Wednesday, December 11, 2019

How I Went From Military To Sex Worker

Why Not Join The Military?


     My story starts at the age of 17 when I enlisted in the U.S. Army.  Leaving the nest was nerve wracking for me.  I constantly thought about the 'hows'.  How was I going to support myself?  How will I get a job with good income?  How do I start college?  Can I even afford college? Fear was guiding my future.  I come from a background of many family struggles.  I knew what I needed wasn't going to be given to me and that I had to work for it.  At that time, I was convinced the military was the best choice for me.  My older brother had served his four years and always glorified his lifestyle. Fast cars, lots of money, and always getting away with everything he ever did wrong. So I went for it. 

  


Crashing And Burning


     Fast forward 2 years.  I've completed training and I'm stationed in my home state just a few hours away from my home town.  My life is nothing like how they promised me.  My marriage was nothing but a high school fantasy and costing extra money every month. Being sheltered by the military was my current reality.  I guess I felt more confident about my future because of the resources and benefits that I had earned, but I felt like my freedom to express myself was stolen.  The rules I was made to follow held me back, and that's when I started rebelling. I developed some medical issues which gave me the excuse to stop showing up, being active, and not carrying out my duties. By the end of it, I had collected around 37 FTR's ( Failure to Report).

     My commander started my discharge process and that's when it hit me.What the hell was I going to do as a civilian?  The income I had been receiving was about to be cut off!  I was about to be kicked to the curb and left out to dry.  My future was concerning me and I acted quickly to figure it out.  Around this time all of my leaders and peers had given up hope and basically let me do whatever I pleased.  My thought process on what I could do outside of the military went to a dirty and darker place (so I thought).  Sex work.  Now I've never been the most confident girl but I knew my hips and baby blue eyes could seduce a man with great ease. I call this a superpower, every woman is equipped but most don't know how to utilize it. 

The Next Best Thing: Stripping!

      
     I went a few hours north and settled in Atlanta, better known as HotLanta. I fell in love with the city and thought it was the most amazing place. The best strip clubs in Atlanta were in all of the hottest rap songs I have loved and listened to for years. I knew I could find and utilize my divine feminine energy here... and so I did.  My intro into sex work started with a website.  I didn't have much knowledge of anything in the adult industry so most of the decisions I made were very naive.  But hey, all you can do is learn from your mistakes.  I ended up flying around the east coast with my first professional pornography company.  I enjoyed it until I realized how harsh the industry really was, and at this time my mental health was in a decline due to my low self esteem.
     
    Negative thoughts were always in the forefront of my mind: I'm not skinny enough, I don't have the 'Hollywood' features, I won't make the cut...  This was apparently all in my head because everyone in the industry wanted me to sign or film with them.  I just couldn't see past my clouded mind.  My situation got controlling and our agreement went sour.  I ran from a situation that I didn't understand and into the arms of another situation, except this one was even more dangerous, but I was too naive and stubborn to listen when I was warned. Then I flew to central Florida chasing a dream and luxurious promises.  Long story short, it was abusive.  Luckily, I found my way out. 
 

Atlanta, Home Sweet Home


     I came back home to Atlanta with my head down and tail tucked between my legs.  I thought I failed at the easiest thing, how could I fail at selling myself?  Isn't that the easiest product?  Especially for a female...  I just had to find my niche and I eventually did.  All together I tried professional porn, amateur porn, companionship (escorting), webcam modeling, modeling and even some fetish work.  After a while I was referred to a mobile stripping company by a close friend and that's when I really discovered myself.  Friendships, confidence, traveling, and a steady stream of income.  I fell completely in love with dancing.  It has made my confidence sky rocket.  Finally I was blossoming into the woman that I always wanted to be, or at least the woman I always was but could never see.

     I learned how to use all of my resources, take care of myself, and prepare my future.  I thank sex work for really opening up my eyes to the world and helping me mature even further in my adult career.  I've learned so much and now have a wide range of various incomes.  Sex work is not my end goal in life but has led me on my path and will help me achieve it eventually.  The adult industry can really mess up your mental image of yourself and your self worth.  If you want to live this life you have to be strong and trust in yourself and find the right people to trust and work with.  I wish you the best of luck.

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XOXO, Vivian Taylor


        

Safety in being an Atlanta Stripper

Safety Stripping & Exotic Dancing in Atlanta

     People ask me all the time what it feels like, regarding my safety, being a female Atlanta stripper in the entertainment industry. It doesn't matter if your dancing in an Atlanta Strip club or if you are a mobile entertainer who travels dancing and performing for on the road shows or parties, you should always feel safe in the the profession you are in. Being a female dancer or even being a male stripper you always need to take your own precautions for your own safety because not everyone has your best interest in mind. Personally, I always have at least a taser or a knife with me at all times. Some girls I know and work with have a license to carry a concealed weapon and they most certainly exercise their right to do so. I also make sure to keep my cell phone fully charged up and also keep a portable charger with me just in case for emergencies. I always let someone know where I'm at and where I am going at all times that is unless the company that books me for the event has my coordinates. When I get to a destination I then share my location on my phone or on my car with friends or family I trust just to be on the safe side. Typically security is provided at any Atlanta strip club you go to work at. Most of the time strip clubs in Atlanta such as Follies, Onyx, Magic City, Cheetah, Doll House and GC's Gentleman's Club have security outside and in the parking lots to make sure the valuable strippers get to their cars safely. They also will walk you in and out of the club during a dancer's arrival or if she needs to run out to her car. I personally like and prefer the strip clubs in the ATL that have the metal detectors as well as pat people down coming into the strip club or gentlemen's clubs in Atlanta to ensure the staff, cocktail waiters, bartenders & adult entertainers safety and make sure no one is bringing in guns or knives.

Uncomfortable Situations while Stripping


If you ever find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, let someone know. Tell a staff member or get on the phone with friends or family, (sharing your location on your phone) should already be implemented. You can turn your location sharing on in the settings or privacy option in your phone. Those are just a few things you can do to ensure your own safety. The strip club you work at should cover the rest of security. People also ask me if I get nervous doing traveling stripper parties. Typically I don't, I have not experienced anything unusual or anything that makes me uncomfortable working with the company I that hired me. I have not had any unusual situations happen to me at a strip club either. A big part of your safety is YOU. Doing any mobile entertainment parties I always bring security with me. You can hire your own security or hire the companies security if it isn't already provided. Always be honest about bringing security to a stripper party to the company, you can get fired for not being honest about your safety. As far as a customer is concerned, I don't typically tell them I have security coming with me when I confirm over the phone with them. Sometimes they get freaked out or back out, I just tell them about it when I get to the destination. Security usually waits in the car, outside of a unlocked door or in a change out room. This is a guideline every dancer needs to value and follow!

 Not only do you need to make sure you have security available to you, make sure you know your limits if your of age to drink. I recommend not to drink at all especially if your underage or driving! The last thing you want to do is get embarrassed and be uncomfortable while getting sick with your head in a toilet! Not only do you just flat out feel like crap, you miss money that you could be making instead of getting drunk and sick. Not only does it reflect on you but the company you work with as well. The customer could leave a bad review and could harm business. Keep it professional, I sometimes have a drink or two at a party but under the right conditions. Safety is so important to make sure the stripper and the customer are comfortable to have fun! Don't bring a ton of money into parties if your doing multiple ones, put your money in the bank or leave it in your car. Don't walk around with it. Another thing I do is make sure I explain my personal rules when I get to an adult entertainment party. Some of the rules I explain are no pictures or videos, no grabbing or slapping, no fingers or anything else in any of my "holes" and no sexual intercourse what so ever. I feel comfortable with some of them touching me but that way everyone knows what's expected before I even start the party. Which should have already been explained by the booking company anyway. The best way to stay safe in any situation is to use proper preparation!

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Guys/ Ladies night in Atlanta...Go Out or Stay In?

