Showing posts with label strip clubs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label strip clubs. Show all posts

Saturday, April 6, 2019

How do people deal with jealousy in an open relationship?

The same way people learn to deal with contrast with being afraid for their first day in school, to drive a vehicle (at the very beginning), to speak with people (they find extremely sexy), to go on a very first date, losing your virginity, to cook a meal (they've never cooked before), tend to their garden (better every year that passes), firing a gun (for the first time ever), first time going to a strip club , traveling or moving to a foreign country, so on & so forth. 
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How to NOT deal with contrast! 😳
We did not come into this world with an exact prescription nor wanting an exact script, diet plan, style of dress attire, particular genre of music to like, kind of company to keep around, one single planned skilled trade to make a living from or way to learn things as we grow up. Everything in life has the contrast of being wanted and the contrast or absence of something unwanted in each and every individual’s life.
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To be or not be?
 Life has all sorts of variations of subtle, average or extreme moments of contrast that causes soft or strong feelings of uncomfortability, emotional turmoil and fear until this variation is completely avoided, put into a different perspective or the vibration is practiced enough to where it no longer causes discomfort from within which in turn is supposed to be an inner guidance system that simply allows one to sift and sort to find clarity, awareness of one's self and even at times a spiritual awakening of a collective consciousness and the energies and vibrations that are in play in our every being and in every cell in our entire perfect body that supports this consciousness we look out from upon. The human body, the mind & spirit is at its maximum output when people are knowing what they are wanting/not wanting, knowing what they prefer/don't prefer and knowing when their inner voice says let's learn how to do this particular thing better by practicing a repetitive vibration until it becomes easy going, more natural, a lot more familiar or no longer foreign at all anymore. 
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William Shakespeare
This is ultimately what I personally believe life is all about… collecting data. A lot of people ignore the data their gut tells them most of the time are extremely co-dependent or are possibly not open minded to other kinds of views, beliefs or perspectives. Ultimately it boils down to a person just not really knowing what they want, do not know how to stand up for what they are wanting and/or are in total & complete fear of what others might think if they actually stood up for themselves and said, "I LIKE _____________ & I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS." This sometimes can be hard for someone who has practiced this vibration for most of their life. Most likely such suffering slows the growth of the higher consciousness down and disconnects them from their true alignment within themself. To find out more about these teachings go here to some of these audio clip links on YouTube:
πŸ‘‰ Abraham Hicks - click link
πŸ‘‰ Ester Hicks - click link
“ THE LAW OF ATTRACTION “
~ A personal request ~
If this attracts you, changes your vibration and your life is no longer the same please drop me a line and tell us your personal story and how you are on a whole new wave length and channeled vibration. That is if you do not mind. We absolutely ❤️ what this has done in our lives, the lives of those closest to us and fully appreciate witnessing the unfolding of a life full of fun, happiness and collective consciousness!
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Master Manifestor

Sunday, September 23, 2018

How to get a Stripper Booty 101

Top 5 Exercises for a Stripper Booty


How do strippers get a perfectly juicy booty? Here are the absolute best five exercises that will have you looking like an Atlanta stripper, plus a full booty workout. Your new booty will make people stop, stare, and say OMG, Becky look at her butt!

1.  Squats

Squats are a girls best friend! This compound, full body movement is guaranteed to increase the strength and size of your legs and booty. Squat movements also stabilize your core, and who doesn't love a sexy six pack? Body weight squats can be done anywhere, at home, during your lunch break, or at the gym. Adding weight and using a sumo stance will make your booty pop!
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2. Deadlifts

Perky booty alert! Deadlifts are key in building lifted buns since they work your whole backside, including glutes and hamstrings. This compound movement will also help you create a tight core and a strong back. Try starting with light dumbbells until you master the movement, then try a barbell when you are ready for more weight.
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3. Lunges

Boost and build you booty muscles by adding lunges to your routine. Step with a long stride to target your glutes, or tone your inner thighs and add curve to your hips with a curtsy lunge. Try body weight lunges at home or add weight to increase muscle volume. 
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                            Reverse Lunge                                                          Curtsy Lunge

4. Cable Kickbacks

Standing Cable Kickbacks, yes please! Kickbacks are one of the best exercise for shaping and strengthening your booty. Cable kickbacks isolate the gluteus muscles so that you can focus on building that booty. You will feel the burn and it will feel incredible knowing that your booty is impeccable! 
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5.  Glute Thrusts

You are well on your way to your stripper booty! Glute thrusts will give you a higher, rounder, firmer booty. You might feel awkward trying glute thrusts for the first time, but they are truly worth it. Try setting up a bench in a corner of the gym or in the group exercise room for some privacy. You can add  weight with a barbell or pre-loaded barbell. 
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Stripper Booty Workout

Let's get to building that stripper booty with workout that combines 5 exercises. You got this girl!

