This blog is all about the rules that we have at private parties. These rules are essential to creating a safe space for everyone to feel comfortable and still have a fun time. I make sure to ALWAYS say all of the rules every single time I go to a party- even if they have booked with us before and they know the rules. It always is important to state the rules in the beginning, too, so there's no confusion during the party. If you don't state your boundaries, you can't get mad for them not being followed, right? So make sure to always lay out the ground rules so that nobody crosses a line that will make your night worse, and so you don't make the clients feel bad about it either. So, here we go!
First rule is no pictures or videos during the performance. This rule is very important and usually is always followed with no questions asked. We do a lot of bachelor parties and most of the men have wives or fiancés so they don't want it to be documented because they don't want there to be any proof! That rule is set there because our company plays different party games and we don't want the fun getting out. It would spoil all of the fun if everyone already knew the party games and knew what they were getting into. It's a surprise every time to everyone there what we do. Also, we don't want to give anything away for free. If someone posts a video of us playing some of the games, we're not getting paid for that person seeing it. So, that's unfair to us. I know for me, I don't give anything away for free!
Second rule is no fingers in our pussy or ass. This one always makes everyone laugh, but we have to say it because guys will try it all the time and they would DEFINITELY try it if we hadn't said not to. This one seems like it would be common sense not to do that to someone, but guys are dumb when their at parties and when their drinking. So we have to say this rule and I absolutely hate it when people try it.
Third rule is just to be respectful with the touching. We're okay with a squeeze and will touching here and there but we do ask for everyone to be respectful. Being respectful means don't slap us really hard, don't squeeze til it hurts, don't slap our pussies, etc. Just understand that yes we are strippers but we are also people and we having feelings too! We don't like it when we feel taken advantage of.
Fourth rule is don't recycle the money. If it hits the floor or if its in any of our garments its our money now. Don't pick it up and give it back to us, it's super tacky and not cute. We are there to make money at the end of the day, so when it looks like you're trying to take advantage of the money we make it pisses us off and it's not a good look for anyone.
So as you can see there's not a lot of rules, and they aren't unreasonable at all. They make a lot of sense and they keep the party going a lot smoother. They also help so that there's no awkwardness about anything, too. If you hire private dancers, make sure that you follow all of their rules (everyone I'm sure has different ones, these are just mine) because it will make them stay longer and make them feel comfortable which is usually what everyone wants.