   
    Its guys night out or ladies night out and it's your turn to pick everyone's naughty entertainment for the night. Of course you don't want to spend a fortune but you want everyone to have a great time. Either a special occasion or just a night out with friends, booking a mobile stripper is a great option to fulfill those needs! You can book a female dancer or male stripper typically having multiple choices with either. A lot of people like to drink while going out but don't want to and shouldn't drink and drive. If going out to an Atlanta strip club or night club is something of your interest. Why not give hiring a private mobile dancer a chance for memories that truly stick!? Picking a mobile stripper instead of going out for your guys/ladies night has many benefits. Main benefit being you don't have to worry about driving or gas! You can literally dance the night away with your friends and have the party come to you. Really, saving a good bit of money to spend on your male or female stripper.


Many residents and tourists in Atlanta look for fun things to do, whether your at home, a cabin, lakehouse, or hotel you can have your entertainer come to you! If you're looking for some different entertaining things to do with friends, this option would be great to have fun in Atlanta. Having a ladies night out or "in"having a male dancer or a few, is a experience none of your girls will forget. You get to pick some of the sexiest male strippers in Atlanta and watch your friends go crazy and blush at the same time. If you have a special request as far as wanting your male entertainer to wear something specific like an outfit or bring toys and games, you have that option! With this things get really interesting and you can customize your fantasy instead of going to a strip club in Atlanta. Hiring a mobile entertainment company for a male or female stripper is a great option for Bachelor/ Bachelorette Parties, Birthday Surprises, Christmas Parties and so much more!


The same rules apply for your lady strippers. Customizing your mobile stripper experience is an option and don't forget your dollar bills and party favors! You don't have to worry about getting expensive drinks at the bar either. Memories that make Atlanta adult parties so much more memorable, especially when you are sharing them with friends! Hiring a mobile stripper from an entertainment company is easy and professional. All rules and regulations are known up front, security is typically provided to ensure a safe and fun time! So next time you're talking with friends about your next Ladies Night Out or Guys Night Out look into this amazing option!!!





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Tuesday, December 10, 2019

Stripping in Atlanta is Fast Money, Here's How to Save it

Stripping in Atlanta is Fast Money, Here's How to Save it 

            So, you've become an exotic dancer in Atlanta. Welcome to this crazy game of teasing and being paid. It's true what they say about the stripping lifestyle, this fast life comes with fast money. But what they fail to mention is how fast it goes. Most of what is made is spent maintaining your look and the rest is mainly for maintaining and paying bills. You never want to end up living paycheck to paycheck. Or in our case in the limelight, night to night. 

Here's a few steps to take so you can stack up those savings.

      1. IMPULSE SHOPPING 

Okay, so imagine you work in the best strip club in Atlanta. You made a bag last night., You worked super hard and it all paid off. Now you have a fat money roll in your pocket and your fingers are ITCHING to spend. You say "I'm spending it! I'll make it back tonight or the next day!". That's your first mistake. Now you've dropped a bag on a few fetish items, clothing, make up and sex toys.  And you feel great! Sooner or later that "shoppers regret" hits you. Here's how i avoid this. Always ask yourself " Do i WANT this? or do i NEED this? " Your answer lays between determining if its a supplemental or detrimental purchase.  
 


       2.  PARTYING 

    We know you want to support fellow sex workers and adult entertainers but don't end up in an overpriced Atlanta gentlemen's club. Booze is expensive. Skip the hookah bar and the lung cancer. Don't do drugs. There too pricey anyway. Stick to the greens, that's all the protein you need. Also the fact that being intoxicated makes it hard to make conscious decisions you may not otherwise make while sober, like buying another round for the whole bar. 



       3. HOUSE BROKE

    The definition of house broke is basically renting a house you cant really afford. We get it, you're making good money and you want to live as luxuriously as you feel. This disables your ability to "live" as your budget for the month is taken by your housing. Try something that's less than half of your income.



       4. FREE LOADERS

    People can be fake, We should all know this by now. When you're making good money everyone wants a piece of it.  Don't feed the moochers . I know it feels like the noble thing to do, first thing anyone does when they get money is help their family. By all means, help them. But watch out for the ones that take advantage of your help. And its normally from the ones you're closest too.



     Take these tips and learn from the experiences of others, apply it to your life and start succeeding. 



Xoxo, Vivian Taylor. To book me now click here  


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Monday, December 9, 2019

Sweat Coin makes Atlanta Strippers extra Money while Stripping?

Hello there,

I am an Atlanta stripper while dancing and I downloaded an app called Sweat Coin that allows me to earn real coin just for walking, running, dancing & aerobics. I was definitely skeptical at first but after showing my roommate & us doing our own research on the app we found it to be harmless and worth giving a try. I had actually forgotten all about the application on my phone and look at the app a few weeks after creating my account to find I earned with absolutely zero effort! It has probably been close to 6 months since I have downloaded it and I have to say that I am pleased with everything so far.

    I benefit the most from the app while dancing or entertaining in the adult industry but it also accrues a decent amount from just my daily everyday activities. When it comes to exotic dancing I have to integrate the app with my smart watch or wear my sexy skin toned phone pouch while I am performing. Every night dancing I earn TONS of Sweat Coins just off of the app running while I work! I highly advise anyone who has even the slightest bit of an active career or 9 to 5 job to most definitely try this app and see how much you earn. I just wish I had found this little piece of technology years ago!

    The app literally requires nothing but downloading and creating an account but has other options to help it's users generate a higher revenue and income from the Sweat Coin application. I hope this helps the little guy out who can't seem to get ahead or the Atlanta stripper just looking to stack some extra cash while doing what he/she is doing already. Hope you sweat a lot AND make lots of coin!

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Being an Adult Entertainer, but Closed Minded to further Financial Opportunities

    
    There's a lot that comes with being an adult entertainer in Atlanta. Mostly the backlash on one's perspective is what they think an adult entertainer is and what we do. I meet strippers all the time that work in some of the best strip clubs in Atlanta. They are really good at what they do but it's frustrating when I try to explain to them what I do as a mobile stripper. The opportunities it brings set aside from me being present in that atmosphere. A ton of adult entertainers get comfortable where they are and are closed minded in other upcoming opportunities because it may "seem to be" whatever they picture in their mind other than actually looking into it. Most strippers I've met think adult entertainment just stops at a strip club. That's not the case at all! When I speak with a woman about doing traveling adult entertainment, they almost instantly think someone is trying "pimp" them or get over on them. Not even being interested in doing background work on looking into different options and what it's all about being a traveling adult entertainment stripper. These people have no idea how much more fun and money they will have just by looking into and trying it.
Typically a stripper that works in a Atlanta strip club will come in to start a 10 to 12 hour shift. They pay for parking, tip the Dj, house mom, may buy an outfit or food and tip out to the club anywhere from $20 to $150 or more. That's a large percentage taken away from your overall income working a shift like that. The thing about taking away that kind of pay, it may be sufficient at the time but you really don't see the bigger picture overall for the work you are performing. Being a mobile stripper is something you should do with an established company. There are scams and shady people out there. I can't stress enough to do your homework!!! If you take your time to make sure a company is well established and respected, it's easier to take a chance. Just like a well established Atlanta strip club, people trust they can be treated rite. Typically, any woman that starts working at any strip club is more than likely going to do some kind of research on it or ask around for an opinion from someone that has experience at that strip club. There are strip clubs that are better than others, which may be a final decision in ones choice. Which should be done with most decisions in anyone's lifestyle, doing research on what's consuming your time.
    It's interesting having interactions with people that have a similar background and hustle as me but won't open up their mind to even consider a financial opportunity to help better their own situation. That's all it took for me, is for a business associate to approach me and explain a legitimate business opportunity that he was offering and the benefits it involved. Of course, it caught my attention but I did my homework. I found out the company that was spoken of was credited for, well established and recommended by many relevant reviewers. I gave it a chance... I was nervous, with this being my first traveling adult entertainment show but to my surprise it went much better and smoother than expected. I had a "mentor" guiding me through what was to be expected and in our agreed company terms. As far as collecting payments, following safety guidelines, what to say to customers, when to go and stop, making boundaries and ending the party with grace. It's almost like a regular office job that includes training. You are not left alone, starting out with legit companies that lead and support in an accurate way.  Most female strippers get intimidated by the concept of working outside of a strip club and being a mobile stripper. When in reality you have a team that backs you up legitimately through safety, law and respect. In my experience, on any mobile entertainment booking I've been hired on, I get a full detail on who is conducting the party, how many people are attending, any requests that have been included, and your own flat fee you collect when you arrive at the party which is anywhere from $130 to $500. The max booking rate per hour could be 30 minutes to 1 hour not including the tips you make at your party overall. The flat fee is for the entertainers guaranteed booking fee. The only thing that makes a mobile stripper stay past their booking fee time is strictly tips. They are earning past their booking fee plus more.
    The more entertainment a stripper has included in their show, the more likely it is for the customers to stay interested. That's where you have space to get creative and start collecting your benefits.
Comparing the flat booking fee plus tips on top of that, a mobile entertainer's overall income compared to a top "reviewed" strip club in Atlanta that an experienced worker has worked a long shift in is non comparable. Going into a strip club nothing is guaranteed, everything is a gamble. With traveling adult entertainment you know exactly what, who, when and where, before you give a final confirmation. Being in the adult entertainment industry with everything it involves it is hard enough. Not being confident as a traveling professional entertainer and respected as one independently instead of having a company and contacts supporting you is another confirmation.

