Showing posts with label stripperlife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stripperlife. Show all posts

Friday, June 7, 2019

Working as an Atlanta Stripper: Five Things I Hate

Before I start writing, I just want to make a "disclaimer" to anyone reading this: I absolutely love my job. I love dancing, I love teasing, I love everything about stripping. Being an Atlanta white female stripper has all the pro's in the world, and only a few cons. I promise you this isn't an article about me complaining about my work; I absolutely love it, and I love all the people I dance for.

I don't work at an Atlanta strip club. I work at a mobile service company where Atlanta female and male strippers come to you. Side note: it's so much better than a club. You don't have to go anywhere and you really don't have to do anything but figure out how many people you want to dance and who you want to dance for you. The best part about it is that you get to be right up close to all of us. We ask for your respect, but a majority of us are okay with touching and feeling. Again, as long as you're respectful. This is where it can get kind of sticky; and this is where I get to tell you what I hate.

First one: when you slap my pussy. I understand that you ordered a stripper because you wanted to see ass, titties, and pussy. And trust me I understand that my pussy is beautiful. But when it comes to that area, do not touch it or slap it or try to play with it. That is a boundary I don't like to be crossed. You can look at the pretty lady, but you cannot touch her. 

Second one: when you assume I'm an escort and you continually ask how much it costs to sleep with me. I am fully aware that I am in the sex industry and it doesn't bother me in the slightest bit when you ask if I do more than dance. But, when I (personally, just me) say no, don't continue to ask. I dance with a lot of women who do escort as well as dance. You can always ask if that's what you're wanting, but respect a dancer if she says no. 

Third one: when you grab me hard instead of asking for me to come over to you. I am a tiny human. I'm 4'11 and I weigh 110 pounds. When you pull and grab me it doesn't take much to knock me off my feet. I will always come to your lap and dance for you if you ask me to. But when you grab me and push me around, it makes me want to stay away from you. I love my job and I love giving lap dances. Just ask me first.  

Fourth one: when you're drunk and get way too touchy. Like I said before, majority of girls (including me) are totally fine with you grabbing an ass cheek, or squeezing a boob here and there. But when you're clearly too intoxicated and you make the groping and grabbing go on for too long, it gets a little uncomfortable. I want everyone to have a banging time. I want everyone to be smiling and happy. I am more than okay with you drinking and taking shots off of me. I just don't like it when you're too drunk to know better. I still am a person and I still do deserve respect despite my career. 

Last one: when you're not tipping. This is definitely the biggest and most important one. I love my job for many reasons. The main one (like most people) is because I make money. I make money mostly based on tips. So when I'm twerking and getting on my hands and knees to shake my ass, I want money to be thrown on me. We all know that strippers and one dollar bills go hand and hand. It's because strippers want the money honey! We want to get paid because we are doing a lot of work. Dancing and stripping is a lot harder than it looks. It's the best workout I get all week and I workout hard every day. I do it because I love helping people have a good time, but I also would love to make stacks of cash while doing it. So, for future reference: always, always, always tip your dancers extremely well. It'll make us work harder and stay longer if you do.

So, I hope that it's clarified again that I love my job so much and I wouldn't trade it for anything else. These are just a few pet peeve's of mine that I wanted to share to hopefully help clear a few things up for people who may not know what they're doing at a strip club or are planning on ordering from a mobile service company like mine. Or even to speak for other strippers who feel the same way. But, this is just my opinions, and my own experience. I love everyone, even the people who do these things. I'm here to have a rocking night just like you are. 

-Lola, one of the many Atlanta Female Strippers for hire

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry 


My name is Cherry, I am an 18 year old exotic dancer for a private company based in Atlanta, Georgia. I started dancing soon after my birthday and haven't stopped since! These are some bullet points of topics and real life situations I couldn't seem to find and thus I wish to enlighten for you and any beginners out there reading this adult blog looking for resources and or simply a platform to relate on.



Trial and Error 

To remember that any aspects and challenges we will inevitably face in life is a learning experience. Give yourself some slack! At the end of the day it's all about understanding the obstacle you are encountering with an open mind and acknowledging your position attached to this setback. There is no need to rush yourself to become something overnight because we are all a continual creation of our aspirations.

I found myself trying to become something I wasn't (Which I plan to touch over in "Private Parties / Club Life" and "Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal",) and it took a lot of trial and error within myself alongside my career to focus in on working towards my personal priorities with being careful to my craft. I believe in individualism to be a beautiful representation of what you can bring to the table with your work and what you bring home.

Accepting each 'failure', for lack of a better term, as an opportunity to learn what to do in the future.
I have definitely bought the wrong dance wear and had to push through those occasional mistakes but make the best of it. Next time, I won't pick an easy route but invest for the long run. My first night dancing was an 8 hour shift at a club in brand new heels, without socks or wrapping a toe or two. Although, I prefer to wear thigh high to comfort my feet a bit...I did go home that night with blisters on my ankles and toes.

