Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Dumb Things Guys Say/Do at Strip-O-Gram Parties

Hey guys! This blog is all about the dumb things guys do/say at parties that I'm at. It was really fun writing this one, so I hope you're entertained from it, too. And what's so funny about this blog is that it really is just directed at guys. I've done parties that females were at and they followed all of the rules and didn't do anything that I didn't like. I've also done all girl parties and they were so respectful and never broke any of my rules or made me feel uncomfortable. Boys are just dumb at parties. I understand that they just get excited, though. So even though it does bug me, I get it at the same time. Anyways, here are just a few dumb things guys do!

1. Blatantly break one of my rules (or more) thinking I won't see or notice. This one pisses me off! I hate it when people make me feel like I'm stupid. I know I'm not, so when they try to be sneaky and do things thinking I won't notice- yeah, it makes me mad. They think that I'm stupid and it really gets under my skin. Like the last party I did. One of my rules is that there is no videos or pictures during the show. This old guy was obviously taking a video of me and I confronted him about it. He argued with me thinking that he could get out of it. I made him delete the video, but it still bothered me that he really thought I was stupid and wouldn't notice. I'll just say I didn't dance on him or go near him for the rest of the night. Momma doesn't play with that.

2. Asking me how much it costs to have sex with me after I've clearly stated I am not an escort. This one is just so stupid. It's crazy how men really don't know what to do with the word "no". I don't know if it's the way that they were raised or what, but some men really do not understand that no means no. It doesn't mean maybe and if you keep asking me I'll say yes. It means NO. Get it through your head that I am here to dance and entertain. There's no afterparty show. I'll do private dances but even when I'm doing that there's nothing more than dancing going on in that bedroom. I'm just a dancer ladies and gentlemen. Sorry to disappoint!

3. Slapping my pussy. This one is just painful! I think that guys forget that the vagina is super sensitive. So when you slap it, it hurts more than when you slap my ass or my arm. It stings and makes my pussy throb! No one wants to see that and I don't want to feel that. I absolutely HATE when guys do this. It's not cute at all and doesn't turn me on in the slightest bit. It makes me ignore you for the rest of the night which nobody likes. So respect me because I am human.

So, yeah those are just a few dumb things that guys do at parties besides at times just being cheap and pretending they don't have money to spend. I really do love my job so it sucks when guys do some of these things because it irritates me and makes me not want to stay long because I'm on edge. So, be nice and use your brain people! I've said it before and I'll say it again: just  because we are strippers and are in the sex industry doesn't mean we don't have feelings. We are people too, and we deserve respect just like anyone else. 

How I Became a Stripper in Atlanta Georgia

This is the adorable little story of how I became a stripper. It all started with a group that I was in. It was all about personal growth, and becoming the best person that you could be. It was a really beautiful group that helped me through some bad times. Anyways, I met the two owners of the company in the group and became friendly with them. I didn't know what they did for work, but it came up one day while we were all hanging out. I thought it was so cool because I had never met a stripper before- and these strippers owned their own company. I was so intrigued and wanted to know more. So they explained how the parties went and what kind of money you got and asked if I wanted to dance for them. I told them I would think about it because there were a lot of factors to add in, but I was very interested.

The next couple of weeks went by and it was a fleeting thought in the back of my head. First of all, I knew that my boyfriend wouldn't approve and he would be furious if I started dancing. Second, I was terrified of what my family would say. I was 18 at the time and still lived with my mom, so I felt that she would find out and my whole family would hate me. Third, I didn't know if I could actually do it at all. Can I dance good enough? Am I pretty enough? Do I have the confidence? These were all questions that were constantly racing through my head. 

I would see the owners about once a week and every time I saw them they would ask me if I was ready. I would joke with them about it at first, pretending like I was interested when I knew I wouldn't be able to pull it off. But every time they asked me if I was ready, I would consider it more and more every time. Eventually, I decided that it was something I would want to try out. So I talked to the owners, an audition time was made, and before I knew it I was buying a new outfit for my audition, and practicing all my sexiest dance moves. My boyfriend and I broke up so I decided that was the perfect time to actually go to my audition and see if I could work for the company. Then, I was on my way to their house.

I brought a friend with me to find an outfit, and then he ended up coming to the audition with me. That was so helpful because I was so incredibly nervous. I had to dance and strip all the way down in front of the owner and the manager. I had to give both of them lap dances and I was a nervous wreck. Looking back on it now, it was so funny that I had to do that. Anyways, they loved me from my audition and all of a sudden I was at my first party and fell in love with dancing. 

It's weird how the best things in life come from such weird places. But I love my job and I couldn't be more grateful to that group for helping me find my people who let me be who I want to be. 

Tuesday, October 1, 2019

How to Keep a Stripper at your Atlanta Party Longer

This blog is gonna give you some tips and tricks on how to get a stripper to stay at your party longer. The common subject is just being polite, and understanding that although we are strippers and we work in the sex industry, we are still people. We all still have feelings and we care about the way we are treated. I know in my experience, when someone breaks my rules or they disrespect me, I don't go near them for the rest of the night. So, follow these tips and you're sure to have your dancer there for a long time!

1. This one is super obvious, and a no-brainer: TIP BIG! If you're planning on ordering strippers to your house, prepare to spend a lot of money. There's nothing more annoying then driving all the way to a party to make no money. So, prepare to have your wallet cry in the morning. Have one's and it's always impressive when you tip with more than just one's ;)

2. I wish that I could say that this one is common sense, but it has to be said at every party that I dance at. Be respectful. I personally don't mind if you touch, or squeeze, but when you're slapping me and throwing me around, that's another story. This one guy slapped my pussy so hard one time I almost cried. That shit is not okay. It made me super mad, I wanted to leave, and I didn't perform my best that night because I felt uncomfortable. When you're disrespectful, it makes me want to steer clear of you, no matter how much money you have.