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Stripping is what got me into Modeling, Believe It or Not!

Working for the Atlanta adult entertainment company I work for, required me to get professional photos done by an Atlanta professional photographer that they provided for me or from a photographer that I might personally know or prefer myself. I knew of no one so I went with their licensed and professional company photographer that they recommended me. The reason the company needs a professional photo of you is to put you on their website so you can be booked for parties, shoots and gigs. Without those photos displayed on their website they said that no one will know that I even exist and they would rarely have any or much work for me. One thing I was informed to do by the company management was to put my professional photos on a website called Model Mayhem. They are a website for models to get noticed by other photographers. Or even the other way around for photographers to shoot a famous or non famous model. Once you make your profile and upload photos and give credit to the photographers your all set. And that’s what happened with me, once I created my profile and uploaded the professional photos. I have had photo shoot after photo shoot, whether it be a nude photo shoot or a lingerie photo shoot. They are fun and it gives you more followers for your instagram. The followers then give you more people that want to book you on the website. The photographers are based upon your comfortably. If your not comfortable getting naked then do a fashion photo shoot or a swimsuit shoot. I have done about four photo shoots since I’ve been on Model Mayhem. You get to meet new people while taking sexy pictures of yourself and later getting to show the world those sexy pictures. My hopes is to get enough content, enough followers to where I naturally start getting request for paid and featured shoots. If you are looking to get into modeling in Atlanta there are many ways to enter into modeling industry and this is just one of them. I hope you enjoyed my short read on how I became a model in Atlanta Georgia. To see what I look like in person to anyone interested click HERE! ;)

Angel


My first experience being a Female Atlanta Stripper

This is how I went from being a sweet innocent girl, to being an Atlanta female stripper.

I had enough of working as a hooters girl in Atlanta because it was not enough money coming in to pay the bills. I said “ I need to look for stripping jobs in Atlanta”. The guy that I was talking to who happen to know a friend who owned his own stripping company. Jokingly, I  said, “I should be an Atlanta female stripper, I’m tired of not making enough money.” The guy said he could hook me up with the stripping company. I thought he was kidding until we showed up to their house, and I met the owner of MC Entertainment. He was telling me all about what to do, how to do it, and everything that’s involved in the industry. I completely wanted to do it. It sounded absolutely amazing.  To think I could be seriously stripping in Atlanta and it being a source for me to pay my bills. But, what I didn’t know is there was an audition. You have to audition before you could even do the shadow party. When I heard the audition part, I was instantly scared because in my head I’m thinking this is the guy I’m talking to, and I have to strip butt naked. It made me extremely nervous.
As weeks go by, I get a call about potentially getting to work a party. I totally said yes! i believe I said “ I get to be an exotic dancer finally”. I knew I wouldn’t be so nervous about having to dance on strangers. On October twenty-fourth, I get a text from the owner saying I have my shadow party tonight, it’s for a bachelor and his boys. My heart would not stop pounding out my chest,I was so excited!!! Ten o’clock came a lot quicker than usual that day for me, but I was completely dressed and ready to go for my first party. I was nervous OF COURSE!!!!!
As we pull into the drive way to the bachelor’s house, my heart drops, here comes all the nervous.  The boys knew that they were about to have some Atlanta adult fun.It was me and another dancer was with me. They told me just follow the rules, games and just dance and have fun. After fifteen minutes of getting ready, the party starts.The other dancer  Jasmine let all the guys know that this was my first party and that my name is Angel. I saw what the two other girls were doing and I followed along. I did absolutely amazing!!!! After the party was over, i met with the owner and I looked at the owner and said, “I don’t even know what I was nervous for”. I absolutely loved it and I still do it to this day.
I definitely recommend anyone that thinks about being an Atlanta stripper to just do it. Your gonna be nervous, everyone is but just get in and have fun. Once you start seeing the money hit the floor, all the nerves go away I promise. Just think your not in a strip club working in Atlanta for just a dollar at a time.

Take Uber to an Atlanta Strip Club or Uber A Stripper To You?

Maybe you want to relax and have some fun for a night. Or it's the weekend and you are celebrating a special occasion. You want to maximize your experience and be comfortable. With mobile stripping, we can do all those things plus much more! Since I have been working as a stripper in Atlanta, traveling has been fun. Not only do I have a great time, but keeping the customers happy in a way only we can is pretty fulfilling too. There's a ton of benefits a mobile entertainer can offer. Adult entertainment in Atlanta (mobile) vs. some of the best Atlanta strip clubs like Follies, Cheetah or Magic City is so much better with this option! If you have ever watched a movie of somebody celebrating a birthday party and they hire a mobile stripper, they come in ready to entertain! Wearing something of your choice or theirs. A cop outfit, dominatrix, even a kitty if you please!
  The process on hiring a mobile stripper is pretty easy. First, find a good reliable company on google (make sure you read the reviews). Then, you pick which ever entertainer(s) you prefer to hire. You can choose to book a male stripper or female stripper. You could choose a Black stripper, White, Asian or something different. You pay a deposit for the booking fee, then pay the rest when your entertainers arrive. Make sure you have other money ready for tips! Have a space where your stripper can get ready and come out to start your show. What makes hiring a traveling stripper fun instead of going to a strip club, is you can request certain games, outfits, and even fetishes all in the comfort of your own home. It's more customized to the customer's preference.
   Usually when a party gets started your stripper will have music going, introduce themselves and state their personal rules making everyone comfortable. They play games, one of my favorites is called "pussy pick up". It's when a customer lays on the ground and I put dollar bills all over their body. I then pick them up with my pussy. Depending on where they want me to pick up the bill, it may get a little more expensive. You can have your own party favors and not spend a fortune in a strip club on drinks/bottles or food. Hiring a mobile stripper you don't have to worry about parking, valet, or a cover charge to even go in the club. You already spend a good amount getting into a strip club in Atlanta without even seeing a stripper first. You have a great customer service experience with sweet girls that are professional. You don't have to deal with girls that are stuck up and just wanting to give you a dance and keep moving. This experience will have you coming back for more and telling your friends and family about it for sure.

Sunday, October 20, 2019

Why This Atlanta Stripper Doesnt Get Involved With Clients


     Why don't I get involved with clients? I get asked to get involved with my clients all the time and I have a few different reasons why I won't. But trust me sometimes I do want to get involved! I try to stick to the rule of not getting involved with anyone because at the end of the day getting involved can make things messy.

