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Sunday, October 20, 2019
Rules at Private Parties in Atlanta
Wednesday, October 9, 2019
Why is it Legal to Tease, but not to Please?
Games I Play at Adult Parties in Atlanta
First one we play is called “spank the bachelor”. We replace bachelor with whatever the occasion is. For example, if it’s a birthday party we call it “spank the birthday boy. You get it. So basically, it’s a dollar per spank. So, if we get $20, we give 20 spanks. It’s so funny how much money guys will give just to watch a stripper spank their friend. It’s amazing how silly these guys think it is. We usually make a good amount of money just off of that game, and it’s super simple.
Then, we play a game called “bobbing for dollars”. For this one we get the guy whose party it is to take off his pants and just have his underwear on. We get him and his friends to stuff dollar bills in their underwear and we pick them out only using our mouths. This one is a little harder because sometimes they stuff them deep down in their underwear and it’s hard to get them out. I am honestly horrible at that game. If I’m doing a one girl party, I skip the game all together because I’m so bad at it! The other girls I dance with are usually so much better and I let them be in charge of that game. Lol.
Third game, which is definitely my favorite, is called pussy pick up. I don’t know what you’re thinking but yes, we pick up dollar bills using our pussy’s. It’s amazing! So, basically, we get the guy to lay down on the ground on his back. Then we take dollar bills, fold them hotdog style, lay them all over his body, and pick them up using our pussy. We also will take them off your face for $20. Guys swoon over this game because they don’t know how we actually pick the dollar bills up, and I’m not going to tell you!
Then we do whip cream shots which always are a crowd pleaser. Basically, you get to lick whipped cream off of our bodies. So, it’s $20 for titty shots, $10 for ass shots, and $20 for bikini line shots. This is less of a game and more of an exciting activity everyone gets to be a part of. Again, guys love this game. Who wouldn’t!?
And those are all of our games! I love my job and I love working at a mobile service company instead of a club. You can’t get any of the games at a club, it’s really only house parties. The surprise and excitement of all of their faces when you pull those games out never gets old! So, if you are debating on whether you should go to a club or order strippers, ALWAYS order them. It’s way more fun, and you get to interact 100% more. Thanks for reading!
XO,
Lola
Wednesday, October 2, 2019
Dumb Things Guys Say/Do at Strip-O-Gram Parties
1. Blatantly break one of my rules (or more) thinking I won't see or notice. This one pisses me off! I hate it when people make me feel like I'm stupid. I know I'm not, so when they try to be sneaky and do things thinking I won't notice- yeah, it makes me mad. They think that I'm stupid and it really gets under my skin. Like the last party I did. One of my rules is that there is no videos or pictures during the show. This old guy was obviously taking a video of me and I confronted him about it. He argued with me thinking that he could get out of it. I made him delete the video, but it still bothered me that he really thought I was stupid and wouldn't notice. I'll just say I didn't dance on him or go near him for the rest of the night. Momma doesn't play with that.
2. Asking me how much it costs to have sex with me after I've clearly stated I am not an escort. This one is just so stupid. It's crazy how men really don't know what to do with the word "no". I don't know if it's the way that they were raised or what, but some men really do not understand that no means no. It doesn't mean maybe and if you keep asking me I'll say yes. It means NO. Get it through your head that I am here to dance and entertain. There's no afterparty show. I'll do private dances but even when I'm doing that there's nothing more than dancing going on in that bedroom. I'm just a dancer ladies and gentlemen. Sorry to disappoint!
3. Slapping my pussy. This one is just painful! I think that guys forget that the vagina is super sensitive. So when you slap it, it hurts more than when you slap my ass or my arm. It stings and makes my pussy throb! No one wants to see that and I don't want to feel that. I absolutely HATE when guys do this. It's not cute at all and doesn't turn me on in the slightest bit. It makes me ignore you for the rest of the night which nobody likes. So respect me because I am human.
So, yeah those are just a few dumb things that guys do at parties besides at times just being cheap and pretending they don't have money to spend. I really do love my job so it sucks when guys do some of these things because it irritates me and makes me not want to stay long because I'm on edge. So, be nice and use your brain people! I've said it before and I'll say it again: just because we are strippers and are in the sex industry doesn't mean we don't have feelings. We are people too, and we deserve respect just like anyone else.