3. I also wish that I could say that this is common sense, but I have to talk about it. Listen to all of the rules, follow all of the rules, and try to enforce them, too. This kind of ties in with the respect thing, but it pisses me off so much that after we have said all of our rules, you decide to break them. It's like some men feel special and like they don't have to follow the rules. EVERYONE has to follow them. Even if I was stripping for my boyfriend and his friends, he still would have to follow the rules, too. I don't care who you are. I don't have a lot of rules and I'm super easy-going. So it's no surprise that when you break my rules, I ignore you for the rest of the night and I get pissed. Follow the rules and you will have an amazing night.

4. This one is just helpful, and for me it makes me want to stay longer. When you offer food and drinks, and you're just welcoming in general, it makes me feel comfortable. When I feel comfortable somewhere I'm okay staying longer because I know I'm safe. So when I feel so welcomed, it's hard not to want to stay and hangout. I've stayed at parties an hour or two after the performance just hanging out because the guy's were nice and they offered us a bunch of free food and free alcohol (which no one can ever complain about!). So, be a good host and your dancers will love you!

5. Last but not least, let us be in control. I love it when guys are listening, and they understand that we want to have fun with you guys but we're in a room, outnumbered, and it's hard to talk over a bunch of people. Let us be in control of what's going on and what's happening. And also- let us be in control of when and where we're dancing, and when to play the party games and all that. There's nothing more annoying then being told what to do or how to do my job. I know what I'm doing-trust me. Let me do my thing. Just sit down, relax, and enjoy the show.

So, follow these tips and tricks to get your dancers to stay longer. Everyone always has so much fun at these parties, and they usually don't want us to leave, so I'm guessing you won't want them to leave, too! Again, they're mostly all about being respectful and sweet. So use your brain, and treat these hard working people with the upmost respect.



















Wednesday, September 25, 2019

My Family VS. My Stripping Job

This blog is going to be a bit of a venting session for me, so hang on tight. This is going to be about how I walk around literally feeling like I have two lives. One version of me is the way that my family wants to see me, and one version of me is who I actually am. This is the venting blog session of the half stripper, half innocent daughter.

So, I started dipping my toes into the sex worker side of the world about two and a half years ago. I decided to become a stripper and see what it was all about. I did one party and fell in love. I loved the attention, and how fun it actually was. I loved being able to dance and shake my ass without any shame or judgement. And of course, I absolutely adored the money. The way that people just threw it at you like you're the queen of the world and worth every single penny they've ever worked for, is a fucking fantastic feeling. Anyways, I just knew that this was something that I wanted to do for a long time. I was 18 years old at the time, and still lived with my parents. I moved out after about three or four months of stripping- but the entire time I hid the fact that I was a stripper. My family had absolutely no idea. I did tell my friends but nobody in my family knew about it, because I knew if they did know about it they wouldn't be anything near okay with it. So I fell in love with my job but had to hide it from the people I loved most. It sucked and it got super hard to keep it a secret, and one day it just slipped to my older sister. And my whole family found out and they were furious. And it was horrible and awful and so upsetting.

So, a year later I decided that it was my life and I wanted to start dancing again, so I talked to my old bosses and they welcomed me back with open arms. So, now I'm dancing again and I have to really really keep it a secret this time around or my family will never speak to me again. And now I'm just stuck in this place of really wanting to be honest with them, but also knowing what will happen if I am honest. It's a super shitty place to be in, because I really do hate lying to them. But I also want to be able to live my life the way I want to live it. This is something I want to do and I don't want to live my life based on making other people happy. So, I decided that this is what I'm going to do.

But, now I'm just stuck in a place of hating that I am lying to my whole family, and hating why I have to lie. I have to lie because my family is judgmental, and they refuse to accept something they don't understand or try to understand for that matter. They refuse to hear my side of the story, or to try to understand why I do it and why I like doing it. It just makes me sad that something that I love to do in my life is completely unacceptable to the people I love most. It's unfair that I can't be happy and be everything they want me to be. Frankly, it fucking sucks. And I'm pissed about it. So thank you for listening to this random, weird venting session. I know it'll be figured out eventually, but for now- it blows. 

Thursday, September 12, 2019

The Effects Stripping Has Had on My Self-Esteem


Before I start getting into this blog, I want everyone reading it to know that this is my personal experience and I do not speak for anyone but myself. I am in no way speaking for anyone else or trying to put myself in another stripper’s shoes. This is all from me. 

Okay, so this blog may shock you, or this may be exactly what you thought. But to be perfectly honest with everyone, stripping has boosted my self-esteem beyond compare. I feel like the baddest bitch ever when I am dancing. It’s honestly so hard not to feel like that when you have tons of men literally drooling over you and throwing their hard earned cash on you. How else am I supposed to feel?!

I’ve been stripping now for about two years. I can’t count the amount of times people have asked me, “don’t you feel so degraded? Doesn’t that kill your self-esteem? How do you even live like that?”. To which I always reply, “I love stripping and it has boosted my self confidence more than anything else has. I love my job, and I love the way it makes me feel.” 

I guess this isn’t the most conventional way to boost your self-esteem, but for me it works. Just like anyone else, I’m insecure about my body sometimes. There are definitely many times where I look in the mirror and absolutely hate what I’m seeing. But, when I go to a party I immediately know that I will feel better about myself when I leave. Something that I’ve learned is that I am my worst critic. I am so mean to myself sometimes. It’s funny because the way I talk to myself I would never let any of my friends ever talk that way about themselves. So, when I’m feeling horrible about myself or I just can’t stand to look in the mirror, I think about the party that I had last week where guys were fighting over who I paid attention to. That they were literally emptying their wallets in the hope that I would stay longer. If that doesn’t boost your confidence, what will??? 