Sumo Squat: 3 sets of 8-12 reps

Basic stiff-leg dead lift with dumbbells: 4 sets of 8 reps

Reverse lunge x Curtsy Lunge: 3 sets of  10 reps (total lunges each leg)

Standing Cable Kickbacks: 3 sets of 8 reps (each leg)

Glute Thrusts: 4 sets of 10 reps - 3 second hold at top of  thrust

20 minutes on the stair climber machine

Tuesday, September 18, 2018

2018 Strippers and Strip Clubs LIFE HACK Tricks - A Must See!

Here Are Some Tips For Getting The Most From A Stripper πŸ’‹

This section includes some tips (from bachelorpartytips.com) on how to get the most from a male or female stripper.

The guide is color coded:

Blue is primary for the boys

Pink is primarily for the ladies

Green is a go for both

Red is not really recommended.


Plan Ahead - As with anything, you've got to remember the 6-P principle: Proper Planning Prevents Piss-Poor Performance. Things to plan include:
Will the stripper come to you or will you go to them?

Do you have an adequate location?

Do you have adequate transportation?

What exactly do you want to see? Please don't let the law cloud your judgement here. Breaking the law at a bachelor/bachelorette party is par for the course.

Shop And Ask Around -There is always someone who knows more than they should about strippers. Find out which of your friends has spent too many singles lately and find out what they know. Be warned, strip clubs change personnel rapidly. A club that had the best strippers last year could be struggling now. The same is true for home stripper services.

Be Demanding On The Phone - The time to negotiate is on the phone. When the stripper has arrived and forty of your drunk friends are inside you won't be in a position to negotiate. The time to negotiate is when you are speaking on the phone and trying to arrange for a stripper. At this stage if they don't agree to your proposal you can always call another place. Be tough on the phone.

See Pictures - It isn't a bad idea to look at what you are ordering. It might require a visit to the stripper's agency, but it might be worth it. After all who doesn't want to spend five minutes looking at Hot bods in bathing suits.

Get Something In Writing - An agreement is writing is all you will have if the stripper doesn't arrive, is four hours late, doesn't perform, etc. Remember, you are dealing with questionable folks here. If they were reliable, responsible folks they would have a real job.

Possible Disappointments -

The stripper is late: HOw punctual can a person that does THIS for a living be? Any more than an hour late is a buzz kill. (it might be a good idea to schedule the stripper to be done in time to hit the strip joints afterward).

Bad seats at the strip bar: Call ahead to get better seats and a break on admission. The time to negotiate is not standing at the door. What are you going to do, leave?

Ugly stripper. Some of them are really ugly. The more remote your location the uglier they will probably be. Not everyone is willing to take off their clothes for money.

Boring show. Make sure something funny is going to happen. Most strippers have a "hook". It could be the pizza guy thing or the part where the groom drinks tequilla from her navel. Make sure it is something good. I saw a show once where the stripper (really kind of a dominatrix) handcuffed the groom and dressed him up with her lipstick. "Isn't he pretty" she screamed. It was hilarious.

Bride or Groom is not the center of attention. Make sure the stripper knows who the guest of honor is.

The law doesn't allow anything fun: This is a problem. It is not unsolvable however, you just have to do some more work. Find someone that knows someone that can get the real thing. Find out which strip clubs are breaking the law these days. I'm sure one of them is.

No Sober Form Of Transportation: This can be a common occurance. The D.D. has a few too many. Ouch. Pick your D.D. carefully.

You bought stripper drinks all night, paid for ten lap dances and the stripper does not go home with you: You are an idiot. Give up now.

Licking Lesbians Might Not Cut It - I have a friend that judges a bachelor party by how kinky things get. Actually, every guy I know judges a bachelor party this way. If you want kink, you've got to agree to it up front. Make sure the stripper(s) will bring their own equipment and try to get an agreement that they will use it. Otherwise you might pay for Lesbians and get two girls hugging. Like Larry Says "If I see one more Lesbian show without a double-@!(@* I'm going to puke".

You Might Not Like What Is Under That Thong - Male strippers generally "tie it off" or use a cock ring to maintain their erection. Let's face it, dancing in front of a crowd of drunk women isn't a turn on after the first three times. So you might not want to see the device that was necessary.

