Showing posts with label new life experiences. Show all posts
Showing posts with label new life experiences. Show all posts

Sunday, May 5, 2019

We Just Know What We Are Wanting.

Everybody in life has a different story to tell. Everyone has their own path,their own desires, their own wants, and their own needs. Sometimes, it takes time to discover want one desires to do with their life. However, once you find that desire or you find that path you want to ride along, don't give it up for anything or anyone. This is your life and your journey and you belong on it.
So many people have their own opinions on what your life should look like; and something I've learned is to live how I want to, when I want to, and where I want to. I live in Atlanta and have learned everything in Atlanta. I work in a safe,amazing, and thrilling environment: I am an Atlanta female stripper- and I couldn't love it more. I am a prime example of someone who is in the sex work industry and who genuinely adores her job. I have gotten all the backlash, snarky comments, and angry glares. But I wouldn't think of changing my occupation for a minute. Nobody pressured me into it, nobody is making me do it- I chose this for myself.
There is so much negativity around sex work. Some people assume the worst about us, judge us, or put a story to us that couldn't be further from the truth. Well, I 'm writing this article to set the record straight. I am a normal, joyful, and positive woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. Strip clubs in Atlanta have become my happy place and where I find pleasure and joy. I love what I do, and I say that honestly. I only wish and hope people could open their eyes and see the positive parts of sex work. If the word "sex" had more knowledge and understanding behind it, maybe we would be at the point of acceptance around it. Sex is the most natural and normal action a human being can take part in. Pleasure is something (I feel) that everyone wants. We want to be happy, we want to do things that make us feel good- and if you can't admit that one of the things that makes you feel the best isn't sex, you need to be more honest with yourself. There is absolutely nothing bad, or gross, or dirty about desiring sex. That's the best thing about me being a stripper is that I know I bring pleasure and happiness with what I do. I enjoy making people happy and making them smile. I love helping people fulfill their desires; whether that means making them their favorite meal, or helping them achieve a hard goal, or shaking my ass in their face because they love my naked body! I am not ashamed to say that I get naked in front of a bunch of people and feel my sexiest because I have dozens of people drooling over me. Not too many people can say that.
The sex work industry puts a bad taste in people's mouths because of what they "know" about it. But truly, people know nothing about it.They hear something online or watch it in a movie and believe that that is real life. Unless you talk to a stripper or learn the facts about it, you have no idea what goes on behind the scenes. I work in Atlanta strip clubs and with Atlanta stripper agencies because I want to. Atlanta male strippers and Atlanta female strippers make a lot of money and have a great time doing it. I am speaking about Atlanta because this is where I get my experience. Strip clubs in Atlanta are exciting and all I see from the customers is smiles, laughs, googly eyes, drooling,and a genuine look of pure entertainment. Whether it's a male strip club in Atlanta, a Gentlemen's club in Atlanta, an Atlanta adult entertainment experience, a female strip club in Atlanta, everyone there is having an amazing time. The work is exhilarating and exciting. Every time I perform I get an instant rush of adrenaline and can't help but smile. I have never had a bad or uncomfortable experience stripping. I have never felt pressured to perform or intimidated by a boss. I choose this work, just like all of my co-workers. The flexible hours, the insane money, the adrenaline- all of it factors into why I (and so many others) couldn't be more happy and thrilled to be in this line of work. If we didn't want to do it anymore- we wouldn't.
The sex work industry is full of honest and genuine people who know what they are wanting and who they want to be. They push away negativity and judgement and live their life the way they want to and are supposed to. I have never in my life as a stripper felt dirty or gross about myself. And I have never ever felt ashamed of what I do. I proudly tell people what I do for work and whether they want to agree with it or not, I keep a smile on my face. I try to educate people everywhere to know that this isn't dirty work- we just are more open-minded about life and we understand that people want sex. Have you ever really thought about that? Yes! People want sex. People even need sex! If you're willing and wanting to pay for it and someone agrees to fulfill that need- more power to you! There is nothing wrong with escorting, there is nothing wrong with shaking your titties for money, there is nothing wrong with doing exactly what YOU want. Live how you want to and do what you want to. We are not dirty or slimy people. We are just like you. You wouldn't be able to spot us out of a crowd unless we tell you about ourselves and choose to inform whoever we are talking to about our occupation. I can't say this enough: we are just like you. We have a job, we make money, we do what we need to to get by in the world. I just think we have way more fun doing it.


Again, I love my job. I love being a stripper. I love making money and having a hell of a good time doing it. I love meeting other sex workers and talking about how awesome it is to be so comfortable with ourselves and our sexuality that we have the courage to be exactly who we want to be. I have never felt more confident in my life then when I started stripping. I am here to tell everyone out there that has judgement or negativity about the sex industry that the majority of us are in love with our lives and wouldn't want to change a damn thing- so we will continue to shake our asses for anyone who wants to see it.

-Lola, one of the many Atlanta strippers for hire. 

