Thursday, July 18, 2019

Dating While Being a Stripper

So, I've been all around the dating spectrum while being a stripper. I have been in a serious relationship, I have been just casually dating guys, I have been just having sex with guys. I've done it all. Something that I make very clear before I start seeing someone is that I am a stripper, I am in the sex industry, and if you're not okay with that then we should stop now. It's important to me that a guy knows that part of my life and is okay with that part of my life, too. I don't like to feel suffocated in a relationship or feel like I can't live my life the way I want to live it. But it definitely isn't always easy or smooth sailing with men who find out what I do for work.

I try to make it very clear that for me, personally, I am only a stripper. So, I don't have sex with anyone for money. All I do is get naked and shake my ass for cash. Most men think it's insanely attractive and are all for it. They usually start with asking me to dance for them-but that's a different blog post for another time. Some of the guys I come in contact with are a little skittish or are just plain out rude about it. I had this one guy flirt with me all night at a bar and watched me dance on a pole over and over again. I told him that I was a stripper and he flirted with me all night, asking me all about it, and then at the very end he shouted to his friend, "I don't wanna fuck that stripper, I don't want aids". That one definitely stung a little. I am who I am, though, and I'm very unapologetic about it. I want to strip, I want to dance, and I want to make my money this way. If someone wants to be with me, then they have to be with all of me. That part of me isn't going anywhere anytime soon, so they better get used to it. But the guys who are a little skittish about are usually (and I'm just being honest here) the jealous type. They don't like the idea that "their girl" is dancing on other guys or getting naked in front of anyone except for them. That is just me being brutally honest and that's just my opinion. Don't hate me because I say the truth!

But, yes, I am a stripper and I am currently in "the dating scene". It isn't particularly hard for me to find men who are okay with me stripping. Like I said, most guys are totally fine and actually love the fact that I'm a stripper, but I definitely have ran into guys who aren't okay with it. Either way I am going to stay happy and do what I am wanting to do. If they wanna pay my bills instead of me stripping so be it! Otherwise, thank you next. 

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