    First of all, if I give it up to one of the guys then everyone will expect it, which turns into something that I cannot handle nor would I ever want to handle. The second that guys think you're an escort or that you are open to seeing them outside of a party everyone wants to hop on the option, too. What sucks is that even if I do want to get involved I don't want to make anyone else mad that I don't want to get involved with them, too. Because sometimes there are really sexy guys at the parties and I do want to sleep with them or go out with them. But it's hard for men to understand why, as a stripper, I wouldn't want to fuck everyone there. But that's another blog for another time!

    Second, it gives the clients expectations about our company. Just because one girl got involved with clients, doesn't mean that everyone else will, too. It would suck for a girl to come to a party and everyone there think that she's also an escort or that she's down to fuck because someone else from the company did. It just creates a whole messy situation that nobody wants.

    I also don't get involved with clients because that's not really the way I want to meet someone that I would want to be in a relationship with or hangout with. I feel like the whole situation would make things kind of weird between us. Like what if I wanted to take things slow, he has already seen me butt ass naked, I've danced all over him and his friends. He wouldn't be able to take me seriously if I said I wanted to take things slow- and I wouldn't blame him for that. It depends on the situation and the guy but sometimes I don't want to have sex for a while because I actually like the person I'm seeing and sex makes things messy sometimes. I can't expect someone to wait when they've seen every inch of me already.

    Lastly, I feel like if I did get involved with clients it would create a weird place in my head with my job. If I was hanging out with all my clients all the time I wouldn't be able to separate my life from work. At the end of the day, stripping is my job. Although it's definitely unconventional it still is my line of work and how I make money. I don't always want to be in work mode and I think that if I had a bunch of my clients around me I would have to be in work mode. I wouldn't be able to be myself either because I would have to put this show on that I'm overly sexual because that's the character I put on at parties, which isn't totally me. I don't know, I just feel like it would create a whole situation where I couldn't get away with work and I had to be the stripper version of me instead of me me.

There's definitely a lot more cons then there are pros of getting involved with clients. I try to keep my side of the street very clean with my job. I try to make sure I'm doing the best I can, and getting involved wouldn't be the best that I can. I try to respect myself and my boundaries as well. Keeping work and my personal life separate is definitely the best move for me. So, I'll continue to do it!

Rules at Private Parties in Atlanta

This blog is all about the rules that we have at private parties. These rules are essential to creating a safe space for everyone to feel comfortable and still have a fun time. I make sure to ALWAYS say all of the rules every single time I go to a party- even if they have booked with us before and they know the rules. It always is important to state the rules in the beginning, too, so there's no confusion during the party. If you don't state your boundaries, you can't get mad for them not being followed, right? So make sure to always lay out the ground rules so that nobody crosses a line that will make your night worse, and so you don't make the clients feel bad about it either. So, here we go!

First rule is no pictures or videos during the performance. This rule is very important and usually is always followed with no questions asked. We do a lot of bachelor parties and most of the men have wives or fiancés so they don't want it to be documented because they don't want there to be any proof! That rule is set there because our company plays different party games and we don't want the fun getting out. It would spoil all of the fun if everyone already knew the party games and knew what they were getting into. It's a surprise every time to everyone there what we do. Also, we don't want to give anything away for free. If someone posts a video of us playing some of the games, we're not getting paid for that person seeing it. So, that's unfair to us. I know for me, I don't give anything away for free!

Second rule is no fingers in our pussy or ass. This one always makes everyone laugh, but we have to say it because guys will try it all the time and they would DEFINITELY try it if we hadn't said not to. This one seems like it would be common sense not to do that to someone, but guys are dumb when their at parties and when their drinking. So we have to say this rule and I absolutely hate it when people try it. 

Third rule is just to be respectful with the touching. We're okay with a squeeze and will touching here and there but we do ask for everyone to be respectful. Being respectful means don't slap us really hard, don't squeeze til it hurts, don't slap our pussies, etc. Just understand that yes we are strippers but we are also people and we having feelings too! We don't like it when we feel taken advantage of.

Fourth rule is don't recycle the money. If it hits the floor or if its in any of our garments its our money now. Don't pick it up and give it back to us, it's super tacky and not cute. We are there to make money at the end of the day, so when it looks like you're trying to take advantage of the money we make it pisses us off and it's not a good look for anyone. 

So as you can see there's not a lot of rules, and they aren't unreasonable at all. They make a lot of sense and they keep the party going a lot smoother. They also help so that there's no awkwardness about anything, too. If you hire private dancers, make sure that you follow all of their rules (everyone I'm sure has different ones, these are just mine) because it will make them stay longer and make them feel comfortable which is usually what everyone wants. 

Wednesday, October 9, 2019

Why is it Legal to Tease, but not to Please?

So, I was asked recently, “why do you think that it’s  legal to tease people, but not legal to please people?” and it really got me thinking.

A lot of people view sex workers as slutty, dirty, without self-worth/self-love, etc. I don’t know why so many people look down on sex work and sex workers, but it just comes with the job. I have learned that some people are open to it, and some people aren’t. It’s just the way it is. So this blog is going to be about my opinions of the legalities of sex work.


Obviously strip clubs are legal, and obviously it’s not a crime to order strippers, or go to a strip club. But, for some reason, it’s illegal to perform sexual favors for money; and I don’t think that it should be. Now, keep an open mind about what my reasons are because they make sense. I have thought about this topic for a while, so don’t think that I am just pulling this out of my ass. I’m not. This is truly what I believe, and why. 

First of all, being an escort is a job. No matter what it is, if you’re doing something for money it’s technically a job and a source of income. It’s a way to support yourself, and even to support your family. Some people can’t work in a desk/office job environment. I know I can’t. I would be absolutely miserable behind a desk all day. So, it’s a different kind of job and a way to make money in an unconventional way, but it’s not wrong. It’s different- and a lot of people can’t accept “different”, which sucks. But. coming back to my point, it is a job. There’s no reason why this kind of job should be illegal. If both parties are consenting, let these people make money! It’s very unfair to not let people work the way they want to. Everyone wants different things for their lives, and everyone has their limits on what their willing to do. So, if someone is willing and able to be an escort, there’s no reason why they shouldn’t be able to work. 

Second, if it’s all consensual, then there is nothing wrong with it. It’s not illegal to have consensual sex, or a consensual blowjob. Why is making money off of it suddenly not okay? I know so many people who have sex with their significant other to get something in return. For example, one of my best friends told me how the other day she got her boyfriend to get her breakfast with a blowjob. This is technically giving a sexual favor for something in return. So, when it comes to money or jewelry, or new clothes it’s suddenly wrong? This doesn’t make any sense. Why is it not considered wrong when you’re in a relationship but when it’s with someone else, it’s wrong? Why are we slut shaming escorts, and saying that their bad people or dirty people? They are living their lives the way they want to. If they didn’t want to be an escort anymore, they would stop. A lot of people think that escorts are stuck in this place where they have to have sex for money, but most of the time their doing it because they want to. If I didn’t want to be a stripper anymore, I wouldn’t. Case closed. 

Finally, I think that it’s illegal is because it makes people uncomfortable. For some reason, someone decided that sex is a private thing, and you shouldn’t be open about how it makes you feel or if you like sex at all. It’s become this thing that we need to hide, and keep secret. Well, I say fuck that. I love sex and I’m more than happy to talk about my sex life and talk about it. It’s not a dirty thing. It’s the most natural thing a human being can do. Sex is full of pleasure and excitement. It’s not something we should feel like we have to hide. I am extremely open about my sex life, and people know that I like to have sex. This doesn’t make me a whore, and it doesn’t make me a dirty person, either. This makes me human; and I’m proud of myself for not being ashamed of something that everyone does. 