A Fiver Isn't Worth Five Singles - The stripper can't tell the difference between a five and a single from two feet away. Besides, five bucks isn't going to get you anything. See the idiots a the end of the bar, they are plopping down twenties and fifties and when the night is over they will be just as lonely as you.

Keep the money close to home - Don't throw money at the stripper. That is a waste. Get them to sing for their supper baby!

Put a rolled up single behind your ear.

Put a buck in your back pocket and scream "Grab it if you want it!".

Put a rolled up single in your cleavage.

No Cash Advances - The biggest scam going is for strip clubs to give you a cash advance on your credit card. Of course there is a surcharge. Sometimes I hear it is upwards of five bucks. There is nothing like making budgeting decisions with a strippers butt in your face. Decide how much bread you are bringing and stick to it. Hide an extra twenty bucks in your shoe. Your friends will think you are terrific when, after you close the last bar you can buy everyone grilled cheese sandwiches at the all night diner.

Lap Dances Should Be Done In Private - That way you can lie about what happened. After all, who wants to say that you wasted 20 bucks and all you got was a quick feel. It is much better to tell your friends some lewd tales the next day.

Learn The Real Rules By Watching Guys With Tattoos - Any strip club has regulars, they know what you can touch. They have tattoos. They sit near the stage. Watch them.

Hookers and Gigolos - You might want to think twice about this. Even if you have thought that it might be exciting, have you considered these factors:

Your friends will either be disgusted or will be pounding on the door to be next.

You may not be the first that night. Heck, you might not even be in the first ten.

You are one condoms thickness away from a venereal disease.

They are faking.

You really aren't that good.

Tattoos or No Tattoos - I once commented that I didn't like strippers with tattoos. One of my friends said that he did. We had a little discussion. Another friend pointed out that if you look around the strip bar the guys spending all the money have tattoos and they like tattoos. I guess strippers with tattoos just know their target audience a little better.

A Strip-O-Gram - Any place cute enough to call it a strip o gram, isn't cool enough to show anything hot. Do you really want to shell out a couple of hundred bucks and then not see any genitalia?

Lying - When telling the story to your girlfriend or boyfriend always do two things:
Add one item of clothing to the minimum that the stripper had on. If they were nude, say they had on a thong, if they had a thong say it was underwear. If they wore underwear, shoot yourself, you are an idiot.

Always leave out the raunchiest part and emphasize the cutest. Don't talk about the part where the lesbians had sex with each other. Talk about how Bob was so drunk he fell asleep before the stripper arrived.

You spent 10 dollars in singles. Everyone knows ten bucks can't buy enough to get you in trouble.

What is it With The Bodyguard Guy - If he is a little guy, they say he has a gun. If he is a big guy he doesn't need one. I never figured I'd test them. Be my guest though. Let me know how it goes (if you survive).

Avoid Up selling - Don't buy the strippers anything. This is called "up selling". It is the act of getting customers that have entered the club to spend more than they expect. First it was admission, then a six dollar beer, will you continue with a ten dollar lap dance, a twenty dollar private dance, buy the stripper a drink (for ten bucks), One hundred might get you into a shower with two strippers (hmmm, maybe up selling isn't too bad).

Be Wary of Pay-In-Advance - If these people were honest in business they wouldn't be exploiting people. If the stripper didn't have a cocaine problem they wouldn't be dancing for a living. Scumbags and coke-heads aren't the kind of people you should trust to make good on a promise. If you have to pay 1/2 in advance do so. Don't expect much if you pay everything up front.

If you are the groom, don't wear underwear - Everyone has seen the stage show where the stripper takes off the grooms pants to writer her name on his underwear. We have also seen the group of strippers give the groom a wedgie. How about when the strippers tear the waistband off his tighty whities. Give everyone a show, leave the underwear behind.


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Wednesday, September 5, 2018

Building A Stripper Body

      Building A Stripper Body:πŸ”‘ Keys to Fitness & Success


 Strippers. Most likely you’ll imagine a dark room where you can see only silhouettes of people; flashing strobe lights give you only a glimpse of the faces around. And then there’s this smoking-hot, tightly-toned tigress slowly crawling on the floor towards you.

She leaves you open-mouthed, jaws hanging in unexplainable admiration and desire. Out of nowhere, you hand her your money, wishful to touch and own those smooth curves in exchange.

Some women may feel envious, not of the job as a stripper, but of their alluring figures. The glowing hair, shapely legs, well-toned abs, and the strength to climb the dance pole to perform acrobatic moves and stun the audience ‘ these are the things women usually admire about strippers.