Like I said in the beginning, this is totally my own experience. I know that the job can be degrading, but I don’t think I’ve ever felt like that. I know that it seems like after a while it would tear at you, or you wouldn’t enjoy it as much, but for me this hasn’t been the case yet. I really do enjoy my job and I really enjoy the reactions that I get while I’m doing my job. It feels good to know how many people want you and desire you. It feels good to know that you really are that bitch! So for me stripping has had an awesome effect on my self-esteem, and I hope that it continues to do so. All I know is that for now, I will continue to strip and continue to let it boost my confidence and make me feel amazing. I love my job and all the benefits that come with it!

XO, 
Lola


The Essentials For an Adult Private Party or Strip Club

This blog is to tell you all about what you need when you are heading to a party. The way that my company works is that we go to your party, so we’re a mobile service company. If you’ve ever seen strippers in a movie showing up to someone’s house in a cop uniform, that’s pretty much what we do. When we’re at the party we dance (obviously) but we also play party games as well. So, it’s essential to have a few things when preparing to head out to a party.

First, you need the outfit you’re going to wear, but ALWAYS pack some backups. Bring two or three outfits just in case one gets ruined or a zipper breaks. You always need extras since you’re traveling to their spot. I always pack at least three or four bras and thongs, two outfits, and two pairs of shoes. Heels break and so do straps! It’s always better to be prepared. 

Second, you need all of the party game accessories. We play a few different games, but one includes spanking, another includes whipped cream, and another includes something we call “cooter shooters” (which are tubes of alcohol we put into our pussy and they take a shot of it). Those are really fun, trust me. So, I always make sure to pack a whip, some whipped cream, the shooters, baby wipes (to clean up the whipped cream), and a bag to hold it all in. I also bring a party light, a speaker, and a money bag. Those are also important because they set the mood for a fun party and of course you’re going to need a bag to put all your money in while you’re dancing. 

Next, I always make sure to bring some beauty essentials. I always have my hair and makeup done when I go into the party, but I always make sure to bring back up just in case my makeup gets messed up in the car or when I’m changing. I always bring my makeup bag, and a hair straightener with a brush, just in case. Then of course you bring perfume, pussy spray (like perfume or deodorant for your pussy), deodorant, hair ties, hair spray, and a handheld mirror. Those are just extras to prepare for the beauty part. Guys want you to look put together and smell nice, too. They care about your face, too, not just your body!

These are exactly what you’ll need if you’re going to your first party, or if you don’t know what to pack. A lot of this can also be used in a club (minus the whipped cream and shooters). If you’re just starting to get in the club/dancing scene make sure you come prepared! And don’t forget to have fun, and make lots of money

XO, 
Lola

Friday, August 30, 2019

Everything you Need to Know About Becoming a Stripper in Atlanta Georgia

I’m here to tell you everything you need to know about becoming a stripper. If you’re interested in starting to dance, or you’re just curious this is the blog for you!
First, prepare to audition. It’s plain and simple people: if you can’t dance, you probably shouldn’t become a stripper. That sounds harsh but it’s the truth. A lot of people think that being a stripper means you just have to be able to take your clothes off, but you have to be able to actually dance, too. Nobody wants to see a stripper who has no rhythm and who can’t shake their ass to a simple song. The whole point of stripping is putting on a sexy show, and if you’re not coordinated it usually doesn’t work out. When you apply at a club, or a company like mine, you usually have to audition to prove that you can move and put on a good show. So, prepare to show your moves and show just how sexy you can be. 
Second, prepare to be butt ass naked in front of a bunch of random people. You cannot be shy and be a stripper. It depends on what club or what company you work for, whether you’ll have to get completely naked or not. For my company, I do get completely nude, which I am totally fine with because I have prepared myself to be confident in front of others while exposing every single part of me. You can’t get up on stage and act nervous or insecure. The fantasy is that you’re a sexy person who knows how sexy you are. The fantasy isn’t a person on stage who actually hates themselves and is embarrassed or shy to show themselves. You have to get those nerves away from you before you get on stage in front of people. Trust me, the crowd will notice if you feel insecure or you’re not confident. So make sure you throw away all those insecurities before stepping in the spotlight. You’re sexy as hell, show everyone how much you believe that!
Third, expect the unexpected. Never go into a party or your shift in a club thinking you’ll know exactly what’s going to happen that night. This is especially for people who work in the kind of setting that I do, where we go to your party. So we’re going over to someone’s house, or apartment, or bar, or hotel. I never know what I’m getting myself into. As long as you know your safe, it’s going to be okay. Sometimes in a club there will be a fight that breaks out, or you’ll get a really annoying customer who won’t leave you alone no matter how much you ask them to back off. Know how to act on your feet when it comes to those situations. I’m not saying something awful will happen every single time you dance, but just prepare for people to be rude, or try to break your boundaries. You are in charge here- which is something a lot of people forget. 
Lastly, prepare to make a lot of money, or a little money. Don’t have any expectations on how much or how little money you will make. Sometimes, you’re gonna make twice as much as your rent. And sometimes, you’re gonna barely make $200. That’s okay! Every party and every shift is gonna be different. It just depends on your crowd. So do your best trying to get people to enjoy themselves and tip you as much as you can. The goal at the end of the day is to make money. So work your hardest every time and try to make their wallets cry. Try to enjoy yourself, too! You can have a fucking blast while shaking your ass and getting rained on with bills. Just be yourself, be confident, and make that money people! 