How I Became a Stripper in Atlanta Georgia
Tuesday, October 1, 2019
How to Keep a Stripper at your Atlanta Party Longer
1. This one is super obvious, and a no-brainer: TIP BIG! If you're planning on ordering strippers to your house, prepare to spend a lot of money. There's nothing more annoying then driving all the way to a party to make no money. So, prepare to have your wallet cry in the morning. Have one's and it's always impressive when you tip with more than just one's ;)
2. I wish that I could say that this one is common sense, but it has to be said at every party that I dance at. Be respectful. I personally don't mind if you touch, or squeeze, but when you're slapping me and throwing me around, that's another story. This one guy slapped my pussy so hard one time I almost cried. That shit is not okay. It made me super mad, I wanted to leave, and I didn't perform my best that night because I felt uncomfortable. When you're disrespectful, it makes me want to steer clear of you, no matter how much money you have.
3. I also wish that I could say that this is common sense, but I have to talk about it. Listen to all of the rules, follow all of the rules, and try to enforce them, too. This kind of ties in with the respect thing, but it pisses me off so much that after we have said all of our rules, you decide to break them. It's like some men feel special and like they don't have to follow the rules. EVERYONE has to follow them. Even if I was stripping for my boyfriend and his friends, he still would have to follow the rules, too. I don't care who you are. I don't have a lot of rules and I'm super easy-going. So it's no surprise that when you break my rules, I ignore you for the rest of the night and I get pissed. Follow the rules and you will have an amazing night.
4. This one is just helpful, and for me it makes me want to stay longer. When you offer food and drinks, and you're just welcoming in general, it makes me feel comfortable. When I feel comfortable somewhere I'm okay staying longer because I know I'm safe. So when I feel so welcomed, it's hard not to want to stay and hangout. I've stayed at parties an hour or two after the performance just hanging out because the guy's were nice and they offered us a bunch of free food and free alcohol (which no one can ever complain about!). So, be a good host and your dancers will love you!
5. Last but not least, let us be in control. I love it when guys are listening, and they understand that we want to have fun with you guys but we're in a room, outnumbered, and it's hard to talk over a bunch of people. Let us be in control of what's going on and what's happening. And also- let us be in control of when and where we're dancing, and when to play the party games and all that. There's nothing more annoying then being told what to do or how to do my job. I know what I'm doing-trust me. Let me do my thing. Just sit down, relax, and enjoy the show.
So, follow these tips and tricks to get your dancers to stay longer. Everyone always has so much fun at these parties, and they usually don't want us to leave, so I'm guessing you won't want them to leave, too! Again, they're mostly all about being respectful and sweet. So use your brain, and treat these hard working people with the upmost respect.
Wednesday, September 25, 2019
My Family VS. My Stripping Job
So, I started dipping my toes into the sex worker side of the world about two and a half years ago. I decided to become a stripper and see what it was all about. I did one party and fell in love. I loved the attention, and how fun it actually was. I loved being able to dance and shake my ass without any shame or judgement. And of course, I absolutely adored the money. The way that people just threw it at you like you're the queen of the world and worth every single penny they've ever worked for, is a fucking fantastic feeling. Anyways, I just knew that this was something that I wanted to do for a long time. I was 18 years old at the time, and still lived with my parents. I moved out after about three or four months of stripping- but the entire time I hid the fact that I was a stripper. My family had absolutely no idea. I did tell my friends but nobody in my family knew about it, because I knew if they did know about it they wouldn't be anything near okay with it. So I fell in love with my job but had to hide it from the people I loved most. It sucked and it got super hard to keep it a secret, and one day it just slipped to my older sister. And my whole family found out and they were furious. And it was horrible and awful and so upsetting.
So, a year later I decided that it was my life and I wanted to start dancing again, so I talked to my old bosses and they welcomed me back with open arms. So, now I'm dancing again and I have to really really keep it a secret this time around or my family will never speak to me again. And now I'm just stuck in this place of really wanting to be honest with them, but also knowing what will happen if I am honest. It's a super shitty place to be in, because I really do hate lying to them. But I also want to be able to live my life the way I want to live it. This is something I want to do and I don't want to live my life based on making other people happy. So, I decided that this is what I'm going to do.
But, now I'm just stuck in a place of hating that I am lying to my whole family, and hating why I have to lie. I have to lie because my family is judgmental, and they refuse to accept something they don't understand or try to understand for that matter. They refuse to hear my side of the story, or to try to understand why I do it and why I like doing it. It just makes me sad that something that I love to do in my life is completely unacceptable to the people I love most. It's unfair that I can't be happy and be everything they want me to be. Frankly, it fucking sucks. And I'm pissed about it. So thank you for listening to this random, weird venting session. I know it'll be figured out eventually, but for now- it blows.
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The Effects Stripping Has Had on My Self-Esteem
The Essentials For an Adult Private Party or Strip Club
Friday, August 30, 2019
Everything you Need to Know About Becoming a Stripper in Atlanta Georgia
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