The plan is to alternate lower and upper body workouts. If you start on Monday doing upper body exercises, you should proceed with lower body workout on Wednesday, and then return to upper body exercises come Friday; Tuesdays and Thursdays are reserved for cardio workouts.

Why the alternating pattern? Alternating workouts give your muscles time to recover while you strengthen other areas of your body. It also allows you to concentrate on one area per day, allowing you to spend all your energy on a specific muscle group.

A pair of dumbbells is necessary for the workout but you can also use a barbell that has removable plates for superior results. We recommend you include a barbell because it will require you to keep your form while you do overhead lifts and bicep curls. You’ll also be able to lift heavier weights which are of vital importance in this workout.
Select a weight you can handle to execute 8 reps with but heavy enough to make 12 reps difficult.

Whether it’s a 5lb, 20lb, or 25lb dumbbell, as long it makes 12 reps difficult for you to do, go with it. For those who have experience in bodybuilding, a 40lb dumbbell may do the trick.

Don’t select something that’s too light to lift. Just follow the 12-reps guideline in choosing the right weights for your workout.

Lift and lower the weights slowly and avoid swinging them just to complete your reps. To gauge the timing, say ‘I am sexy’ while you lift the weights up and follow it with ‘I am sexy and strong’ as you lower them down. This works as a confidence booster and helps you slow down your pace. The slow pace allows you to fully control the muscles and engage the muscle fibers in the exercise.

Maintain proper form at all times. Hold your core muscles strongly, keep your posture long, and do the exercises in front of a mirror to see if you’re still maintaining the correct form. Shoulders shouldn’t be slouching, weights shouldn’t be swinging, and abs are tucked tight. Remember to breathe with your stomach and plant your feet firmly as if you’re in standing.

Exercises for your upper body

The following sets of upper body workout can be done at home using the dumbbells and barbell we require. You can also do these exercises in the gym where weights are available.

Even if you can’t go to a gym and you don’t have dumbbells or a barbell, you can still do numerous bodybuilding exercises to strengthen your muscles. You can use your own body weight as resistance in place of weights.

Doing short bursts of exercise is also the smarter way to work out. It’s okay if you do an hour on the treadmill every day if you’re contented with the results. However, the plan is to get a stripper body and you definitely won’t get anywhere near that goal running 3 mi/h on a treadmill for an hour.
Remember the days you’re not working your muscles out? Start things right by doing a 30-minute intense cardio workout on these days. Below is a sample schedule you can use as a guide:

Monday: Upper body workout
Tuesday: Cardio training
Wednesday: Lower body workout
Thursday: Cardio training
Friday: Upper body workout
Saturday: Cardio training
Sunday: Free time
Monday: Lower body workout
Tuesday: Cardio training
Wednesday: Upper body workout

Using this schedule, you work muscles all throughout your body and you avoid overworking specific areas.

After your intense training, your metabolism rate will shoot up and it will keep burning calories for several more hours. Doing this kind of routine will help your body become more efficient in exercising. Your body becomes better as you get used to this intensive training, making you fitter, leaner, faster, stronger, and of course, sexier making more money!

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

Blurring Fantasy and Reality


Thanks to the worldwide success of the talented dancers and actors in Magic Mike and its sequel, Magic Mike XXL, the life of the quintessential "male entertainer" was been shown to the masses as a world of excitement, mischief, and wealth. All is very, very, true on a much smaller not so grandiose scale. Traveling cross country for a large event isn't uncommon. Many private events and big club promotions will pay an entertainer top dollar to travel via car, bus, plane, or train to give the crowd the best show ever.

In the movie, it showed the main crew partying it up with the hospitable housewives. In real life, a dancer can engage in the social atmosphere more comfortably and enjoy festivities with the patrons in their own home or event space. The dancer is responsible for how he chooses to enjoy himself with the party goers. Not highly advised but also not prohibited, if the dancer drinks alcohol in moderation. Awareness of his place in the party is key. Being the "sloppy drunk stripper" isn't the impression to leave with.

The guys in the movie also were "very friendly" with the ladies of the house. Being a male dancer, you're automatically under the assumption that you will be giving more than lap dances. This is where situational awareness comes into play, along with sensibilities. It is key to read the room. Ask, learn, and understand the boundaries of the crowd beforehand. Their comfort levels are very important and will define the success of the performance. Remember, communication is a factor on how well your experience and money is.

When you book one of our entertainers, make sure you let him know what you expect from him so he can do his best to provide it. Remember he is a professional and he is looking to make sure you have the greatest time. In doing so, you can get the Magic Mike experience sought after, blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. If you are ready to plan your next big girls night, book here with them to ensure a happy ending to your party or event.


