I am Bambi Blake! I recently started working with MC Entertainment and Services dancing for private parties. I have gained so much from this experience. Many people think that being a stripper must mean that you have no self-respect. This is simply not true! We have rules, and consequences for not following them! We are here to TEASE, not to PLEASE! IT is very important for people to understand that becoming a stripper and realizing the importance of these rules, and enforcing them at every party, no matter how much money is offered! Learning this has made me more confident in setting boundaries in my personal life and not being afraid of what someone may say, when they don't get their way. Learning the standards at which this company holds their dancers to, has encouraged me to become the best version of myself. I've always taken care of myself, but sometimes, I put me last. They have taught me that I come first!!
One of the many reactions I get when I tell people that I am a stripper is, "wow, I wish I had your confidence", or "my boyfriend would never let me do that". First of all, I don't need permission from anyone, ANYONE, to do anything. Especially when it comes to making money for my future. While this may not be a career, it is definitely helping me get to a position financially, where I can start to live the life that I want. It is up to my partner to get on the same page as me. As far as the confidence thing, yeah, I can't lie. I had to fake it the first few times. I almost threw up before every party!! Keep in mind, when I say I am a baby stripper, I mean it. I have never even worked in a club before. I like to dance, and I have always been considered "thick" by a certain demographic who usually like strippers, so I decided to go for it!! The confidence came after I saw how much money I made after the first party. The confidence grew once I realized how much control I actually had over the situation, at all times. After 30 minutes-1hr, if the party isn't tipping, or paying for party games, I'm not staying! This means, the more you pay, the longer I stay! During my most recent party, the guys there said multiple times, "I'm loving me some Bambi"! If that doesn't make you feel good, I'm not sure what will!!
You learn as you go in this industry! The guys at these parties can tell when you are nervous. While they don't usually care at all, they can usually tell. They won't bring it up unless you do, but it's much better to approach every situation like you know exactly what to do, and just have fun! That is what it is really all about! They are having a party, so obviously they are there to have a good time. Don't be uptight and rude, make conversation and be silly and tell THEM what's going to happen!! Since entering into the industry, I have been able to dedicate more time and energy on my OnlyFans, as well as being able to start a studio on Clips4Sale! I am growing more confidence, more clients, more opportunities, and it hasn't even been a year yet! I am super excited to see my personal growth and the growth in my platforms over the next year! The people you surround yourself with really does matter! You want to be around people who are doing the things you want to be doing, and people who have the things you want to be able to have, as well.
There are a lot of great things that come from being a stripper, as well as a sex worker! You get to meet a lot of great people. You will learn a lot about yourself. Including things, you do and don't like to do, places you do and don't like to go, you name it! You will gain confidence in ways you never thought possible. You will feel powerful and unstoppable! Then you will find out how many people that you personally know, are also into it, but just don't talk about it! But that's okay! Everyone isn't going to be open about everything that goes on in their lives. You just have to stay positive and remain humble! Also remember, there is never anything to be ashamed about. You have the ability to do what so much of the world WOULD NEVER even consider doing! You will get nasty comments, but you just have to ignore them and realize that the mouth the comments come from, is attached to someone who doesn't have what it takes to be HALF of the person that you are!! Keep working hard and achieving your goals and little by little you will get to where you want to be!
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