Xo, 
Lola

Thursday, July 18, 2019

Dating While Being a Stripper

So, I've been all around the dating spectrum while being a stripper. I have been in a serious relationship, I have been just casually dating guys, I have been just having sex with guys. I've done it all. Something that I make very clear before I start seeing someone is that I am a stripper, I am in the sex industry, and if you're not okay with that then we should stop now. It's important to me that a guy knows that part of my life and is okay with that part of my life, too. I don't like to feel suffocated in a relationship or feel like I can't live my life the way I want to live it. But it definitely isn't always easy or smooth sailing with men who find out what I do for work.

I try to make it very clear that for me, personally, I am only a stripper. So, I don't have sex with anyone for money. All I do is get naked and shake my ass for cash. Most men think it's insanely attractive and are all for it. They usually start with asking me to dance for them-but that's a different blog post for another time. Some of the guys I come in contact with are a little skittish or are just plain out rude about it. I had this one guy flirt with me all night at a bar and watched me dance on a pole over and over again. I told him that I was a stripper and he flirted with me all night, asking me all about it, and then at the very end he shouted to his friend, "I don't wanna fuck that stripper, I don't want aids". That one definitely stung a little. I am who I am, though, and I'm very unapologetic about it. I want to strip, I want to dance, and I want to make my money this way. If someone wants to be with me, then they have to be with all of me. That part of me isn't going anywhere anytime soon, so they better get used to it. But the guys who are a little skittish about are usually (and I'm just being honest here) the jealous type. They don't like the idea that "their girl" is dancing on other guys or getting naked in front of anyone except for them. That is just me being brutally honest and that's just my opinion. Don't hate me because I say the truth!

But, yes, I am a stripper and I am currently in "the dating scene". It isn't particularly hard for me to find men who are okay with me stripping. Like I said, most guys are totally fine and actually love the fact that I'm a stripper, but I definitely have ran into guys who aren't okay with it. Either way I am going to stay happy and do what I am wanting to do. If they wanna pay my bills instead of me stripping so be it! Otherwise, thank you next. 

Saturday, July 13, 2019

How Much Do Male Strippers Make?

How To Be A Male Stripper?


How Much Money Do Male Strippers Make?


Alright, so a male stripper in a straight male strip club averages only $50 to $500 a night working in the strip club. Unfortunately, this is typically on the lower end. This usually is for about 4 to 8 hours worth of dancing. In a gay male strip club, male dancers make around $200 to $1000 a night. The range depends on how many private VIP room dances or how many regulars saw you that night. Of course, there is also the mystery money from "extras" in a VIP session that may contribute. In the club, male strippers, honestly only have a real chance of making money on a weekend. Or maybe, it's a unique feature the other male entertainers don't have. Meaning, you have to bring something that is new, a rarity or not commonly seen. This can be impeccable dance moves/routine, a hairy chest vs not a hairy chest, tattoos, a certain look, an amazing personality, a unusually taller than normal gentleman or a costume & little tricks no one has ever seen someone pull out before.


Along with the club scene come the drama, headache and competition. Personalities run the gamut. The shit starters, the junkies, the hotheads, the ego maniac, the emotional drunk. Then, there's those who undercut prices or the horndogs that do everything for free. Not saying all adult establishments are like this but these personality traits are also most common in the stripclubs. Most male strip clubs will tolerate certain things until they just find more warm attractive bodies to replace them.

At the club it is mandatory to tip out the staff. The door man, the DJ, the manger, the bartender, the cocktail waitresses/waiters & the security guards at least $50 minimum OR nearly 20% of your earnings. On top of that, add the fee for your breathalyzer at the end of the night, whether you drink or not. Especially week nights you will average out your total and realize you worked for minimum wage or less. THIS IS CRAZY

Now, the club is an excellent way to line up work outside of the club just by flirting, chit chatting and networking. This is my personal experience, strength and hope on the adult male stripper working at a male strip club.




The Private Party Stripper


Then, we move on to the male stripper working as a mobile male stripper performing strip-o-grams, surprise parties, male revues and other types of ladies night out parties or events. This route pays a lot better than the option of stripping in the club! You are always guaranteed an upfront base pay of $100 to $300, depending on how far you have to travel. Ladies are told if you want the dancer to stay longer then the ladies present should be tipping accordingly. The booking agency gets their money upfront. Don't work for companies that ask for money from you on top of a booking fee - pure greed. So, the upfront and all the tips are all of yours to keep. These girls night out parties are usually an hour long. Male strippers, exotic dancers & entertainers typically average anywhere from $200 to $500 in JUST one hour dancing and taking a few photos. In order to be booked as a stripper online, you will have to be okay taking photos or videos.




Private parties too is a great way to personally network whatever else it is you do in REAL LIFE in the "real" world. This can be handing out your business cards for personal training , home renovations, massage, photography, marketing, credit repair or whatever entrepreneurial venture you have as other streams of income. Ladies like to see that you are trying to advance your life, business or career and working towards a goal. About half of the male exotic dancers that I have personally met were actually fitness trainers, body builders, nutritionist, cross trainers or health coaches. It seems to be a good side source of income utilizing the goods and attributes one in those lines of work would already naturally have. The majority of these adult parties that book mobile male strippers are passion parties, bachelorette parties, birthday parties, sorority parties, divorce parties & local clubs & bars.


Male Revues


There's also male revues. They can be hit and miss (depending on the promoting & marketing). They tend to make less than the private parties at homes, apartments, log cabins & hotels. This is because once again, competition between performers. Two, sometimes the crowd can be slim. If marketing starts at least 3 months in advance and is done through the proper online marketing channels, a male revue can be a gold mine. But, very few know the combination to that secret sauce.