Thursday, August 23, 2018

Learning When to Wear the Mask

Learning When to Wear the Mask



We all have a mask we wear around people but do those in the adult entertainment have it easier or harder when it comes to judgment from certain friends or family members? 


Life in the fast lane seems glamorous, exciting and easy going, being the center of attention everywhere they go. A deeper look into their life actually may bring a different perspective for some. They may not take their work home with them but they have to deal with constant judgment, classification and ridicule from friends, family, co-workers in other fields of work or neighbors in their everyday life.

Some accept their loved ones going rogue and getting into a dangerous and frowned upon line of work and employment to meet certain means of living and sustaining their life how they see fit. In most circumstances, family, friends or anyone existent in their life write them off entirely without a second thought. These are normally the same friends, family and associates that would disown or write off their own blood or a friend if they came out and said they were gay, bi-sexual, transgender, Jewish, Christian, Muslim, or held a different political opinion.

Stereotyping and judging people like this not only affects those taking new paths in their life and discovering who they are or what they want to do with their own life. It directly and indirectly affects everyone from growing in life and finding what they like or don't in fear of being ridiculed or judged.

Adult entertainers get to tear down the walls they have up by forcing themselves to finance a certain way of life. Unfortunately, they also have to keep their lives extremely private or take a crap shoot and try their luck. The bright side is that it will help weed through anyone that is for you no matter what or force you to abandon many of the people who said they would love you and be there for you forever.

You must evaluate what is and isn't important to you and how badly you want to choose your own path or let someone else tell you how to live your life. Personally, I would not recommend anyone living their life a total lie and being someone you are not to everyone closest to you. It is also important to understand some people risk their life pillars, ie: professional careers, living wills, future jobs, children or sick loved ones. If you wear a mask, like we all do, make sure you wear it for the right reasons and it doesn't directly affect you finding who you are or where you want to be in life.

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Sunday, August 19, 2018

The History of Stripping, Strip Clubs and Strippers | A Must Read Rewind From Back in Time


The History of Stripping & Strippers


The first account of a woman getting "paid" for dancing erotically can be traced back to the Bible, where some interpreters tell us that the daughter of the Jewish Princess Herodias seductively performed the Dance of the Seven Veils to please King Herod during his birthday celebration. Herod was so impressed with (and probably so aroused by) the dance that he granted the daughter anything she desired. Obeying a request from her mother, Herodias's daughter reportedly replied: "Give me here upon a platter the head of John the Baptist." That's a pretty steep price that pious John had to pay for King Herod's viewing pleasure.

Part l: Females (ladies first!)

What's in a name?

Commonly referred to as strippers or go-go girls, women who do it for a living prefer to be called "exotic dancers." The establishments they work in are commonly called strip clubs but their proprietors prefer to call their businesses "gentlemen's clubs." Bottom line is that women in this industry get paid to sexually titillate men by dancing suggestively in as little clothing as possible without getting arrested, and in locations where laws allow, they dance totally nude. Regardless of the nomenclature, the field of stripping is dominated by women. Male strippers (think Chippendales) make up less than a third of the professional community.

But let's take a step back (way back) and look at the very beginnings of this sensual subculture. The earliest evidence of exotic dancing can be traced to Paleolithic cave paintings in the south of France, more than 20,000 years ago. Archeologists have uncovered miniature statuettes of exotic dancers near the Black Sea regions of Bulgaria and Romania that date back to the New Stone Age, or Neolithic Era, and are estimated to be over 9000 years old.

Dancing designed to sexually stimulate is thought to have begun as an ancient ritual to gain the favor of the goddesses of fertility and motherhood in hopes of successful reproduction as well as to increase the fertility of crops. Draped in animal fur, women who performed these dances would pose erotically as the furs were slowly removed to reveal the dancer's naked gyrating body.

During the height of the Greek and Roman Empires, erotic dances were also performed by priestesses in sacred temples. Much of the artwork from these times shows female dancers removing different articles of their clothing to the point of total nudity. Women were chosen for their beauty and vitality, and such erotic movements were performed in honor of the Moon, the hunt, and the god of wine, among other ritualistic purposes.

Getting Paid for Your Efforts

Moving to the 14th century, we find the advent of erotic dancing in the Middle East, in the art form of belly dancing. Not a thread of clothing was removed, but with its furious movements of the hips and pelvis, belly dancing meant to induce pleasure of a sexual nature and became extremely popular. Audience members would toss coins at the belly dancers, representing the first time women were paid cash for their erotic dancing services. During this time, erotic dancing was also common in the temples of India in the form of sacred rituals.