Don't overthink those mistakes because there will be a solution to most learning curves. I found wrapping my toes and wearing thick socks did the job.





Expectations And Reality 

A sufficient amount of controversy connected to the exotic entertainment industry, in my opinion coming from the perspective of the dancer, has to do with a lot of expectations versus the reality. There is more to it. More to the entertainer as an individual , whether it be a male stripper or a female stripper for instistance. We still put our pants on the same way you do. There is a nice medium of appreciation for that concept.

I was taken aback of how many humanitarians I came across during the beginning stages of my exotic work.
Anxious to the idea of being 'alone in it' or that maybe I'd become numb for some mysterious reason, I initially thought but quickly understood I simply had to take a step back from the self-sabotage mentality. There is nothing wrong with staying within your own path and loving that security. Although, I found myself disappointed with my own path that it was never enough to the standard I thought to be the expectation. I was focused too much on where I wanted to be and forgot how much I am still learning and how far I've come. Which is the humbling reality of almost every experience I have encountered in my daily life. Especially dancing, I have broken habitual self-sabotaging patterns and worries I take with me to this day. Being grateful for challenges to improve your craft and confidence is empowering.





Drugs


No matter where we go, as we grow and observe throughout this journey we take in your personal lifes and in the work we practice there will be exposure to all lifestyles and barriers we may sincerely relate to or are simply unfamiliar with. I myself, year and almost two months clean now, would like to capitalize on inner conflict. All those feelings and questions you carry are valid and normal.

Each day is taking everything at your own pace, and creating your boundaries attached to those confrontations but visualising your progress following you within the days that will rain and will shine is a comforting balance between yourself and your work. You are not alone in establishing qualities of indapancy from your struggle(s) and still make a living, happy and healthy. Take your pride in the commitment of  this balance, because you made it this far and only you can subject yourself to the unwanted. You set your goals and boundaries. I am very happy and healthy working for a company promoting and lovingly encouraging sobriety,





Private Parties /  Club Life 


Coming from a club to a private company. I want to share my own feelings on positions of self-drive and benefits of indapant work. It is rather rewarding to be in a circumstance of flexible  and manageable hours and reaching goals up to your own limitations. Working for myself, I found to be very freeing to say the least. Club life was very intriguing on a physical aspect to staying accountable on working out and gaining my upper body strength doing pole work was always an aspiration of mine I've had for a long time. I obtained communicational skills that I did not know I had the ability to learn and as well bring into my personal life! I am confident with my verbal representation now.

Although, I don't know if I'd ever have interest in going back to any specific establishment. Without any negative connotation. But I definitely enjoy the freedom of traveling and  the exposure to new private parties with having a clientele that is energetically there for me is inevitably a beneficial experience for an active mind. Organization of priorities can be as fun as you make it. Just as I bring up "Trial and Error", it is all about finding your outlet that works best to coincide with your flow!



Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal


  To conclude, for my last subject I am going to touch on is all about goals. Goals! What is the goal for you? What do you want and what you are putting in will be the true turnover. Giving yourself a set reminder of short term and long goals. This is a positive attribute to you spiritually for peace of mind and your end goal. I found writing out all my goals, to a daily regimen or the next 5 years kept me in a clear mind. Staying proactive towards your future. Dancing has been the best self discipline towards almost all of my generalized goals, it forced a side of my mind to think outside of the box and pushed me to want more out of my goals with comfortability and ease. I can't take back any of the experiencing and lessons I've endured, all for the best!


Thanks for reading! If you ever want to book me or learn more about me go my dancer profile page.

Look forward to seeing you!

- Cherry


P.S. - Check me out getting spanked on live stream here. 💗




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Tuesday, December 4, 2018

Should I go to a strip club tonight or order one or two strippers online in Atlanta?

Atlanta Strippers

If you are one person or just a small group of about 2 to 5 people then going to a strip club in Atlanta might make a little sense but when you get around 5 people and up you want to hands down order strippers to come to you! Why you ask? Simple. There's typically a $20 cover charge on weekends, drinks are ridiculously over priced, in most decent adult establishments you aren't allowed to touch, you have to pay for transportation if drinking and last but not least about 70% of your money is going mostly in the hands of the strip club that the stripper will never see. As soon as you and the four people with you sit down, order your drinks, get your first lapdance you will have already paid approximately $250 to $300. For less than that alone you can order one to come TO YOU for a couple of hours at least! See what I mean? Not to mention touching is allowed and most of the strippers in Atlanta play hot and wild party games that are too hot to mention on here. 

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