So, if you read this whole blog you can clearly know that I am all for sex work and all for escorting to be legal. It’s a personal choice if you want to partake in escorting. It’s not wrong, it’s not bad, and it makes sense. Some people get off on the feeling of paying someone for sexual favors, and some people do it for the money. Sex is a normal thing, and if you want that to be your job, then fucking do it! Be who you are to the fullest, because you only have one life to live. I would love to see a world where sex work is just like any other job, and hopefully one day we will get there. But for now, I guess doing illegal stuff is the way to go! 

Games I Play at Adult Parties in Atlanta

I am so excited to talk about the games we play at parties. A lot of people think that I just dance because I'm a stripper, but when we come to you it's a whole different story. I work at a mobile service company, not a club. Which is 200% better because all the rules are different and you're not surrounded by body guards the whole time, too! So here is a list of all the exciting games we play at parties.

First one we play is called “spank the bachelor”. We replace bachelor with whatever the occasion is. For example if it’s a birthday party we call it “spank the birthday boy@. You get it. So basically it’s a dollar per spank. So if we get $20 we give 20 spanks. It’s so funny how much money guys will give just to watch a stripper spank their friend. It’s amazing how silly these guys think it is. We usually make a good amount of money just off of that game, and it’s super simple.

Then, we play a game called “bobbing for dollars”. For this one we get the guy who’s party it is to take off his pants and just have his underwear on. We get him and his friends to stuff dollar bills in their underwear and we pick them out only using our mouths. This one is a little harder because sometimes they stuff them deep down in their underwear and it’s hard to get them out. I am honestly horrible at that game. If I’m doing a one girl party I skip the game all together because I’m so bad at it! The other girls I dance with are usually so much better and I let them be in charge of that game. Lol.

Third game, which is definitely my favorite, is called pussy pick up. I don’t know what you’re thinking but yes, we pick up dollar bills using our pussy’s. It’s amazing! So, basically we get the guy to lay down on the ground on his back. Then we take dollar bills, fold them hotdog style, lay them all over his body, and pick them up using our pussy. We also will take them off your face for $20. Guys swoon over this game because they don’t know how we actually pick the dollar bills up I’m not gonna tell you!

Then we do whipped cream shots which always are a crowd pleaser. Basically you get to lick whipped cream off of our bodies. So it’s $20 for titty shots, $10 for ass shots, and $20 for bikini line shots. This is less of a game and more of an exciting activity everyone gets to be a part of. Again, guys love this game. Who wouldn’t!?

The final game we do is called “cooter shooters”. This one is also one of my favorites just because it’s so fun and you literally couldn’t get this anywhere else. So the cooter shooters are a vile of alcohol, like a test tube, and you get to take a shot out of our pussy! The guy sits down on a sturdy chair, spreads his legs, and then we put our head in between his legs and flip over so our pussy is right in their face, put the vile in our pussy, and then he takes the shot! You have to be somewhat flexible to play this game, so some girls choose not to do them. Which is totally fine- the most important thing is that the girls are always comfortable. But this game is truly amazing. Whoever came up with these ideas is a genius.

And those are all of our games! I love my job and I love working at a mobile service company instead of a club. You can’t get any of the games at a club, it’s really only house parties. The surprise and excitement of all of their faces when you pull those games out never gets old! So, if you are debating on whether you should go to a club or order strippers, ALWAYS order them. It’s way more fun, and you get to interact 100% more. Thanks for reading!

XO,
Lola

Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Dumb Things Guys Say/Do at Strip-O-Gram Parties

Hey guys! This blog is all about the dumb things guys do/say at parties that I'm at. It was really fun writing this one, so I hope you're entertained from it, too. And what's so funny about this blog is that it really is just directed at guys. I've done parties that females were at and they followed all of the rules and didn't do anything that I didn't like. I've also done all girl parties and they were so respectful and never broke any of my rules or made me feel uncomfortable. Boys are just dumb at parties. I understand that they just get excited, though. So even though it does bug me, I get it at the same time. Anyways, here are just a few dumb things guys do!

1. Blatantly break one of my rules (or more) thinking I won't see or notice. This one pisses me off! I hate it when people make me feel like I'm stupid. I know I'm not, so when they try to be sneaky and do things thinking I won't notice- yeah, it makes me mad. They think that I'm stupid and it really gets under my skin. Like the last party I did. One of my rules is that there is no videos or pictures during the show. This old guy was obviously taking a video of me and I confronted him about it. He argued with me thinking that he could get out of it. I made him delete the video, but it still bothered me that he really thought I was stupid and wouldn't notice. I'll just say I didn't dance on him or go near him for the rest of the night. Momma doesn't play with that.

2. Asking me how much it costs to have sex with me after I've clearly stated I am not an escort. This one is just so stupid. It's crazy how men really don't know what to do with the word "no". I don't know if it's the way that they were raised or what, but some men really do not understand that no means no. It doesn't mean maybe and if you keep asking me I'll say yes. It means NO. Get it through your head that I am here to dance and entertain. There's no afterparty show. I'll do private dances but even when I'm doing that there's nothing more than dancing going on in that bedroom. I'm just a dancer ladies and gentlemen. Sorry to disappoint!

3. Slapping my pussy. This one is just painful! I think that guys forget that the vagina is super sensitive. So when you slap it, it hurts more than when you slap my ass or my arm. It stings and makes my pussy throb! No one wants to see that and I don't want to feel that. I absolutely HATE when guys do this. It's not cute at all and doesn't turn me on in the slightest bit. It makes me ignore you for the rest of the night which nobody likes. So respect me because I am human.

So, yeah those are just a few dumb things that guys do at parties besides at times just being cheap and pretending they don't have money to spend. I really do love my job so it sucks when guys do some of these things because it irritates me and makes me not want to stay long because I'm on edge. So, be nice and use your brain people! I've said it before and I'll say it again: just  because we are strippers and are in the sex industry doesn't mean we don't have feelings. We are people too, and we deserve respect just like anyone else. 

How I Became a Stripper in Atlanta Georgia

This is the adorable little story of how I became a stripper. It all started with a group that I was in. It was all about personal growth, and becoming the best person that you could be. It was a really beautiful group that helped me through some bad times. Anyways, I met the two owners of the company in the group and became friendly with them. I didn't know what they did for work, but it came up one day while we were all hanging out. I thought it was so cool because I had never met a stripper before- and these strippers owned their own company. I was so intrigued and wanted to know more. So they explained how the parties went and what kind of money you got and asked if I wanted to dance for them. I told them I would think about it because there were a lot of factors to add in, but I was very interested.

The next couple of weeks went by and it was a fleeting thought in the back of my head. First of all, I knew that my boyfriend wouldn't approve and he would be furious if I started dancing. Second, I was terrified of what my family would say. I was 18 at the time and still lived with my mom, so I felt that she would find out and my whole family would hate me. Third, I didn't know if I could actually do it at all. Can I dance good enough? Am I pretty enough? Do I have the confidence? These were all questions that were constantly racing through my head. 

I would see the owners about once a week and every time I saw them they would ask me if I was ready. I would joke with them about it at first, pretending like I was interested when I knew I wouldn't be able to pull it off. But every time they asked me if I was ready, I would consider it more and more every time. Eventually, I decided that it was something I would want to try out. So I talked to the owners, an audition time was made, and before I knew it I was buying a new outfit for my audition, and practicing all my sexiest dance moves. My boyfriend and I broke up so I decided that was the perfect time to actually go to my audition and see if I could work for the company. Then, I was on my way to their house.

I brought a friend with me to find an outfit, and then he ended up coming to the audition with me. That was so helpful because I was so incredibly nervous. I had to dance and strip all the way down in front of the owner and the manager. I had to give both of them lap dances and I was a nervous wreck. Looking back on it now, it was so funny that I had to do that. Anyways, they loved me from my audition and all of a sudden I was at my first party and fell in love with dancing. 

It's weird how the best things in life come from such weird places. But I love my job and I couldn't be more grateful to that group for helping me find my people who let me be who I want to be. 