In the 18th century, sensuality and eroticism reigned supreme throughout Europe, compliments of the ladies of the court, who were paid to erotically entertain the menfolk as they dined during celebrations and banquets. These female courtesans popularized the fan as a sensual prop, which they used to accent their titillating dance moves to make them look mysterious.

Fast forward to more modern times, where erotic dancing blossomed in Britain in the late 1800s with the rise of British burlesque houses. Lydia Thompson, an English dancer, comedian, actress, and theatrical producer, became one of the most famous burlesque dancers on the London stage. Originally, burlesque performances incorporated a complete act with a combination of music, singing, humor, dance, and theatrics, and sexual parody; women undressing themselves in a sensual manner were only part of the show. Lydia is credited with bringing burlesque to America in 1868 with her troupe of "British Blondes" performing in New York City theaters. Lydia's performances involved chorus lines of beautiful, scantily clad women and sometimes involved audience intimacy without contact. No doubt, the burlesque industry quickly discovered that the main attraction was sex. Over time, burlesque shows began focusing mainly on suggestive sexual dances, and routines turned raunchy. Women became more uninhibited and the acts became more risquΓ©. Of course, the church preached against these types of performances, but they only grew in popularity.

The early roots of modern stripping first appeared in the late 1800s when a new form of erotic dancing evolved into a dance known as the striptease. It was a gradual, soft, sensual way to undress in order to arouse. As the name suggests, women slowly undressed themselves, layer by layer, to titillate and tease in a blatant sexually suggestive manner as they revealed more and more of their flesh, down to pasties and a G-string covering up the essentials. Drooling men howled in appreciation as each piece of clothing hit the floor, leading the men to create and shout out the striptease catch phrase: "Take it off… take it all off!"

Throughout the late 1800s and early 1900s, the striptease influenced other forms of erotic dancing. A sexually provocative belly dance known as the "hoochie coochie" was introduced in Philadelphia and became wildly popular. Around the same time period, the French cancan appeared in Paris and was made famous at the Moulin Rouge cabaret. The cancan spread to America and also became a popular male pastime, as guys feasted their eyes on dancers who would lift up a leg to reveal their thighs, puffy slips, and underwear.

The 1920s saw a new twist to the striptease with the addition of pole dancing. Pole dancing originated at the height of our country's Depression. At the time, traveling fairs trekked from town to town to entertain with many different types of side shows, which were held in tents. In one of the side tents, women would striptease on a small stage in front of cheering men. The ladies incorporated the tent pole into their striptease routine, climbing to the top of the pole, grabbing the pole and swirling around it, and grinding and gyrating against it. The tent pole became known as the "dance pole."

In the 1950s, pole dancing graduated from tents to bars that catered to this form of entertainment. The elaborate, intriguing costumes strippers wore during their performances became part of the act. Stripping was slowly seeping into the American sex industry and becoming a staple.

Strip clubs were frequently raided and shut down for clashing with decency laws, but similar to what occurred with alcohol during Prohibition, the government and religious institutions just couldn't stop the onslaught of their popularity with American men. Editorials and sermons had no chance of influencing where many men chose to spend their recreational time. As a result, this era saw the enacting of new zoning laws and restrictions on the limits that female dancers could interact with their customers in order to regulate the strip club industry.

The 1960s and 1970s saw a steep rise in the number of strip clubs as society was going through a sexual revolution and becoming more accepting of displayed sexuality, and the strip club survived despite public protest and strict city regulations.

During the 1970s and 1980s, almost all strip clubs incorporated poles onstage to accommodate pole dancing, as this practice became popular among strippers. Another addition to the art form was big boobs! Breast enlargement surgery became enormously popular with women in the business as big breasts became synonymous with strippers.

The infamous lap dance (contact dancing) started out in Montreal in the early 1990s. Lap dancing eventually migrated to the United States and was made legal in this country in 1999. Also in the late 1990s, pole dancing techniques used by strippers were turned into a legitimate form of exercise for women with the introduction of pole fitness. The first instructional pole fitness and dance DVDs emerged and even a National Pole Dancing Championship was created.

Nowadays, in most strip clubs, the women wear skimpy bikinis or G-strings that leave little to the imagination. There's rarely a striptease show, just pole work. Ladies move about on stage as guys gawk at their nearly naked bodies. Some strippers will bump and grind against one another onstage to the enjoyment of their male audiences as the pounding beat of loud rap music intoxicates the room. From ancient ritual to modern-day entertainment for men who typically watch with a stiff drink in hand, stripping has come a long way, baby!