Staying In Shape


I have almost seen any average size dude bulk up or work out some and become a male stripper. The best tip I can really give is to keep practicing the same vibration. Watch tons of YouTube videos of male strippers doing certain moves and tricks. Practice on a friend at home until you get it right and trying it on for size with some thirsty ladies looking for some Magic Mike moves. The first few times for parties you will get this positive feedback like, "That was so AMAZING" or "We loved it when you did _____". It is literally all downhill from there. The positive feedback will send you off soaring! It is always recommended though to ask (via text) do they have any limitations or physical restrictions with themselves to always prevent a lawsuit or worse criminal charges. One girl's limitations of being touched may be different than another's. The bachelorette may not want to be picked up at all due to a bad back. A girl may be totally into you, then turn around afterwards and complain crying to the stripper booking agency looking for a refund or a payoff settlement. That is why EVERYTIME I do a party I always send out this exact text,

" This is your male entertainer confirming for 10 pm tonight at 1999 Barberrie Lane Decatur Georgia 30032. Do you personally or do any of your guests in attendance at your party have ANY restrictions whatsoever (no inappropriate touching, no full nudity, cannot be lifted, wants shirtless only, etc), any personal injuries or any important things that I need be made aware of before arriving tonight and performing all my Magic Mike style routine & tricks on you and the females present at the show? Also do you have any questions at all for me that I can assist in answering for you before we start? Thank you. "



In addition, a good tip to live by is don't shit where you sleep. Don't mix business with pleasure at your party. Girls will judge you, judge their friend(s) and worst of all judge the entertainment company. Not to mention, it tends to make things a little awkward. Nobody wants you to dance for their next ladies night out party in fear that you will just come to fuck. Also, the women at these parties picture YOU are probably promiscuous at ALL of your parties. Not to mention, you really don't know these girls. The one sucking your male stripper dick or who you slide in under her skirt with no panties while no one was looking. Either contenders could be an irresponsible working girl, have an STD or sleep with male strippers everytime she sees one. I mean, it's not too far fetched. Just some tips from the wise and experienced you might say. You can take what you want and leave the rest. This can be the best 1, 3, 5 or 10 year ride of your life or the absolute worst decision in your life. It is up to you, really.



The Sex Industry


The internet is a vast universe and something fucked up can end up going viral and spiral dangerously out of control. I have heard of some private entertainers who will masterbate to porn real quick, have sex with someone or get a girl to jerk them off literally right before performing by someone they know and trust. Some male strippers in the adult entertainment industry fuck up a few times at the beginning at their adult careers by being man sluts. They'll hookup & allow not legal behavior to be performed on them at most of the gigs and parties they do until a little maturity kicks in & you realize exactly what you are doing after getting fired, sued or arrested once or twice. I personally later corrected my ways & my vibrations after a year or so but definitely once I started getting into shooting pornography & fetish videos because you HAVE TO be clean! I personally thought at the beginning that I might have a porn & sex addiction. Quickly I became desensitized to most things like exotic dancing and that no longer was a real concern of mine any longer. After 8 + years of dancing I have to take Viagra or Cialis to get aroused when I shoot porn or fetish videos for myself, producers or porn companies. I kinda look at it like this... When you drive a Ferrari every day, the newness and excitement of the car fades after a while. It just doesn't seem all that it was worked up to be once you get what you couldn't have and when the rarity become the social norm for you. That is at least my experience and take on it. I enjoy sex it is just my penis has gotten smarter and I think is tired of being fooled and teased at parties to where he will awaken but without any real stimulation or action he retires right back to his soft and flaccid self.



If you mix business with pleasure then just get a name & number for heaven's sake. Revisit the romantic connection another time on different terms & conditions. This will keep things more professional and in good standings with the booking customer, the company who booked you & your overall reputation online. This will save you a lot of heartache in the long run because let's just be honest... You can't really trust anyone nowadays! How do you know that group of girls aren't just setting you up for a lawsuit or to put you in jail for a close friend of theirs you cheated on with? Don't play with your life guys! No chick, pussy or good time is worth catching something, losing all your owned possessions in a lawsuit or doing extensive jail time over because you decide to get your Willy wet at a sensitive time of the "Me Too" movement where THE REAL sick & dirty men are finally being punished for their sexual assaults over all of these years! Don't be stupid is all. Moving right along... So me personally I find the more parties I do the less my penis wakes up. But, when I do one party per month "he" tends to might or might not wake up during my performance for THAT ONE girl(s). With just the right chemistry with me, the right compatible pheromones & the certain "look" that I am most into will get "him" going. So below I have included a photo taken along side my loving and precious cat Goblin. I have pictures upon pictures of this adorable cat laying all over my dirty and nasty stripper $1's after a night of stripper parties. Every single time I would dump the money out he wouldn't let me count it because he wanted to roll all in and all over the money first before he would let me have it. Now to think of it he kinda was my pimp! 😜 So all of this was my take home earnings from a single night dancing only 4 adult parties in all; 2 bachelorette parties, a sorority party & a 10 minute birthday surprise strip-o-gram (which I only danced 2 songs for btw). This added up to 2.40 hours in total (not including drive time) making around $1000. My preference as you can clearly can see is private parties but I have too heard difference experiences from male strippers that work in the strip club as well as this being a flip for them saying they don't do as well at private parties as they do the strip club or male revues. Everyone will have a difference experience, story to tell and advice to give. All I have is my Experience, Strength & Hope. Thank you. 💗


Earnings Just From One Night of Adult Parties

I hope this helped you answer a few questions for you or anyone else in search of information online on "How to Become a Male Stripper?" or "How Much Money Do Male Strippers Make?" Thank you for reading if you made it down to here on the blog post. 