Tuesday, October 1, 2019

How to Keep a Stripper at your Atlanta Party Longer

This blog is gonna give you some tips and tricks on how to get a stripper to stay at your party longer. The common subject is just being polite, and understanding that although we are strippers and we work in the sex industry, we are still people. We all still have feelings and we care about the way we are treated. I know in my experience, when someone breaks my rules or they disrespect me, I don't go near them for the rest of the night. So, follow these tips and you're sure to have your dancer there for a long time!

1. This one is super obvious, and a no-brainer: TIP BIG! If you're planning on ordering strippers to your house, prepare to spend a lot of money. There's nothing more annoying then driving all the way to a party to make no money. So, prepare to have your wallet cry in the morning. Have one's and it's always impressive when you tip with more than just one's ;)

2. I wish that I could say that this one is common sense, but it has to be said at every party that I dance at. Be respectful. I personally don't mind if you touch, or squeeze, but when you're slapping me and throwing me around, that's another story. This one guy slapped my pussy so hard one time I almost cried. That shit is not okay. It made me super mad, I wanted to leave, and I didn't perform my best that night because I felt uncomfortable. When you're disrespectful, it makes me want to steer clear of you, no matter how much money you have.

3. I also wish that I could say that this is common sense, but I have to talk about it. Listen to all of the rules, follow all of the rules, and try to enforce them, too. This kind of ties in with the respect thing, but it pisses me off so much that after we have said all of our rules, you decide to break them. It's like some men feel special and like they don't have to follow the rules. EVERYONE has to follow them. Even if I was stripping for my boyfriend and his friends, he still would have to follow the rules, too. I don't care who you are. I don't have a lot of rules and I'm super easy-going. So it's no surprise that when you break my rules, I ignore you for the rest of the night and I get pissed. Follow the rules and you will have an amazing night.

4. This one is just helpful, and for me it makes me want to stay longer. When you offer food and drinks, and you're just welcoming in general, it makes me feel comfortable. When I feel comfortable somewhere I'm okay staying longer because I know I'm safe. So when I feel so welcomed, it's hard not to want to stay and hangout. I've stayed at parties an hour or two after the performance just hanging out because the guy's were nice and they offered us a bunch of free food and free alcohol (which no one can ever complain about!). So, be a good host and your dancers will love you!

5. Last but not least, let us be in control. I love it when guys are listening, and they understand that we want to have fun with you guys but we're in a room, outnumbered, and it's hard to talk over a bunch of people. Let us be in control of what's going on and what's happening. And also- let us be in control of when and where we're dancing, and when to play the party games and all that. There's nothing more annoying then being told what to do or how to do my job. I know what I'm doing-trust me. Let me do my thing. Just sit down, relax, and enjoy the show.

So, follow these tips and tricks to get your dancers to stay longer. Everyone always has so much fun at these parties, and they usually don't want us to leave, so I'm guessing you won't want them to leave, too! Again, they're mostly all about being respectful and sweet. So use your brain, and treat these hard working people with the upmost respect.



















Wednesday, September 25, 2019

My Family VS. My Stripping Job

This blog is going to be a bit of a venting session for me, so hang on tight. This is going to be about how I walk around literally feeling like I have two lives. One version of me is the way that my family wants to see me, and one version of me is who I actually am. This is the venting blog session of the half stripper, half innocent daughter.

So, I started dipping my toes into the sex worker side of the world about two and a half years ago. I decided to become a stripper and see what it was all about. I did one party and fell in love. I loved the attention, and how fun it actually was. I loved being able to dance and shake my ass without any shame or judgement. And of course, I absolutely adored the money. The way that people just threw it at you like you're the queen of the world and worth every single penny they've ever worked for, is a fucking fantastic feeling. Anyways, I just knew that this was something that I wanted to do for a long time. I was 18 years old at the time, and still lived with my parents. I moved out after about three or four months of stripping- but the entire time I hid the fact that I was a stripper. My family had absolutely no idea. I did tell my friends but nobody in my family knew about it, because I knew if they did know about it they wouldn't be anything near okay with it. So I fell in love with my job but had to hide it from the people I loved most. It sucked and it got super hard to keep it a secret, and one day it just slipped to my older sister. And my whole family found out and they were furious. And it was horrible and awful and so upsetting.

So, a year later I decided that it was my life and I wanted to start dancing again, so I talked to my old bosses and they welcomed me back with open arms. So, now I'm dancing again and I have to really really keep it a secret this time around or my family will never speak to me again. And now I'm just stuck in this place of really wanting to be honest with them, but also knowing what will happen if I am honest. It's a super shitty place to be in, because I really do hate lying to them. But I also want to be able to live my life the way I want to live it. This is something I want to do and I don't want to live my life based on making other people happy. So, I decided that this is what I'm going to do.

But, now I'm just stuck in a place of hating that I am lying to my whole family, and hating why I have to lie. I have to lie because my family is judgmental, and they refuse to accept something they don't understand or try to understand for that matter. They refuse to hear my side of the story, or to try to understand why I do it and why I like doing it. It just makes me sad that something that I love to do in my life is completely unacceptable to the people I love most. It's unfair that I can't be happy and be everything they want me to be. Frankly, it fucking sucks. And I'm pissed about it. So thank you for listening to this random, weird venting session. I know it'll be figured out eventually, but for now- it blows. 

Thursday, September 12, 2019

The Effects Stripping Has Had on My Self-Esteem


Before I start getting into this blog, I want everyone reading it to know that this is my personal experience and I do not speak for anyone but myself. I am in no way speaking for anyone else or trying to put myself in another stripper’s shoes. This is all from me. 

Okay, so this blog may shock you, or this may be exactly what you thought. But to be perfectly honest with everyone, stripping has boosted my self-esteem beyond compare. I feel like the baddest bitch ever when I am dancing. It’s honestly so hard not to feel like that when you have tons of men literally drooling over you and throwing their hard earned cash on you. How else am I supposed to feel?!

I’ve been stripping now for about two years. I can’t count the amount of times people have asked me, “don’t you feel so degraded? Doesn’t that kill your self-esteem? How do you even live like that?”. To which I always reply, “I love stripping and it has boosted my self confidence more than anything else has. I love my job, and I love the way it makes me feel.” 

I guess this isn’t the most conventional way to boost your self-esteem, but for me it works. Just like anyone else, I’m insecure about my body sometimes. There are definitely many times where I look in the mirror and absolutely hate what I’m seeing. But, when I go to a party I immediately know that I will feel better about myself when I leave. Something that I’ve learned is that I am my worst critic. I am so mean to myself sometimes. It’s funny because the way I talk to myself I would never let any of my friends ever talk that way about themselves. So, when I’m feeling horrible about myself or I just can’t stand to look in the mirror, I think about the party that I had last week where guys were fighting over who I paid attention to. That they were literally emptying their wallets in the hope that I would stay longer. If that doesn’t boost your confidence, what will??? 

Like I said in the beginning, this is totally my own experience. I know that the job can be degrading, but I don’t think I’ve ever felt like that. I know that it seems like after a while it would tear at you, or you wouldn’t enjoy it as much, but for me this hasn’t been the case yet. I really do enjoy my job and I really enjoy the reactions that I get while I’m doing my job. It feels good to know how many people want you and desire you. It feels good to know that you really are that bitch! So for me stripping has had an awesome effect on my self-esteem, and I hope that it continues to do so. All I know is that for now, I will continue to strip and continue to let it boost my confidence and make me feel amazing. I love my job and all the benefits that come with it!

XO, 
Lola


The Essentials For an Adult Private Party or Strip Club

This blog is to tell you all about what you need when you are heading to a party. The way that my company works is that we go to your party, so we’re a mobile service company. If you’ve ever seen strippers in a movie showing up to someone’s house in a cop uniform, that’s pretty much what we do. When we’re at the party we dance (obviously) but we also play party games as well. So, it’s essential to have a few things when preparing to head out to a party.