Stay tuned for The History of Stripping: Part II: Male Strippers Get Into the Act

References & Citations



  1. The beginnings of burlesque. Ohio State University Libraries website. http://library.osu.edu/projects/women-in-tights/beginnings.html.
  2. A brief history of pole dance. The Pole Dancing Shop website. December 28, 2011. http://www.thepoledancingshop.com/a-brief-history-of-pole-dance/#.UfkMqo32aGE.
  3. The decline of burlesque. Ohio State University Libraries website. http://library.osu.edu/projects/women-in-tights/decline.html.
  4. History of burlesque. Belle Phenomene website. http://www.bellep.com/#!history-of-burlesque/c23gi.
  5. The history of exotic dance. Exotic Dancer Guide website. http://exoticdancerguide.webs.com/articles/exoticdancehistory.html.
  6. History & future of pole. The Pole Power website. http://thepolepower.com/History_of_Pole_Dancing.html.
  7. The history of stripping. Montreal Striptease website. http://www.montrealstriptease.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=25&Itemid=28&lang=en .
  8. Kenrick J. A history of the musical burlesque. Musicals 101 website. http://www.musicals101.com/burlesque.htm.
  9. Stripping vs. burlesque. Bombshell Betty website. http://bombshellbetty.wordpress.com/2008/03/08/stripping-vs-burlesque/.
  10. This article was written and can be traced back to: https://www.medicalbag.com/grey-matter/the-history-of-stripping/article/472394/

Friday, August 17, 2018

Free Your Entertainment Spirit


One person may say video games, standup comedy and amusement parks are entertaining. Others night find stripclubs or porn is their kind of entertainment. What entertains you? No matter what your spoils are as long as it doesn't hurt yourself, anyone else or damage anyone's property I say to everyone,  you do you. What thoughts do you have on entertainment. What keeps you entertained in life? If you don't have an answer or know anyone answer you better wake the fuck up in life and get with the program and get in your vortex!

 #freedom #entertainment #yourrights #discrimination #love #life #liberty #liberation #recreational #bitcoin

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Sunday, August 12, 2018

Personalities, Characteristics and Profiling Strippers in Strip Clubs

Strippers Don't Start Stripping 'cause They Are on a Winning Streak!


Strippers R' Us


Most people won't bare it all and start stripping because they were on a winning streak or were doing extra well in life. They may love to dance and get attention but it takes a certain kind of personality to pull it off. Not just anyone can do it. You either got it or you don't. Those who really stick with it and see it all the way through usually come out on top. What type of personality traits do you need to be successful?



Some exotic dancers start off dancing because they may be uneducated but yet impatient to get ahead in life. Then again some don't know how important a good education really is until it is unfortunately too late. That might be a certain clear moment of clarity finely tuned and engrained by pure experience one goes through. Not that they are any less than or deserve to be an exotic dancer before anyone else out there with a better educational background. Lawyers, doctors, accountants and government law officials have put themselves through college taking their clothes off one dollar at a time. You don't have to have any brains or wits to make the money, you just have to have them to keep the money is all!

There are these certain entertainers that begin because they just want to accelerate their hustle on the side some. Or perhaps to grow their business they already have going on. There are those that are simply famous models or headliners at events that literally do it for more social media followers and to market their brand. All while at the same time stacking their dough and being their very own brand ambassador at all their shows, parties, clubs or events.

A good number of male and female dancers begin just because they are of legal age. They may be rebelling with their family and parents. Or even perhaps an authoritative figure just no longer has anymore authority over them and they feel finally free! On the flip side you might get some fresh young teens that just simply want a cushy & comfortable life moving forward. Meaning funding all their college residency and even may possibly pay off their student loan before ever even graduating with their degree. 

There are the dancers that have mommy and/or daddy issues and seek outside approval & attention from the opposite sex out of mere pure unintentional habit of trying to regain something they were badly missing in life. It is codependency at its core but both parties involved tend to not care and may take liking to their role in the unusual partnership. They take what they can get as long as they don't enter into that dark place of verbal & physical abuse by their partner or lover. Many girls and women all over the world allow violence like this to go on too many times without standing up for themselves. That is until it is too late OR they have had enough and find their true inner selves deep down inside. This true awaking & cleansing process can make one become almost a reborn spiritual being once freed from their abuser and captor. Not sure exactly why but many dancers in this grey area of experience, strength and hope are likely to develop unusual & uncommon kinks in society such as ddlg, baby roleplay, BDSM, role play, bondage, etc. That should go to show that a mother's love and a father's love is something absolutely crucial and imperative in child development stages.