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Friday, June 7, 2019

Working as an Atlanta Stripper: Five Things I Hate

Before I start writing, I just want to make a "disclaimer" to anyone reading this: I absolutely love my job. I love dancing, I love teasing, I love everything about stripping. Being an Atlanta white female stripper has all the pro's in the world, and only a few cons. I promise you this isn't an article about me complaining about my work; I absolutely love it, and I love all the people I dance for.

I don't work at an Atlanta strip club. I work at a mobile service company where Atlanta female and male strippers come to you. Side note: it's so much better than a club. You don't have to go anywhere and you really don't have to do anything but figure out how many people you want to dance and who you want to dance for you. The best part about it is that you get to be right up close to all of us. We ask for your respect, but a majority of us are okay with touching and feeling. Again, as long as you're respectful. This is where it can get kind of sticky; and this is where I get to tell you what I hate.

First one: when you slap my pussy. I understand that you ordered a stripper because you wanted to see ass, titties, and pussy. And trust me I understand that my pussy is beautiful. But when it comes to that area, do not touch it or slap it or try to play with it. That is a boundary I don't like to be crossed. You can look at the pretty lady, but you cannot touch her. 

Second one: when you assume I'm an escort and you continually ask how much it costs to sleep with me. I am fully aware that I am in the sex industry and it doesn't bother me in the slightest bit when you ask if I do more than dance. But, when I (personally, just me) say no, don't continue to ask. I dance with a lot of women who do escort as well as dance. You can always ask if that's what you're wanting, but respect a dancer if she says no. 

Third one: when you grab me hard instead of asking for me to come over to you. I am a tiny human. I'm 4'11 and I weigh 110 pounds. When you pull and grab me it doesn't take much to knock me off my feet. I will always come to your lap and dance for you if you ask me to. But when you grab me and push me around, it makes me want to stay away from you. I love my job and I love giving lap dances. Just ask me first.  

Fourth one: when you're drunk and get way too touchy. Like I said before, majority of girls (including me) are totally fine with you grabbing an ass cheek, or squeezing a boob here and there. But when you're clearly too intoxicated and you make the groping and grabbing go on for too long, it gets a little uncomfortable. I want everyone to have a banging time. I want everyone to be smiling and happy. I am more than okay with you drinking and taking shots off of me. I just don't like it when you're too drunk to know better. I still am a person and I still do deserve respect despite my career. 

Last one: when you're not tipping. This is definitely the biggest and most important one. I love my job for many reasons. The main one (like most people) is because I make money. I make money mostly based on tips. So when I'm twerking and getting on my hands and knees to shake my ass, I want money to be thrown on me. We all know that strippers and one dollar bills go hand and hand. It's because strippers want the money honey! We want to get paid because we are doing a lot of work. Dancing and stripping is a lot harder than it looks. It's the best workout I get all week and I workout hard every day. I do it because I love helping people have a good time, but I also would love to make stacks of cash while doing it. So, for future reference: always, always, always tip your dancers extremely well. It'll make us work harder and stay longer if you do.

So, I hope that it's clarified again that I love my job so much and I wouldn't trade it for anything else. These are just a few pet peeve's of mine that I wanted to share to hopefully help clear a few things up for people who may not know what they're doing at a strip club or are planning on ordering from a mobile service company like mine. Or even to speak for other strippers who feel the same way. But, this is just my opinions, and my own experience. I love everyone, even the people who do these things. I'm here to have a rocking night just like you are. 

-Lola, one of the many Atlanta Female Strippers for hire

Sunday, May 5, 2019

We Just Know What We Are Wanting.

Everybody in life has a different story to tell. Everyone has their own path,their own desires, their own wants, and their own needs. Sometimes, it takes time to discover want one desires to do with their life. However, once you find that desire or you find that path you want to ride along, don't give it up for anything or anyone. This is your life and your journey and you belong on it.
So many people have their own opinions on what your life should look like; and something I've learned is to live how I want to, when I want to, and where I want to. I live in Atlanta and have learned everything in Atlanta. I work in a safe,amazing, and thrilling environment: I am an Atlanta female stripper- and I couldn't love it more. I am a prime example of someone who is in the sex work industry and who genuinely adores her job. I have gotten all the backlash, snarky comments, and angry glares. But I wouldn't think of changing my occupation for a minute. Nobody pressured me into it, nobody is making me do it- I chose this for myself.
There is so much negativity around sex work. Some people assume the worst about us, judge us, or put a story to us that couldn't be further from the truth. Well, I 'm writing this article to set the record straight. I am a normal, joyful, and positive woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. Strip clubs in Atlanta have become my happy place and where I find pleasure and joy. I love what I do, and I say that honestly. I only wish and hope people could open their eyes and see the positive parts of sex work. If the word "sex" had more knowledge and understanding behind it, maybe we would be at the point of acceptance around it. Sex is the most natural and normal action a human being can take part in. Pleasure is something (I feel) that everyone wants. We want to be happy, we want to do things that make us feel good- and if you can't admit that one of the things that makes you feel the best isn't sex, you need to be more honest with yourself. There is absolutely nothing bad, or gross, or dirty about desiring sex. That's the best thing about me being a stripper is that I know I bring pleasure and happiness with what I do. I enjoy making people happy and making them smile. I love helping people fulfill their desires; whether that means making them their favorite meal, or helping them achieve a hard goal, or shaking my ass in their face because they love my naked body! I am not ashamed to say that I get naked in front of a bunch of people and feel my sexiest because I have dozens of people drooling over me. Not too many people can say that.
The sex work industry puts a bad taste in people's mouths because of what they "know" about it. But truly, people know nothing about it.They hear something online or watch it in a movie and believe that that is real life. Unless you talk to a stripper or learn the facts about it, you have no idea what goes on behind the scenes. I work in Atlanta strip clubs and with Atlanta stripper agencies because I want to. Atlanta male strippers and Atlanta female strippers make a lot of money and have a great time doing it. I am speaking about Atlanta because this is where I get my experience. Strip clubs in Atlanta are exciting and all I see from the customers is smiles, laughs, googly eyes, drooling,and a genuine look of pure entertainment. Whether it's a male strip club in Atlanta, a Gentlemen's club in Atlanta, an Atlanta adult entertainment experience, a female strip club in Atlanta, everyone there is having an amazing time. The work is exhilarating and exciting. Every time I perform I get an instant rush of adrenaline and can't help but smile. I have never had a bad or uncomfortable experience stripping. I have never felt pressured to perform or intimidated by a boss. I choose this work, just like all of my co-workers. The flexible hours, the insane money, the adrenaline- all of it factors into why I (and so many others) couldn't be more happy and thrilled to be in this line of work. If we didn't want to do it anymore- we wouldn't.
The sex work industry is full of honest and genuine people who know what they are wanting and who they want to be. They push away negativity and judgement and live their life the way they want to and are supposed to. I have never in my life as a stripper felt dirty or gross about myself. And I have never ever felt ashamed of what I do. I proudly tell people what I do for work and whether they want to agree with it or not, I keep a smile on my face. I try to educate people everywhere to know that this isn't dirty work- we just are more open-minded about life and we understand that people want sex. Have you ever really thought about that? Yes! People want sex. People even need sex! If you're willing and wanting to pay for it and someone agrees to fulfill that need- more power to you! There is nothing wrong with escorting, there is nothing wrong with shaking your titties for money, there is nothing wrong with doing exactly what YOU want. Live how you want to and do what you want to. We are not dirty or slimy people. We are just like you. You wouldn't be able to spot us out of a crowd unless we tell you about ourselves and choose to inform whoever we are talking to about our occupation. I can't say this enough: we are just like you. We have a job, we make money, we do what we need to to get by in the world. I just think we have way more fun doing it.


