Showing posts with label Adult Entertainment Lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adult Entertainment Lifestyle. Show all posts

Monday, July 6, 2020

My Music Mixed Process by 12 Play




Arranging my music to my performance is an art form that I take deep pride in. I begin my process by selecting the outfit and accessories that fit the theme I'm invested in. As I pick out my clothing and accessories, I begin to embody the character I will portray during the show. After I aligned my gear, I begin to focus on syncing my intro and walk out to set the tone of the performance. The average performance set of a male exotic dancer has four segments: The intro, walkout, jam session and the slow. I use five segments, the fifth is call taste.

The intro is the crowd's introduction to the dancer. My stage name is 12play. The intro I have snippets from 2/3 of the R. Kelly's first 12 Play Albums; (XII play, TP2.com and TP3: Reloaded). The melody is synced in story mode with familiar quotes that gets the crowd reflecting about the infamous "King of R&B".

Next is the walkout. The walkout in most urban dancer's mind set, is the most important part of the music mix. The walkout is a DJ or postproduction remake of a song that expresses the personality of the dancer or the theme that the dancer is trying to portray. A walkout can be any song in any genre, and it can be as short as 90 seconds or as long as 8 minutes.

Afterwards is the jam session. This is the party of the mix where are the upbeat music takes place. It can arrange from contemporary to retro music. The main key is that the tunes have to be relatable and instantly catchy to the audience's ear.

Lastly is the slow. The slow is the finale piece or final song of the track. This song is used for the largest stunt or prop that the adult entertainer uses to win the crowd over.

My secret weapon is a segment called the taste. I usually use it between the walkout and the jam session or after my jam session leading into the slow session. I usually insert this during my set to give a small preview of what to expect at the end. Just to build anticipation for the upcoming final act.

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Thursday, July 18, 2019

Dating While Being a Stripper

So, I've been all around the dating spectrum while being a stripper. I have been in a serious relationship, I have been just casually dating guys, I have been just having sex with guys. I've done it all. Something that I make very clear before I start seeing someone is that I am a stripper, I am in the sex industry, and if you're not okay with that then we should stop now. It's important to me that a guy knows that part of my life and is okay with that part of my life, too. I don't like to feel suffocated in a relationship or feel like I can't live my life the way I want to live it. But it definitely isn't always easy or smooth sailing with men who find out what I do for work.

I try to make it very clear that for me, personally, I am only a stripper. So, I don't have sex with anyone for money. All I do is get naked and shake my ass for cash. Most men think it's insanely attractive and are all for it. They usually start with asking me to dance for them-but that's a different blog post for another time. Some of the guys I come in contact with are a little skittish or are just plain out rude about it. I had this one guy flirt with me all night at a bar and watched me dance on a pole over and over again. I told him that I was a stripper and he flirted with me all night, asking me all about it, and then at the very end he shouted to his friend, "I don't wanna fuck that stripper, I don't want aids". That one definitely stung a little. I am who I am, though, and I'm very unapologetic about it. I want to strip, I want to dance, and I want to make my money this way. If someone wants to be with me, then they have to be with all of me. That part of me isn't going anywhere anytime soon, so they better get used to it. But the guys who are a little skittish about are usually (and I'm just being honest here) the jealous type. They don't like the idea that "their girl" is dancing on other guys or getting naked in front of anyone except for them. That is just me being brutally honest and that's just my opinion. Don't hate me because I say the truth!

But, yes, I am a stripper and I am currently in "the dating scene". It isn't particularly hard for me to find men who are okay with me stripping. Like I said, most guys are totally fine and actually love the fact that I'm a stripper, but I definitely have ran into guys who aren't okay with it. Either way I am going to stay happy and do what I am wanting to do. If they wanna pay my bills instead of me stripping so be it! Otherwise, thank you next. 

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