There are always the young, free & wild party girls that are typically raver chicks, nerdy girls or hippie chicks who always try to find the bright side of the adult entertainment industry. Whether it just simply be the club, the management, the money being made, the house mom, the friendships with other dancers, the new amazing encounters with strangers and the unity of adults in full nudity bring everyone together (and of course the $1's let's not forget). Humans can safely interact, mingle & fellowship in a friendly controlled environment allowing this particular kind of dancer to thrive most being one might say, almost her 2nd natural habitat. Feeling free in such a controlled environment allows these dancers to just be themselves as if at home. This kind is usually quite optimistic of their life normally but they can see the positive objective goal more than they've ever before from this revolutionary view. Rapidly meeting with so many men/women from all over the world in so little time from all walks of life, while ranging from all shapes, colors & sizes. All may seem well. This may seem the best choice dancer for this certain environment but the free spirited ones are a hit or miss. Mainly because they at times get a little too into partying instead they should be worrying about hustling, making money and the big picture. The thing with these is they can slowly start to unravel. Likelihood that it will go undetected is low. This cycle is typically sure to repeat for a time while she tries to manage it personally herself and then will make attempts to start controlling what she is already unknowingly dependent on. After some time things surely start to take a fall for the worst. This is until they eventually face some consequences, are in dire need, hit a bottom and seek out the proper help. Or set appropriate measures to hold themselves accountable and to positively keep themselves in line while on the clock working. 

We now we have the single mother or single father trying to give their seedling or young children the best life they can the whatever means necessary. These dancers tend to be the most responsible and can most definitely fixate and keep their eyes on the prize of making lots of money! They work all day climbing the pole, doing pole tricks, doing private dances and all working for a dollar at a time. At the end of the day they go home to theirs kids, husband & family all to say to themselves it was all worth it.

The smartest strippers, exotic dancers and entertainers operate like this: they get in, they make hella money, only strip for maybe 1 - 3 years, open a business or create their own money making side hobby/hustle and then they get the hell out of dodge! Of course once someone, really anyone, gets a taste of the good life they naturally tend to crave and go for the better things in life. It is common for  dancer to upgrade their lifestyle no matter who they are. Once these dancers get a taste though of the good life, they break their very own promise to themselves, "I promise to only dance this long then I'm quitting!" 

Those I would say are your garden variety dancers you see the most. We also have the seasoned dancers that know they "should of" probably hung up the thong awhile ago but unforeseen circumstances have made it not possible at this moment in their lives. These dancers aren't all too common in the larger & more popular strip clubs scenes. This older dancers (40 & up) each club will have at least one or two of them only at a time working a shift. It is only the lower end & slummy strip clubs that will have a 60/40 wining ratio of these sexy cougars on the prowl.

Last but not least we go to the simple girl next door waiting table being flirty. Next that particular girl will see that flirting can go a long way. So she puts on her big (orange) girl panties and graduates to Hooters being just more flirting with a little extra sexy added to it right? Wrong, not enough money for the effort and acting put in. Now she goes where she knows she'll make more, she goes Go-Go Dancing. We already knows what happens from here but I'll will just amuse you instead. She obviously goes not much longer straight into stripping at a local strip club. After the club some girls find out how much money is in fetishes to they broaden their horizon to find money even easier to come across. Porn or escorting are usually the end of the road. Go big or go home? Most don't attempt that route because it can also be a dark & lonely road to take and can end very badly sometimes. Girls have ended up in bad and scary situations becoming sex workers and easily picked up by sex trafficers. This is easily done because most escorts work alone then if not alone they will most likely have a pimp taking half the money or more. Also that is a good way to end up in jail by getting caught up in a sting operation. Porn could just really embarrass yourself and hurt your ego is all if your family was to come across your adult video online. Ultimately so many are now doing amature porn and selling it for pennies on the dollar at the end of it all. Porn stars typically come and go a lot faster than strippers do. 

Some dancer's families do not speak to them because they choose these paths of sin involving nudity, dance art performance, fetish, porn and it is extremely mean and sad. Everyone should be free to be themselves in this world no matter what.  Keep that in mind the next time you look into a dancer's eyes while steadily seeing their sexy & sumptuous dancing body in your peripheral but yet right in front of your face. I am sure their are many more character profiles, various characteristic and speciality traits that could be done a dozens more times This is what immediately comes to mind when asked the question "What kind of Person Becomes a Stripper?" If you have any that stand out to you that you would like to contribute share or comment on that would be very valuable to this particular subject. Feel free to comment below. We may consider rewriting such articles in the futue and could always use the input however large or small it may be. Thank you. 

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