Again, I love my job. I love being a stripper. I love making money and having a hell of a good time doing it. I love meeting other sex workers and talking about how awesome it is to be so comfortable with ourselves and our sexuality that we have the courage to be exactly who we want to be. I have never felt more confident in my life then when I started stripping. I am here to tell everyone out there that has judgement or negativity about the sex industry that the majority of us are in love with our lives and wouldn't want to change a damn thing- so we will continue to shake our asses for anyone who wants to see it.

-Lola, one of the many Atlanta strippers for hire. 

Saturday, April 6, 2019

How do people deal with jealousy in an open relationship?

The same way people learn to deal with contrast with being afraid for their first day in school, to drive a vehicle (at the very beginning), to speak with people (they find extremely sexy), to go on a very first date, losing your virginity, to cook a meal (they've never cooked before), tend to their garden (better every year that passes), firing a gun (for the first time ever), first time going to a strip club , traveling or moving to a foreign country, so on & so forth. 
Cartoon meme drawing of guy uneffectively using a public bathroom and hold himself by two bathroom walls to keep himself from touching anything but pissing and pooping all over the bathroom in the process.
How to NOT deal with contrast! 😳
We did not come into this world with an exact prescription nor wanting an exact script, diet plan, style of dress attire, particular genre of music to like, kind of company to keep around, one single planned skilled trade to make a living from or way to learn things as we grow up. Everything in life has the contrast of being wanted and the contrast or absence of something unwanted in each and every individual’s life.
Cartoon picture meme of William Shakespeare saying the commonly known phrase,
To be or not be?
 Life has all sorts of variations of subtle, average or extreme moments of contrast that causes soft or strong feelings of uncomfortability, emotional turmoil and fear until this variation is completely avoided, put into a different perspective or the vibration is practiced enough to where it no longer causes discomfort from within which in turn is supposed to be an inner guidance system that simply allows one to sift and sort to find clarity, awareness of one's self and even at times a spiritual awakening of a collective consciousness and the energies and vibrations that are in play in our every being and in every cell in our entire perfect body that supports this consciousness we look out from upon. The human body, the mind & spirit is at its maximum output when people are knowing what they are wanting/not wanting, knowing what they prefer/don't prefer and knowing when their inner voice says let's learn how to do this particular thing better by practicing a repetitive vibration until it becomes easy going, more natural, a lot more familiar or no longer foreign at all anymore. 
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William Shakespeare
This is ultimately what I personally believe life is all about… collecting data. A lot of people ignore the data their gut tells them most of the time are extremely co-dependent or are possibly not open minded to other kinds of views, beliefs or perspectives. Ultimately it boils down to a person just not really knowing what they want, do not know how to stand up for what they are wanting and/or are in total & complete fear of what others might think if they actually stood up for themselves and said, "I LIKE _____________ & I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS." This sometimes can be hard for someone who has practiced this vibration for most of their life. Most likely such suffering slows the growth of the higher consciousness down and disconnects them from their true alignment within themself. To find out more about these teachings go here to some of these audio clip links on YouTube:
👉 Abraham Hicks - click link
👉 Ester Hicks - click link
“ THE LAW OF ATTRACTION “
~ A personal request ~
If this attracts you, changes your vibration and your life is no longer the same please drop me a line and tell us your personal story and how you are on a whole new wave length and channeled vibration. That is if you do not mind. We absolutely ❤️ what this has done in our lives, the lives of those closest to us and fully appreciate witnessing the unfolding of a life full of fun, happiness and collective consciousness!
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Master Manifestor

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry

My Story of How I Started Stripping and Dancing in the Adult Entertainment Industry 


My name is Cherry, I am an 18 year old exotic dancer for a private company based in Atlanta, Georgia. I started dancing soon after my birthday and haven't stopped since! These are some bullet points of topics and real life situations I couldn't seem to find and thus I wish to enlighten for you and any beginners out there reading this adult blog looking for resources and or simply a platform to relate on.



