. Like Larry Says "If I see one more Lesbian show without a double-@!(@* I'm going to puke".

You Might Not Like What Is Under That Thong - Male strippers generally "tie it off" or use a cock ring to maintain their erection. Let's face it, dancing in front of a crowd of drunk women isn't a turn on after the first three times. So you might not want to see the device that was necessary.

A Fiver Isn't Worth Five Singles - The stripper can't tell the difference between a five and a single from two feet away. Besides, five bucks isn't going to get you anything. See the idiots a the end of the bar, they are plopping down twenties and fifties and when the night is over they will be just as lonely as you.

Keep the money close to home - Don't throw money at the stripper. That is a waste. Get them to sing for their supper baby!

Put a rolled up single behind your ear.

Put a buck in your back pocket and scream "Grab it if you want it!".

Put a rolled up single in your cleavage.

No Cash Advances - The biggest scam going is for strip clubs to give you a cash advance on your credit card. Of course there is a surcharge. Sometimes I hear it is upwards of five bucks. There is nothing like making budgeting decisions with a strippers butt in your face. Decide how much bread you are bringing and stick to it. Hide an extra twenty bucks in your shoe. Your friends will think you are terrific when, after you close the last bar you can buy everyone grilled cheese sandwiches at the all night diner.

Lap Dances Should Be Done In Private - That way you can lie about what happened. After all, who wants to say that you wasted 20 bucks and all you got was a quick feel. It is much better to tell your friends some lewd tales the next day.

Learn The Real Rules By Watching Guys With Tattoos - Any strip club has regulars, they know what you can touch. They have tattoos. They sit near the stage. Watch them.

Hookers and Gigolos - You might want to think twice about this. Even if you have thought that it might be exciting, have you considered these factors:

Your friends will either be disgusted or will be pounding on the door to be next.

You may not be the first that night. Heck, you might not even be in the first ten.

You are one condoms thickness away from a venereal disease.

They are faking.

You really aren't that good.

Tattoos or No Tattoos - I once commented that I didn't like strippers with tattoos. One of my friends said that he did. We had a little discussion. Another friend pointed out that if you look around the strip bar the guys spending all the money have tattoos and they like tattoos. I guess strippers with tattoos just know their target audience a little better.

A Strip-O-Gram - Any place cute enough to call it a strip o gram, isn't cool enough to show anything hot. Do you really want to shell out a couple of hundred bucks and then not see any genitalia?

Lying - When telling the story to your girlfriend or boyfriend always do two things:
Add one item of clothing to the minimum that the stripper had on. If they were nude, say they had on a thong, if they had a thong say it was underwear. If they wore underwear, shoot yourself, you are an idiot.

Always leave out the raunchiest part and emphasize the cutest. Don't talk about the part where the lesbians had sex with each other. Talk about how Bob was so drunk he fell asleep before the stripper arrived.

You spent 10 dollars in singles. Everyone knows ten bucks can't buy enough to get you in trouble.

What is it With The Bodyguard Guy - If he is a little guy, they say he has a gun. If he is a big guy he doesn't need one. I never figured I'd test them. Be my guest though. Let me know how it goes (if you survive).

Avoid Up selling - Don't buy the strippers anything. This is called "up selling". It is the act of getting customers that have entered the club to spend more than they expect. First it was admission, then a six dollar beer, will you continue with a ten dollar lap dance, a twenty dollar private dance, buy the stripper a drink (for ten bucks), One hundred might get you into a shower with two strippers (hmmm, maybe up selling isn't too bad).

Be Wary of Pay-In-Advance - If these people were honest in business they wouldn't be exploiting people. If the stripper didn't have a cocaine problem they wouldn't be dancing for a living. Scumbags and coke-heads aren't the kind of people you should trust to make good on a promise. If you have to pay 1/2 in advance do so. Don't expect much if you pay everything up front.

If you are the groom, don't wear underwear - Everyone has seen the stage show where the stripper takes off the grooms pants to writer her name on his underwear. We have also seen the group of strippers give the groom a wedgie. How about when the strippers tear the waistband off his tighty whities. Give everyone a show, leave the underwear behind.


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