First, you need the outfit you’re going to wear, but ALWAYS pack some backups. Bring two or three outfits just in case one gets ruined or a zipper breaks. You always need extras since you’re traveling to their spot. I always pack at least three or four bras and thongs, two outfits, and two pairs of shoes. Heels break and so do straps! It’s always better to be prepared. 

Second, you need all of the party game accessories. We play a few different games, but one includes spanking, another includes whipped cream, and another includes something we call “cooter shooters” (which are tubes of alcohol we put into our pussy and they take a shot of it). Those are really fun, trust me. So, I always make sure to pack a whip, some whipped cream, the shooters, baby wipes (to clean up the whipped cream), and a bag to hold it all in. I also bring a party light, a speaker, and a money bag. Those are also important because they set the mood for a fun party and of course you’re going to need a bag to put all your money in while you’re dancing. 

Next, I always make sure to bring some beauty essentials. I always have my hair and makeup done when I go into the party, but I always make sure to bring back up just in case my makeup gets messed up in the car or when I’m changing. I always bring my makeup bag, and a hair straightener with a brush, just in case. Then of course you bring perfume, pussy spray (like perfume or deodorant for your pussy), deodorant, hair ties, hair spray, and a handheld mirror. Those are just extras to prepare for the beauty part. Guys want you to look put together and smell nice, too. They care about your face, too, not just your body!

These are exactly what you’ll need if you’re going to your first party, or if you don’t know what to pack. A lot of this can also be used in a club (minus the whipped cream and shooters). If you’re just starting to get in the club/dancing scene make sure you come prepared! And don’t forget to have fun, and make lots of money

XO, 
Lola

Friday, August 30, 2019

Everything you Need to Know About Becoming a Stripper in Atlanta Georgia

I’m here to tell you everything you need to know about becoming a stripper. If you’re interested in starting to dance, or you’re just curious this is the blog for you!
First, prepare to audition. It’s plain and simple people: if you can’t dance, you probably shouldn’t become a stripper. That sounds harsh but it’s the truth. A lot of people think that being a stripper means you just have to be able to take your clothes off, but you have to be able to actually dance, too. Nobody wants to see a stripper who has no rhythm and who can’t shake their ass to a simple song. The whole point of stripping is putting on a sexy show, and if you’re not coordinated it usually doesn’t work out. When you apply at a club, or a company like mine, you usually have to audition to prove that you can move and put on a good show. So, prepare to show your moves and show just how sexy you can be. 
Second, prepare to be butt ass naked in front of a bunch of random people. You cannot be shy and be a stripper. It depends on what club or what company you work for, whether you’ll have to get completely naked or not. For my company, I do get completely nude, which I am totally fine with because I have prepared myself to be confident in front of others while exposing every single part of me. You can’t get up on stage and act nervous or insecure. The fantasy is that you’re a sexy person who knows how sexy you are. The fantasy isn’t a person on stage who actually hates themselves and is embarrassed or shy to show themselves. You have to get those nerves away from you before you get on stage in front of people. Trust me, the crowd will notice if you feel insecure or you’re not confident. So make sure you throw away all those insecurities before stepping in the spotlight. You’re sexy as hell, show everyone how much you believe that!
Third, expect the unexpected. Never go into a party or your shift in a club thinking you’ll know exactly what’s going to happen that night. This is especially for people who work in the kind of setting that I do, where we go to your party. So we’re going over to someone’s house, or apartment, or bar, or hotel. I never know what I’m getting myself into. As long as you know your safe, it’s going to be okay. Sometimes in a club there will be a fight that breaks out, or you’ll get a really annoying customer who won’t leave you alone no matter how much you ask them to back off. Know how to act on your feet when it comes to those situations. I’m not saying something awful will happen every single time you dance, but just prepare for people to be rude, or try to break your boundaries. You are in charge here- which is something a lot of people forget. 
Lastly, prepare to make a lot of money, or a little money. Don’t have any expectations on how much or how little money you will make. Sometimes, you’re gonna make twice as much as your rent. And sometimes, you’re gonna barely make $200. That’s okay! Every party and every shift is gonna be different. It just depends on your crowd. So do your best trying to get people to enjoy themselves and tip you as much as you can. The goal at the end of the day is to make money. So work your hardest every time and try to make their wallets cry. Try to enjoy yourself, too! You can have a fucking blast while shaking your ass and getting rained on with bills. Just be yourself, be confident, and make that money people! 

Xo, 
Lola

Thursday, July 18, 2019

Dating While Being a Stripper

So, I've been all around the dating spectrum while being a stripper. I have been in a serious relationship, I have been just casually dating guys, I have been just having sex with guys. I've done it all. Something that I make very clear before I start seeing someone is that I am a stripper, I am in the sex industry, and if you're not okay with that then we should stop now. It's important to me that a guy knows that part of my life and is okay with that part of my life, too. I don't like to feel suffocated in a relationship or feel like I can't live my life the way I want to live it. But it definitely isn't always easy or smooth sailing with men who find out what I do for work.

I try to make it very clear that for me, personally, I am only a stripper. So, I don't have sex with anyone for money. All I do is get naked and shake my ass for cash. Most men think it's insanely attractive and are all for it. They usually start with asking me to dance for them-but that's a different blog post for another time. Some of the guys I come in contact with are a little skittish or are just plain out rude about it. I had this one guy flirt with me all night at a bar and watched me dance on a pole over and over again. I told him that I was a stripper and he flirted with me all night, asking me all about it, and then at the very end he shouted to his friend, "I don't wanna fuck that stripper, I don't want aids". That one definitely stung a little. I am who I am, though, and I'm very unapologetic about it. I want to strip, I want to dance, and I want to make my money this way. If someone wants to be with me, then they have to be with all of me. That part of me isn't going anywhere anytime soon, so they better get used to it. But the guys who are a little skittish about are usually (and I'm just being honest here) the jealous type. They don't like the idea that "their girl" is dancing on other guys or getting naked in front of anyone except for them. That is just me being brutally honest and that's just my opinion. Don't hate me because I say the truth!

But, yes, I am a stripper and I am currently in "the dating scene". It isn't particularly hard for me to find men who are okay with me stripping. Like I said, most guys are totally fine and actually love the fact that I'm a stripper, but I definitely have ran into guys who aren't okay with it. Either way I am going to stay happy and do what I am wanting to do. If they wanna pay my bills instead of me stripping so be it! Otherwise, thank you next. 

Saturday, July 13, 2019

How Much Do Male Strippers Make?

How To Be A Male Stripper?


How Much Money Do Male Strippers Make?


Alright, so a male stripper in a straight male strip club averages only $50 to $500 a night working in the strip club. Unfortunately, this is typically on the lower end. This usually is for about 4 to 8 hours worth of dancing. In a gay male strip club, male dancers make around $200 to $1000 a night. The range depends on how many private VIP room dances or how many regulars saw you that night. Of course, there is also the mystery money from "extras" in a VIP session that may contribute. In the club, male strippers, honestly only have a real chance of making money on a weekend. Or maybe, it's a unique feature the other male entertainers don't have. Meaning, you have to bring something that is new, a rarity or not commonly seen. This can be impeccable dance moves/routine, a hairy chest vs not a hairy chest, tattoos, a certain look, an amazing personality, a unusually taller than normal gentleman or a costume & little tricks no one has ever seen someone pull out before.


Along with the club scene come the drama, headache and competition. Personalities run the gamut. The shit starters, the junkies, the hotheads, the ego maniac, the emotional drunk. Then, there's those who undercut prices or the horndogs that do everything for free. Not saying all adult establishments are like this but these personality traits are also most common in the stripclubs. Most male strip clubs will tolerate certain things until they just find more warm attractive bodies to replace them.