Trial and Error 

To remember that any aspects and challenges we will inevitably face in life is a learning experience. Give yourself some slack! At the end of the day it's all about understanding the obstacle you are encountering with an open mind and acknowledging your position attached to this setback. There is no need to rush yourself to become something overnight because we are all a continual creation of our aspirations.

I found myself trying to become something I wasn't (Which I plan to touch over in "Private Parties / Club Life" and "Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal",) and it took a lot of trial and error within myself alongside my career to focus in on working towards my personal priorities with being careful to my craft. I believe in individualism to be a beautiful representation of what you can bring to the table with your work and what you bring home.

Accepting each 'failure', for lack of a better term, as an opportunity to learn what to do in the future.
I have definitely bought the wrong dance wear and had to push through those occasional mistakes but make the best of it. Next time, I won't pick an easy route but invest for the long run. My first night dancing was an 8 hour shift at a club in brand new heels, without socks or wrapping a toe or two. Although, I prefer to wear thigh high to comfort my feet a bit...I did go home that night with blisters on my ankles and toes.

Don't overthink those mistakes because there will be a solution to most learning curves. I found wrapping my toes and wearing thick socks did the job.





Expectations And Reality 

A sufficient amount of controversy connected to the exotic entertainment industry, in my opinion coming from the perspective of the dancer, has to do with a lot of expectations versus the reality. There is more to it. More to the entertainer as an individual , whether it be a male stripper or a female stripper for instistance. We still put our pants on the same way you do. There is a nice medium of appreciation for that concept.

I was taken aback of how many humanitarians I came across during the beginning stages of my exotic work.
Anxious to the idea of being 'alone in it' or that maybe I'd become numb for some mysterious reason, I initially thought but quickly understood I simply had to take a step back from the self-sabotage mentality. There is nothing wrong with staying within your own path and loving that security. Although, I found myself disappointed with my own path that it was never enough to the standard I thought to be the expectation. I was focused too much on where I wanted to be and forgot how much I am still learning and how far I've come. Which is the humbling reality of almost every experience I have encountered in my daily life. Especially dancing, I have broken habitual self-sabotaging patterns and worries I take with me to this day. Being grateful for challenges to improve your craft and confidence is empowering.





Drugs


No matter where we go, as we grow and observe throughout this journey we take in your personal lifes and in the work we practice there will be exposure to all lifestyles and barriers we may sincerely relate to or are simply unfamiliar with. I myself, year and almost two months clean now, would like to capitalize on inner conflict. All those feelings and questions you carry are valid and normal.

Each day is taking everything at your own pace, and creating your boundaries attached to those confrontations but visualising your progress following you within the days that will rain and will shine is a comforting balance between yourself and your work. You are not alone in establishing qualities of indapancy from your struggle(s) and still make a living, happy and healthy. Take your pride in the commitment of  this balance, because you made it this far and only you can subject yourself to the unwanted. You set your goals and boundaries. I am very happy and healthy working for a company promoting and lovingly encouraging sobriety,





Private Parties /  Club Life 


Coming from a club to a private company. I want to share my own feelings on positions of self-drive and benefits of indapant work. It is rather rewarding to be in a circumstance of flexible  and manageable hours and reaching goals up to your own limitations. Working for myself, I found to be very freeing to say the least. Club life was very intriguing on a physical aspect to staying accountable on working out and gaining my upper body strength doing pole work was always an aspiration of mine I've had for a long time. I obtained communicational skills that I did not know I had the ability to learn and as well bring into my personal life! I am confident with my verbal representation now.

Although, I don't know if I'd ever have interest in going back to any specific establishment. Without any negative connotation. But I definitely enjoy the freedom of traveling and  the exposure to new private parties with having a clientele that is energetically there for me is inevitably a beneficial experience for an active mind. Organization of priorities can be as fun as you make it. Just as I bring up "Trial and Error", it is all about finding your outlet that works best to coincide with your flow!



Understanding Your Goal VS Following A Goal


  To conclude, for my last subject I am going to touch on is all about goals. Goals! What is the goal for you? What do you want and what you are putting in will be the true turnover. Giving yourself a set reminder of short term and long goals. This is a positive attribute to you spiritually for peace of mind and your end goal. I found writing out all my goals, to a daily regimen or the next 5 years kept me in a clear mind. Staying proactive towards your future. Dancing has been the best self discipline towards almost all of my generalized goals, it forced a side of my mind to think outside of the box and pushed me to want more out of my goals with comfortability and ease. I can't take back any of the experiencing and lessons I've endured, all for the best!


Thanks for reading! If you ever want to book me or learn more about me go my dancer profile page.

Look forward to seeing you!

- Cherry


P.S. - Check me out getting spanked on live stream here. 💗




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Tuesday, December 4, 2018

Should I go to a strip club tonight or order one or two strippers online in Atlanta?

Atlanta Strippers

If you are one person or just a small group of about 2 to 5 people then going to a strip club in Atlanta might make a little sense but when you get around 5 people and up you want to hands down order strippers to come to you! Why you ask? Simple. There's typically a $20 cover charge on weekends, drinks are ridiculously over priced, in most decent adult establishments you aren't allowed to touch, you have to pay for transportation if drinking and last but not least about 70% of your money is going mostly in the hands of the strip club that the stripper will never see. As soon as you and the four people with you sit down, order your drinks, get your first lapdance you will have already paid approximately $250 to $300. For less than that alone you can order one to come TO YOU for a couple of hours at least! See what I mean? Not to mention touching is allowed and most of the strippers in Atlanta play hot and wild party games that are too hot to mention on here. 

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