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry 


My name is Cherry, I am an 18 year old exotic dancer for a private company based in Atlanta, Georgia. I started dancing soon after my birthday and haven't stopped since! These are some bullet points of topics and real life situations I couldn't seem to find and thus I wish to enlighten for you and any beginners out there reading this adult blog looking for resources and or simply a platform to relate on.



Trial and Error 

To remember that any aspects and challenges we will inevitably face in life is a learning experience. Give yourself some slack! At the end of the day it's all about understanding the obstacle you are encountering with an open mind and acknowledging your position attached to this setback. There is no need to rush yourself to become something overnight because we are all a continual creation of our aspirations.

I found myself trying to become something I wasn't (Which I plan to touch over in "Private Parties / Club Life" and "Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal",) and it took a lot of trial and error within myself alongside my career to focus in on working towards my personal priorities with being careful to my craft. I believe in individualism to be a beautiful representation of what you can bring to the table with your work and what you bring home.

Accepting each 'failure', for lack of a better term, as an opportunity to learn what to do in the future.
I have definitely bought the wrong dance wear and had to push through those occasional mistakes but make the best of it. Next time, I won't pick an easy route but invest for the long run. My first night dancing was an 8 hour shift at a club in brand new heels, without socks or wrapping a toe or two. Although, I prefer to wear thigh high to comfort my feet a bit...I did go home that night with blisters on my ankles and toes.

Don't overthink those mistakes because there will be a solution to most learning curves. I found wrapping my toes and wearing thick socks did the job.





Expectations And Reality 

A sufficient amount of controversy connected to the exotic entertainment industry, in my opinion coming from the perspective of the dancer, has to do with a lot of expectations versus the reality. There is more to it. More to the entertainer as an individual , whether it be a male stripper or a female stripper for instistance. We still put our pants on the same way you do. There is a nice medium of appreciation for that concept.

I was taken aback of how many humanitarians I came across during the beginning stages of my exotic work.
Anxious to the idea of being 'alone in it' or that maybe I'd become numb for some mysterious reason, I initially thought but quickly understood I simply had to take a step back from the self-sabotage mentality. There is nothing wrong with staying within your own path and loving that security. Although, I found myself disappointed with my own path that it was never enough to the standard I thought to be the expectation. I was focused too much on where I wanted to be and forgot how much I am still learning and how far I've come. Which is the humbling reality of almost every experience I have encountered in my daily life. Especially dancing, I have broken habitual self-sabotaging patterns and worries I take with me to this day. Being grateful for challenges to improve your craft and confidence is empowering.





Drugs


No matter where we go, as we grow and observe throughout this journey we take in your personal lifes and in the work we practice there will be exposure to all lifestyles and barriers we may sincerely relate to or are simply unfamiliar with. I myself, year and almost two months clean now, would like to capitalize on inner conflict. All those feelings and questions you carry are valid and normal.

Each day is taking everything at your own pace, and creating your boundaries attached to those confrontations but visualising your progress following you within the days that will rain and will shine is a comforting balance between yourself and your work. You are not alone in establishing qualities of indapancy from your struggle(s) and still make a living, happy and healthy. Take your pride in the commitment of  this balance, because you made it this far and only you can subject yourself to the unwanted. You set your goals and boundaries. I am very happy and healthy working for a company promoting and lovingly encouraging sobriety,





Private Parties /  Club Life 


Coming from a club to a private company. I want to share my own feelings on positions of self-drive and benefits of indapant work. It is rather rewarding to be in a circumstance of flexible  and manageable hours and reaching goals up to your own limitations. Working for myself, I found to be very freeing to say the least. Club life was very intriguing on a physical aspect to staying accountable on working out and gaining my upper body strength doing pole work was always an aspiration of mine I've had for a long time. I obtained communicational skills that I did not know I had the ability to learn and as well bring into my personal life! I am confident with my verbal representation now.

Although, I don't know if I'd ever have interest in going back to any specific establishment. Without any negative connotation. But I definitely enjoy the freedom of traveling and  the exposure to new private parties with having a clientele that is energetically there for me is inevitably a beneficial experience for an active mind. Organization of priorities can be as fun as you make it. Just as I bring up "Trial and Error", it is all about finding your outlet that works best to coincide with your flow!



Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal


  To conclude, for my last subject I am going to touch on is all about goals. Goals! What is the goal for you? What do you want and what you are putting in will be the true turnover. Giving yourself a set reminder of short term and long goals. This is a positive attribute to you spiritually for peace of mind and your end goal. I found writing out all my goals, to a daily regimen or the next 5 years kept me in a clear mind. Staying proactive towards your future. Dancing has been the best self discipline towards almost all of my generalized goals, it forced a side of my mind to think outside of the box and pushed me to want more out of my goals with comfortability and ease. I can't take back any of the experiencing and lessons I've endured, all for the best!


Thanks for reading! If you ever want to book me or learn more about me go my dancer profile page.

Look forward to seeing you!

- Cherry


P.S. - Check me out getting spanked on live stream here. 💗




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