At the club it is mandatory to tip out the staff. The door man, the DJ, the manger, the bartender, the cocktail waitresses/waiters & the security guards at least $50 minimum OR nearly 20% of your earnings. On top of that, add the fee for your breathalyzer at the end of the night, whether you drink or not. Especially week nights you will average out your total and realize you worked for minimum wage or less. THIS IS CRAZY

Now, the club is an excellent way to line up work outside of the club just by flirting, chit chatting and networking. This is my personal experience, strength and hope on the adult male stripper working at a male strip club.




The Private Party Stripper


Then, we move on to the male stripper working as a mobile male stripper performing strip-o-grams, surprise parties, male revues and other types of ladies night out parties or events. This route pays a lot better than the option of stripping in the club! You are always guaranteed an upfront base pay of $100 to $300, depending on how far you have to travel. Ladies are told if you want the dancer to stay longer then the ladies present should be tipping accordingly. The booking agency gets their money upfront. Don't work for companies that ask for money from you on top of a booking fee - pure greed. So, the upfront and all the tips are all of yours to keep. These girls night out parties are usually an hour long. Male strippers, exotic dancers & entertainers typically average anywhere from $200 to $500 in JUST one hour dancing and taking a few photos. In order to be booked as a stripper online, you will have to be okay taking photos or videos.




Private parties too is a great way to personally network whatever else it is you do in REAL LIFE in the "real" world. This can be handing out your business cards for personal training , home renovations, massage, photography, marketing, credit repair or whatever entrepreneurial venture you have as other streams of income. Ladies like to see that you are trying to advance your life, business or career and working towards a goal. About half of the male exotic dancers that I have personally met were actually fitness trainers, body builders, nutritionist, cross trainers or health coaches. It seems to be a good side source of income utilizing the goods and attributes one in those lines of work would already naturally have. The majority of these adult parties that book mobile male strippers are passion parties, bachelorette parties, birthday parties, sorority parties, divorce parties & local clubs & bars.


Male Revues


There's also male revues. They can be hit and miss (depending on the promoting & marketing). They tend to make less than the private parties at homes, apartments, log cabins & hotels. This is because once again, competition between performers. Two, sometimes the crowd can be slim. If marketing starts at least 3 months in advance and is done through the proper online marketing channels, a male revue can be a gold mine. But, very few know the combination to that secret sauce.


Staying In Shape


I have almost seen any average size dude bulk up or work out some and become a male stripper. The best tip I can really give is to keep practicing the same vibration. Watch tons of YouTube videos of male strippers doing certain moves and tricks. Practice on a friend at home until you get it right and trying it on for size with some thirsty ladies looking for some Magic Mike moves. The first few times for parties you will get this positive feedback like, "That was so AMAZING" or "We loved it when you did _____". It is literally all downhill from there. The positive feedback will send you off soaring! It is always recommended though to ask (via text) do they have any limitations or physical restrictions with themselves to always prevent a lawsuit or worse criminal charges. One girl's limitations of being touched may be different than another's. The bachelorette may not want to be picked up at all due to a bad back. A girl may be totally into you, then turn around afterwards and complain crying to the stripper booking agency looking for a refund or a payoff settlement. That is why EVERYTIME I do a party I always send out this exact text,

" This is your male entertainer confirming for 10 pm tonight at 1999 Barberrie Lane Decatur Georgia 30032. Do you personally or do any of your guests in attendance at your party have ANY restrictions whatsoever (no inappropriate touching, no full nudity, cannot be lifted, wants shirtless only, etc), any personal injuries or any important things that I need be made aware of before arriving tonight and performing all my Magic Mike style routine & tricks on you and the females present at the show? Also do you have any questions at all for me that I can assist in answering for you before we start? Thank you. "



In addition, a good tip to live by is don't shit where you sleep. Don't mix business with pleasure at your party. Girls will judge you, judge their friend(s) and worst of all judge the entertainment company. Not to mention, it tends to make things a little awkward. Nobody wants you to dance for their next ladies night out party in fear that you will just come to fuck. Also, the women at these parties picture YOU are probably promiscuous at ALL of your parties. Not to mention, you really don't know these girls. The one sucking your male stripper dick or who you slide in under her skirt with no panties while no one was looking. Either contenders could be an irresponsible working girl, have an STD or sleep with male strippers everytime she sees one. I mean, it's not too far fetched. Just some tips from the wise and experienced you might say. You can take what you want and leave the rest. This can be the best 1, 3, 5 or 10 year ride of your life or the absolute worst decision in your life. It is up to you, really.



The Sex Industry


The internet is a vast universe and something fucked up can end up going viral and spiral dangerously out of control. I have heard of some private entertainers who will masterbate to porn real quick, have sex with someone or get a girl to jerk them off literally right before performing by someone they know and trust. Some male strippers in the adult entertainment industry fuck up a few times at the beginning at their adult careers by being man sluts. They'll hookup & allow not legal behavior to be performed on them at most of the gigs and parties they do until a little maturity kicks in & you realize exactly what you are doing after getting fired, sued or arrested once or twice. I personally later corrected my ways & my vibrations after a year or so but definitely once I started getting into shooting pornography & fetish videos because you HAVE TO be clean! I personally thought at the beginning that I might have a porn & sex addiction. Quickly I became desensitized to most things like exotic dancing and that no longer was a real concern of mine any longer. After 8 + years of dancing I have to take Viagra or Cialis to get aroused when I shoot porn or fetish videos for myself, producers or porn companies. I kinda look at it like this... When you drive a Ferrari every day, the newness and excitement of the car fades after a while. It just doesn't seem all that it was worked up to be once you get what you couldn't have and when the rarity become the social norm for you. That is at least my experience and take on it. I enjoy sex it is just my penis has gotten smarter and I think is tired of being fooled and teased at parties to where he will awaken but without any real stimulation or action he retires right back to his soft and flaccid self.



If you mix business with pleasure then just get a name & number for heaven's sake. Revisit the romantic connection another time on different terms & conditions. This will keep things more professional and in good standings with the booking customer, the company who booked you & your overall reputation online. This will save you a lot of heartache in the long run because let's just be honest... You can't really trust anyone nowadays! How do you know that group of girls aren't just setting you up for a lawsuit or to put you in jail for a close friend of theirs you cheated on with? Don't play with your life guys! No chick, pussy or good time is worth catching something, losing all your owned possessions in a lawsuit or doing extensive jail time over because you decide to get your Willy wet at a sensitive time of the "Me Too" movement where THE REAL sick & dirty men are finally being punished for their sexual assaults over all of these years! Don't be stupid is all. Moving right along... So me personally I find the more parties I do the less my penis wakes up. But, when I do one party per month "he" tends to might or might not wake up during my performance for THAT ONE girl(s). With just the right chemistry with me, the right compatible pheromones & the certain "look" that I am most into will get "him" going. So below I have included a photo taken along side my loving and precious cat Goblin. I have pictures upon pictures of this adorable cat laying all over my dirty and nasty stripper $1's after a night of stripper parties. Every single time I would dump the money out he wouldn't let me count it because he wanted to roll all in and all over the money first before he would let me have it. Now to think of it he kinda was my pimp! 😜 So all of this was my take home earnings from a single night dancing only 4 adult parties in all; 2 bachelorette parties, a sorority party & a 10 minute birthday surprise strip-o-gram (which I only danced 2 songs for btw). This added up to 2.40 hours in total (not including drive time) making around $1000. My preference as you can clearly can see is private parties but I have too heard difference experiences from male strippers that work in the strip club as well as this being a flip for them saying they don't do as well at private parties as they do the strip club or male revues. Everyone will have a difference experience, story to tell and advice to give. All I have is my Experience, Strength & Hope. Thank you. 💗


Earnings Just From One Night of Adult Parties

I hope this helped you answer a few questions for you or anyone else in search of information online on "How to Become a Male Stripper?" or "How Much Money Do Male Strippers Make?" Thank you for reading if you made it down to here on the blog post. 


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